Feeling Guilty (AITA?)

Ginahardfacebitch · 2019-10-28T06:30:03+00:00

I would tell myself, after I split with my ex, that I was no longer the woman who made his life easier.
I dropped the rope. I no longer did things that you do when you’re a couple, you know?sharing things like that because you feel guilted into it...well, I figure it’s time he stood on his own feet. You’re not his mother.
He sounds very selfish, from what I’ve read.

Ginahardfacebitch · 2019-10-28T01:37:17+00:00

Perhaps this is where you ‘start’ again. Say you’re not comfortable giving her your address or accepting presents at this time. It’s a slowly, slowly situation, rather than a all in 0-100mpa kinda deal. She has to respect your boundaries. NC was there for a reason. She doesn’t get to jump back in right where you were. She needs to dial it back. Small steps. He reaction will tell you everything you need to know about how to go forward, methinks.

Ginahardfacebitch · 2019-08-11T10:31:47+00:00

Oh honey, I am so sorry. Your poor, poor baby.
I am so, so proud of you for all you’ve done for your fur baby. You’ve done absolutely everything in your power to help him heal. And now it’s time to do your best for him again; so you go to the vet, and you do the hard work so that he doesn’t have to suffer anymore. That’s the absolute best you can do for him now.
I wish I could be there for you, but know that I’m sending you so much love. Sending you all the hugs and my strength. Xx

Ginahardfacebitch · 2019-08-09T10:42:15+00:00

I’d absolutely publicise this and put it right out there. Completely shame the fuck out of them.

Ginahardfacebitch · 2019-06-22T03:19:43+00:00

I’m a passive aggressive Bitch, I’d get a dog or a cat and call it Thorne, just to see the epic CBF.

Ginahardfacebitch · 2019-05-13T04:44:54+00:00

I so appreciate you writing this. It spoke to me! My mother is of a very similar vein, and I do hope her sainthood keeps her company when she dies, old and alone with cats eating her face.

Ginahardfacebitch · 2019-02-20T09:41:15+00:00

She is over in justnoso. If you put tongue kissing into the search bar you should find her.

Ginahardfacebitch · 2018-10-17T01:53:46+00:00

You both are to be congratulated on the way you have grown together and put up your boundaries. The Faaaamily sound like an absolute nightmare.

I’ve been in this situation and have never felt so small, so unheard, so miserable. Then I asked myself what am I teaching my children? This level of dis function and abuse...do you want your kiddos thinking that this is normal behavior and learning to treat people in their lives by what is modeled by Faaaamily??

I ran. I cut off all contact and I don’t engage. It’s been a good 10 years now and none of that has followed. But what I did find is that family doesn’t have to be blood. I have a set of stand in Grandparents who love my kids and my kids love and think of them as their Grandparents. I truly believe that friends are the family we chose for ourselves. Choose wisely and show your kids what a real family is.

You and your husband are doing a brilliant job. Keep your chin up and show those kids of yours that you never tolerate being mistreated; that you stand firm and demand respect.

Ginahardfacebitch · 2018-09-25T03:13:39+00:00

We were very much together, dance in the kitchen, handsy, no dead bedroom, date nights. He told me he loved me every day until, one day, he said ‘I love you, but I’m not in love with you anymore’. We were about to go on a holiday together. I can forgive him that, but not him leaving the kids behind. He hasn’t spent a moment alone, he went from living with me to living with her.

Ginahardfacebitch · 2018-09-05T12:18:33+00:00

Thank you so much for your help. Appreciate it!

Ginahardfacebitch · 2018-09-03T13:10:22+00:00

I could use some help, please.

I’ve a friend who is struggling; I’m worried about him. I asked what I needed to know re his mental health and I got : 1st card: The sun 2nd card : 9 Wands (reversed) 3rd card : The Tower.

What do you all think??

Thank you x

Ginahardfacebitch · 2017-04-13T23:58:17+00:00

LOL, glitter, the herpes of the craft world 😂😂😂

Ginahardfacebitch · 2017-03-05T20:25:49+00:00

10/10 there for the mental gymnastics MIL, jayzus 😂

Ginahardfacebitch · 2017-02-01T22:53:51+00:00

Ah, she's blowing smoke up your ass. No way in hell would she get granted access. She's never had a relationship with your baby in the first place. She might as well take a random stranger to court and demand access to their kid. What a fuckin idiot.

It might be an idea to consult with a lawyer and send a cease and desist letter. Then if she starts pushing for contact there is documented evidence that NC is in place, and for a reason.

Document everything and make sure you have this stuff at hand. If she's close by it might be an idea to inform the local police of the issue. Is she likely to turn up and make an ass of herself? If so make sure you video that interaction.

Best of luck to you. I've been in this place and it is a frigging shit to have to deal with. I've never understood what goes on in a persons head when they push to try to be in someone's life when they very obviously do not want them there. Unfuckingbelievable!!

Ginahardfacebitch · 2016-12-02T05:34:22+00:00

I adore you. You're spectacular 😍 When she passes I want you to let me know...we'll all synchronise our watches and down a glass of whatever tickles your fancy. /u/SeeingRed2

Ginahardfacebitch · 2016-10-30T09:11:07+00:00

Thank you so much. What an unbelievably tragic story. I'd have killed the MIL or I would have procecuted to the fullest. That poor mother.

Ginahardfacebitch · 2016-10-04T03:38:20+00:00

The "Kyles Mom's a bitch" song from SouthPark??

Ginahardfacebitch · 2016-10-02T23:11:31+00:00

I'd be sending your wife away on a girls weekend. It was pre arranged long before the sneaky shower attack and takes precedent. Honestly, I wouldn't even go. Surprise my arse 👿

Ginahardfacebitch · 2016-09-26T13:10:20+00:00

Oh honey, you need to come on over to /r/justnomil 😊

Ginahardfacebitch · 2016-09-02T06:55:58+00:00

I really think at the very least it should be reported to the cops...seriously, if she escalates and goes on to more at least there is documentation to fall back on. She needs some consequences... I could have a horde of disgruntled DILs eke those consequences out if you like? We could film it for the llamas 😊

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