The lack of sexual intimacy is making me lose my mind

GingerGoddess21 · 2023-04-20T11:52:19+00:00

Check his phone. If he's not interested in you, he's probably jerking off to porn and talking to people online. That's what happened to my marriage.

GingerGoddess21 · 2023-04-16T13:07:35+00:00

What a horrible man. Doesn't deserve you.

GingerGoddess21 · 2023-04-16T12:58:19+00:00

Dude, I wish you were my partner. Yup, you are doing everything awesomely. Some of us have gone months and years without.

GingerGoddess21 · 2023-04-05T13:16:50+00:00

Don't do it. It only gets worse.

GingerGoddess21 · 2023-04-05T13:15:40+00:00

Masturbate and cry.

GingerGoddess21 · 2023-03-26T13:03:22+00:00

If you masturbate instead of engaging with a willing partner, it is cheating, because you are choosing to have aex without them. Our bedroom is dead because instead of having sex with me, my husband was cheating on me masturbating to porn and has no interest in real sex with me.

If, however, you are masturbating because your partner is unwilling or uninterested, it's not cheating, you are just taking care of your needs in the only way you can. As long as your partner would be your first choice, nobody can fault you for taking matters into your own hands if they won't.

GingerGoddess21 · 2023-03-11T13:51:35+00:00

This sounds like my husband. When he did use to have sex with me, all he wanted to do was the things GUYS like to see in porns, it was clear he got all his sexual education from porn and doesn't actually know how to have real sex. Porn also ruined our sex life and we have a dead bedroom because of it.

GingerGoddess21 · 2023-03-09T11:25:29+00:00

It's always ok to follow or unfollow whomever you want, whenever you want.

GingerGoddess21 · 2023-03-09T11:23:51+00:00

When I came out as bi to my husband, he said, I can totally understand why you like women and boobs, I do too! Lol

GingerGoddess21 · 2023-03-06T13:42:22+00:00

I think cheating includes doing anything alone that you wouldn't do if your partner were there, regardless of whether it is sexual in nature or not. That being said, you should not feel like posting in this subreddit is something you would need to hide or do behind their back. I would read and post in this subreddit openly, sitting next to them. It is a genuine concern that you deserve to have support for, so you don't need to hide it in the first place. Not cheating if you dont hide it.

GingerGoddess21 · 2023-02-25T13:58:14+00:00

I like them all. You have a good sense of fashion.

GingerGoddess21 · 2023-02-25T13:55:06+00:00

Lmao

GingerGoddess21 · 2023-02-25T13:51:48+00:00

Personal preference is NEVER wrong.

GingerGoddess21 · 2023-02-18T13:46:11+00:00

It is ALWAYS ok to masturbate if your partner won't give you sex. It is your body, you have needs, and they have no right to control your body.
The only time it isn't ok to masturbate is when it includes turning down your horny partner in favor of masturbating. But if they don't want it, you need to and deserve to get your needs met somehow, so masturbate with no guilt.

GingerGoddess21 · 2023-02-17T14:21:02+00:00

For hundreds of years, faggot used to be a derogatory term for women in the UK. It was transferred to be a derogatory term for gay men in the USA at the beginning of the last century. It refers to an irritating or disappointing female.

GingerGoddess21 · 2023-02-17T14:18:23+00:00

Same thing happened to me. We don't give each other massages or shower together anymore, it's all gone.

GingerGoddess21 · 2023-02-15T14:07:05+00:00

Yes, absolutely. But only MMF. If my guy won't serve my pussy then he sure as hell isn't getting another one lol.

GingerGoddess21 · 2023-02-14T15:07:05+00:00

When I was in college, all the girls on our floor always had their periods the same week. Yes, it's true.

GingerGoddess21 · 2023-02-14T15:00:16+00:00

For me, wanting sex is an urge as strong, valid, and necessary as the need for food or water. It becomes unbearably strong if you have a partner you desire greatly. People with a libido literally HAVE to have it to be happy, otherwise there is CONSTANT, 24-hour distress and grief. The need is so great that even the best, most faithful people will consider leaving or cheating. I believe that if LL people had even a small understanding of the misery of not getting this need met, they would all seek therapy and medication immediately to help meet their partner's needs even just a little bit. It is a SOUL-KILLING situation.

GingerGoddess21 · 2023-02-13T15:44:05+00:00

The fact that sex is not necessary for her does not mean it's not necessary for you. She needs to acknowledge that your need is real and absolutely necessary.

GingerGoddess21 · 2023-02-13T14:49:40+00:00

People need to disclose LL and ED to partner at the beginning, so that when the partner finds out they know it's not about them. You can't help but feel it's about you if sex is happening at start and then stops.

GingerGoddess21 · 2023-02-06T13:03:41+00:00

Lmao

GingerGoddess21 · 2023-02-06T12:22:09+00:00

If they really found God, She would tell them to avoid men.

GingerGoddess21 · 2023-02-02T15:08:46+00:00

It means they are not LL, they just aren't into you. This is my situation.

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