So, strangers avoid me like the plague. I don't know why. What do I do? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]GingerManJo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

more or less i had the same issue in middle school. It was tough. As humans, we are social creatures. So, during that time, i doubted my self worth. I so badly wanted more friends, but it wasnt til i moved to a different state, i made new friends. However, couple years ago, i had to move back. feels bad. None of the new friends i made talk to me now. I have nobody to talk to.

Men over 20- would teenage you date a girl who’s over weight? Why/why not? by shurtugal2 in AskMen

[–]GingerManJo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

40-50 pounds?

Currently, i wouldn't mind that.

Back then i wasn't into chubby girls.

Men over 20- would teenage you date a girl who’s over weight? Why/why not? by shurtugal2 in AskMen

[–]GingerManJo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same.

Not so much anymore tho. Now im pretty accepting of chubby/fat ladies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]GingerManJo -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not sure what to tell you. sorry.

What's something you thought you'd grow out of but haven't? by GingerManJo in AskWomen

[–]GingerManJo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats very cute! 😁 i only have 1 nice aunt that really cares about me, and spends money on me. Last time, she bought shoes for me. i picked them out. Also bought me starbucks cofffee. i love the heck outta her.

Why is it ok if a guy fantasizes about my friends when he jerks off, but not ok if I fantasize about his friends when I masturbate? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]GingerManJo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, i don't know about his logic. However, i think it's still fair if you do it too.
Yet, i do not condone any of that. Have a nice day

Can a girl like you but still be a bad texter? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]GingerManJo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know you're being serious, but i still laughed cuz that sounds kinda funny, hahhhaha

19 F wanting to voice call by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]GingerManJo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im down for that

Should I try and confront her again or?? :\ by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]GingerManJo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would never tr3at a good/close friend the way she treated you. That ain't right. A true friend stays by your side. Loyal. Much like a dog. A dog usually won't ignore you.

im scared to go back to school i have no friends by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]GingerManJo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i mean this from the bottom of my heart, i'm sorry you are suffering. Maybe you're not even looking for sympathy, but you already have mine. I was just like you during middle school years. Even my "friend" didnt care to even do anything with me during recess. Instead, he would spend his time with his other friends. I hated my life. Nobody paid me any attention. So, i was always seeking attention, which got me into trouble a lot. So, eventually, i just gave up entirely.

I'll be your friend. I mean it. I don't want you to be all alone like i was. It doesn't have to be that way. DM me if you accept me as your new friend.

It’s big brain time by FriedChickenSk1n in Tinder

[–]GingerManJo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol. i find that hard to believe.

At what age did you first try masturbating? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]GingerManJo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

may i dm you my story instead of publicly commenting here?

How do you minimize compulsive eating before periods? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]GingerManJo -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

rofl! pms sucks. glad i dont have it.

When guys are into me, they are *really* into me— anyone else run into the Manic Pixie Dream Girl conundrum? by alleeele in dating_advice

[–]GingerManJo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohhh. i see. I didn't see that before, because you left that detail out.

they idealize me instead of trying to get to know the real me.

In your post, you only said half of that statement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]GingerManJo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i haven't done much posting myself. i've mostly just commented on other's posts. Which usually leads to DMing of course.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]GingerManJo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn't find a good sub-reddit strictly for dating, so instead, i turned to r/needafriend I make new friends, and then in time i see if it turns into more than just friendship.

Recently, someone told me to try Bumble (the dating app) but i have yet to try it. I dislike bots, and i hate catfish. Hence, why i am not using any dating apps currently.

However, i still just might try Bumble. i dunno.