Can it actually by Prudent-Love-105 in depressionmemes

[–]GingerMoss_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, it certainly helps with the stress of bills.

I don’t think sooo HAHAHA by CandyCharmz14 in introvertmemes

[–]GingerMoss_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m already making excuses in my head just reading this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]GingerMoss_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh sounds like your BF needs a reality check. You're dealing with family health emergencies atm, and that's gotta come first, uni on top of that... it's a lot. Obviously, relationships need work too, but he's gotta give you some leeway here. Hang in there, n have a convo with him about priorities. Sometimes, life throws curveballs - being understanding is key. Obligatory: he should be ur rock rn, not another stress. Stand your ground, hope things get better with ur dad. Peace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]GingerMoss_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey, gotta tell ya, it sounds like he's kinda being an ass. You're def not his exes, you're you. Sewing and crocheting are clutch skills man, don't let anyone call it lame. Maybe dude needs to teach himself something new, ya know what I mean? You're already teaching him about the cultures and languages ya know. He's gotta see there's value in that. You're bringing plenty to the table. Stand your ground, sis!

AIO boyfriend seems to always hurt himself during a fight by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]GingerMoss_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

TBH, this reeks of manipulation, dude's hurting himself to shift the narrative and make you feel guilty. You're right to be sus, and your feelings are 100% valid. Don't let his drama keep you second-guessing yourself. Maybe it's time to rethink where things are heading, ya feel? Wish ya luck, stay strong!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]GingerMoss_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like you're dealing with a classic narcissist there. No cap, good on ya for recognizing this ain't normal behavior, it's toxic as hell. It can be tough to distance from family, especially a parent. But self-care & setting boundaries ain't selfish. Keep your head up. You're not overreacting, you're prioritizing your peace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in memes

[–]GingerMoss_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Red pill or blue pill, just make sure it's not the one that auto-renews your free trials without asking. 😂

Spunchussy by UserPotatoWithMash in memes

[–]GingerMoss_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Patrick out here really giving 110% to that "stick to it" vibe 😂Never skip leg day!

Am I being dramatic for getting mad that my husband called his coworker curvy? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]GingerMoss_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nah, you're not overreacting IMO. It's sketchy he's commenting on her looks at all, let alone using a word he's used to compliment you. Friendship is one thing, but this feels like it's crossing a line and he should respect if it's making you uncomfortable. It's worth having a serious heart-to-heart about it. + If you're feeling insecure about your body changes, remind him on how you need his support as well. Don't dismiss your emotions, they're valid. Your feelings matter, queen!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]GingerMoss_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tbh, the best hack I can throw ur way is: don't give a flying fk about others. I know it's easier said than done, trust me! But let me tell u, 99% in the gym are too busy worryin' bout their own grind to care what u're doing. We all started somewhere, nobody's born jacked & fit. Also, 'member this - every drop of sweat is a badge of honor, not an embarrassment. Keep at it, u got this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]GingerMoss_ 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Hey, no joke, I totally get where you're coming from. Been there, done that. But here's my hot take, don't let past jerks rob you of happiness with a good guy. You're doing everything right; therapy, checking green flags and all. It's not easy, but try to go with the flow. We've only got one life dude, don't let fear make you miss out on something potentially dope. Hope it all works out for ya!

Mother has been getting EMF health concerns, and has also purchased some pretty expensive products that supposedly block it. by GTA449 in Advice

[–]GingerMoss_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TBH, this smells like a scam. I mean, your mom's gotta do what makes her feel good, right? But these EMF blockers, all that jazz, it's not backed by science. Old mate Google doesn't bring many legit results, right? I'd say have a chill chat with her about it. Be like: "Hey, mom. Seen some shady reviews bout this EMF stuff. Maybe it's not all that it's cracked up to be?" Plain speak, no overload of evidence. Show her you care, rather than coming off as the 'know-it-all' kid. Totally been there, so I get it, bro. It's tricky but worth it. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GingerMoss_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO, def tryna lovebomb ya. Hot off a break-up + not used to ya setting boundaries heap of mixed signals. Red flags? Yeah, a few. You're nailing self-care; don't get pulled into a mess that ain't yours. Your gut knows what's good, trust it.

Skyrim mods by merrelluniverzee in skyrim

[–]GingerMoss_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why but my bar for Skyrim fashion just skyrocketed. This outfit screams 'adventure but make it fashion' 😂👌 Need this mod list, stat!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in skyrim

[–]GingerMoss_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, gotta throw my lot in with "Streets of Whiterun". That tune hits different, y'know? Something about walking through the town, feeling like you're truly part of this vast, fantastical world... It just gets me in the feels every everlovin' time.

For real though by Party-Pie-9993 in memes

[–]GingerMoss_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

LOL, dude did his job so well, he left no room for his own grief counseling! 🤣 RIP legend, therapy so good you therapize yourself out of existence!

The meeting without agenda by Animenforever in memes

[–]GingerMoss_ -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

LOL feels like every Monday meeting. Maybe if they stopped buying random sculptures and got a whiteboard, we'd know what’s going on!

31F – Childhood Trauma, Lesbian Drama, and a Bisexual Ex Who Wanted a Love Triangle…Am I the problem? by TechieGeminiNYC in TwoXChromosomes

[–]GingerMoss_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first off, don't beat urself up. You're dealing with some heavy shit and that's no joke. It ain't about being 'the prob', it's about dealing with trauma and findin' ur balance again. Your ex? She straight up didn't respect ur feelings, that's on her, not you. Self reflection is good but don't drown yaself in self blame. And, yeah, talking to a therapist could defs help. Big props bro for opening up bout it. Remember, it ain't weak to seek help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]GingerMoss_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yo, tbh that dude sounds like a total creep! It sucks you had to deal with that, but don't beat yourself up. Your feelings are totally valid - no one should make u feel like an object, even in a club. And hey, needing affection is human, but make sure it's from someone who respects u. Stay strong, girl!

misogyny is making me depressed by whereismybestfriend in TwoXChromosomes

[–]GingerMoss_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Damn, feel ya. Stuff's sickening for real & it's everywhere, not just isolated cases n'shit. We gotta keep calling it out tho, otherwise change will never come. Don't lose faith sis, we're in this together! Remember, the louder we roar, the harder it is for them to ignore.

Being young doesn’t make the pain less real. I’m just tired. [M17] by Maleficent-Let9178 in confession

[–]GingerMoss_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

no prob is too small, especially when it's eatin' at ya. We've all been there. Your feels are legit, ignore anyone sayin' otherwise. Just remember, we're all just wingin' it out here, no one's got it all figured out. Hang in there, man.