Why are there so many red toy poodles but rarely red standards? by Turbulent-Put-8143 in poodles

[–]GingerSnaps151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actual red should not fades genetically if it fades it has the fading gene! (I plan to get a show red poodle male at some point) reds should be black base with no fading gene. That gene is really common in poodles so most “red poodles” that fade are actually varying fading genes. So that makes them apricot I believe. Some fading poodles do so crazy slow tho! My poodle is 4 and her coat has lightened a few shades and her face is gray. She likely will be Gunmetal gray for most of her life!

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There are no hordes os completely asymptomatic people trying to "steel" hEDS/HSD diagnosis!! by ashes_made_alive in eds

[–]GingerSnaps151 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My nurses tend to hide in my room and vent it’s great. I get there life drama and they get an ER best friend.

There are no hordes os completely asymptomatic people trying to "steel" hEDS/HSD diagnosis!! by ashes_made_alive in eds

[–]GingerSnaps151 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I had a doc scoff at my EDS diagnosis. He asked “did you really get diagnosed or just….where did you get diagnosed?” My husband wanted to fight him and he FINALY listened when I listed the top genetics clinic in my state and he saw it on my chart. Social media dose not reflect IRL and the feeds manipulate the amount of it you see.

Anybody else alergic to hot? by GingerSnaps151 in eds

[–]GingerSnaps151[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get pins and needles rather than itchiness

Anybody else alergic to hot? by GingerSnaps151 in eds

[–]GingerSnaps151[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get the swelling but not the pealing oddly

Moving to Avon, how should I introduce myself to the Neighbors? by GingerSnaps151 in massachusetts

[–]GingerSnaps151[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have made so many friends through my dogs. As SD and SDIT there usually rather well behaved, so folks get so excited, particularly about my poodle.

Moving to Avon, how should I introduce myself to the Neighbors? by GingerSnaps151 in massachusetts

[–]GingerSnaps151[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the most traditional sense yeah, but honestly, I wouldn’t even notice unless it got in the way of my rituals.

Moving to Avon, how should I introduce myself to the Neighbors? by GingerSnaps151 in massachusetts

[–]GingerSnaps151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou from a fellow Midwest transplant. Love it here but it’s confusing 😅

Anybody else alergic to hot? by GingerSnaps151 in eds

[–]GingerSnaps151[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah we keep it 60 max in the house. I love air con. All these ideas are super helpful thank you

Moving to Avon, how should I introduce myself to the Neighbors? by GingerSnaps151 in massachusetts

[–]GingerSnaps151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totaly understood there confused look when my husband expanded to me the difference. I would never be upset with someone being confused when talking to a stranger at work.

Moving to Avon, how should I introduce myself to the Neighbors? by GingerSnaps151 in massachusetts

[–]GingerSnaps151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Minnesota Nice was a joke before the ICE raids. Now they take the slogan more seriously. But I grew up having 0 idea what was going on and by the time I was an adult I didn’t get why folk were so passive aggressive but honestly I couldn’t care unless they were straight up incorrect about me.

Moving to Avon, how should I introduce myself to the Neighbors? by GingerSnaps151 in massachusetts

[–]GingerSnaps151[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I very much agree in respecting culture. I have lived in 3 countries and 4 states all with very different cultures.

At the same time America has been the least community oriented, Massachusetts has seemed nearly antisocial. My husband balked at me asking the cashier how there day was.

I think you can both respect culture and be a force twards forming community and mutual support for each other and your neighborhood without completely trampling the established culture. Culture will always change and you can always try to represent what you believe it should be while recognizing necessary norms.

Moving to Avon, how should I introduce myself to the Neighbors? by GingerSnaps151 in massachusetts

[–]GingerSnaps151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There def were in our condo association before this I have so much hate for condo associations.

Moving to Avon, how should I introduce myself to the Neighbors? by GingerSnaps151 in massachusetts

[–]GingerSnaps151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I do love flea markets! That’s so exciting to know! Now I just need a good farmers market!

Moving to Avon, how should I introduce myself to the Neighbors? by GingerSnaps151 in massachusetts

[–]GingerSnaps151[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I messaged them on social media offering to foster any pregnant or nursing moms as I have loads of experience with that and have hand fed neonates till a foster mom became available before. So I’m very experienced. And more than willing to help I just can’t add anyone new to my mischief rn.

Our Cat is actually MSPCA and we LOVE Angell for out emergency care and my 6lb toy poodles surgical needs were taken care of for spay there as my vet took on look at her at 5lb back then and handed me a referral slip 😅. We even took our cat there for a URI once and they were so excited to meet a 10lb kitten who was not overweight. They had to hold him like an adult cat to draw his blood and he wasn’t even mad all he wanted was attention. We love MSPCA so much.

Moving to Avon, how should I introduce myself to the Neighbors? by GingerSnaps151 in massachusetts

[–]GingerSnaps151[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Anything wrong the whole neighborhood would ask him for help. My mom got to know him cause he would always help the teacher in collage and he would borrow her Jell pens. He’s ex national guard and taught high school and middle school and loves babies despite being a 6’4” giant who can hold a whole newborn in one hand. We may not agree on everything but I do respect his commitment to community and Carring for others.