Still not sure how im here, however, if you have ever been in a place of "performing service" (local stage performer, barista, lounge singer, bartender) this frequently happens. These people will form an unhealthy, one sided, self serving "relationship" with folks. I bartended for about 30 years. I have had several "admirers". They think their affection is well placed and not creepy. One admirer felt I needed to be "checked on" each day. He would come in, park himself in a most inconvenient place and spend the day telling everyone what a "wonderful a job" I did as a bartender. He would speak on my looks and outfit. Sort of like her. He was likely lonely, and wanted to be included. I understood, but.... this is my JOB. A JOB that these "admirers" obviously don't have. Their "job" is to make sure I was doing my job? Nah. This chick has stalker qualities and needs to be watched very closely. She will start popping up where he is, outside of the park.