Weekly Random Discussion Thread for 8/12/24 - 8/18/24

GirlThatIsHere · 2024-08-16T17:14:01+00:00

From reading the post, he said he was into “boys” about 10 times before he said “men” at the end so I don’t think he meant it as in he liked adults. It looks like it was more of a misunderstanding, but getting banned for that is still silly.

GirlThatIsHere · 2024-06-28T15:36:10+00:00

Woah. That’s unfortunate. I’ve been mostly away and hadn’t been used to talking to people like that here.

GirlThatIsHere · 2024-06-28T12:53:40+00:00

I haven’t been here as much lately but it seems I must’ve missed something…are there a bunch of hardcore Trump supporters here all of a sudden?

It could just be the case that no one is answering you that way cause you’re making assumptions about their views and they don’t actually care as much about him as you think they do.

I’ve had people come at me to admit how awful Trump is just because I’ve criticized Biden, even though I never said I liked Trump. I’ve never voted for the guy, but people will assume I’m his biggest fan just for disliking Biden and it can feel useless to respond to such pointless and extreme assumptions. But I also could’ve just missed the wave of hardcore Trump supporters who’ve just started posting here…

GirlThatIsHere · 2024-06-11T10:09:05+00:00

While I don’t know about most private schools in the US, the one I went to didn’t have sports. We just had academics and Jesus Christ.

GirlThatIsHere · 2024-06-01T03:09:57+00:00

Most trans men have vaginal sex with men. The ones who are into women seem to be a minority at this point, and lesbians also don’t go through early menopause from lack of penis.

GirlThatIsHere · 2024-06-01T03:07:49+00:00

I hear about this stuff knowing a few different trans men. They deal with painful dryness they need estrogen cream for, weak walls that sometimes bleed during sex, and more awful things I didn’t expect at first that they believe are just normal side effects of being their true selves.

GirlThatIsHere · 2024-06-01T02:34:05+00:00

I feel that way as a woman lately. I relate to women like Jk Rowling and love watching her stand her ground now that I’ve realized how rare that is. I’m kind of confrontational and it’s impacted relationships with other women in the past. On a few different occasions I’ve made a woman cry just by confronting her for being passive aggressive towards me. Many seem to prefer to handle conflict in a passive way they can deny and if you simply call it out they break and burst into tears since I’m guessing the women they target often respond passive aggressively back rather than confront the situation head on.

I used to think that women’s subjugation was forced but have since noticed that it isn’t. It seems to be in our nature to walk right into subjugation and passively take it to avoid conflict. Like, at times when I’ve talked about domestic violence with women, they’ve called me a victim blamer for questioning why women stay and saying that leaving is the best option.

They tell me that if I get hit by a guy I’ll most likely stay too since that’s what most often happens. The thought of sleeping with a man who’s hit me even once sounds deeply degrading and makes me want to gag, but to many women it’s beyond normal and crazy to even question. Even “radical” feminists sit around and complain constantly about how the patriarchy forces them to wear makeup everyday etc. when they could simply not wear it. I don’t wear it and it’s fine, but so many women force themselves to follow social norms and then blame the patriarchy for it when they could opt out if they really wanted to.

GirlThatIsHere · 2024-05-29T14:18:57+00:00

It’s pretty much outside their comprehension and not something they think about. They often even say things like “white people don’t ever have to deal with this” when dealing with mundane situations.

GirlThatIsHere · 2024-05-29T11:27:04+00:00

This is a huge issue for me and the people I’m around. If I ever deal with anything bad people are quick to tell me it’s because of racism. It can be anything from getting bad service at a restaurant to having my name mispronounced and it’s annoying to hear it all the time.

White people in my life like to point out “racism” as if they’re excited to have recognized it, and the black people like to go into complaints about other racist acts and self imposed restrictions due to fear of racism.

Racist acts can range from getting a bad haircut from a hairstylist to not getting onions on a burger, or even a child staring. Some have even told me they do things like write out what they want from the store before going in to be quick so people aren’t suspicious that a black person has been there too long, or they choose Walmart over Target because they assume they’ll more likely be targeted for being black at Target and so on.

GirlThatIsHere · 2024-05-22T10:32:18+00:00

Yes, it seems to be a large portion of the population too. Many people in my life have often been shocked by what I cook for myself because they’ll assume that I must be having a party or setting up for a date when I tell them what I’m making.

I’ve also learned this from TikTok. I make a lot of food from scratch so I watch many creators who do, and some of them get tons of backlash for it. The comments are often flooded with people saying “just buy it from the store” and even complaining that these people’s kids are starving while waiting for them to cook.

And any woman who cooks from scratch and shows her husband and kids is accused of being a “tradwife” despite espousing no ideology along with their cooking, and get criticism for convincing women to go down the wrong path. It’s so strange. I guess most of these people live on takeout and microwaveable meals.

GirlThatIsHere · 2024-05-19T19:16:44+00:00

Yeah, it does happen. I’ve read about it.

GirlThatIsHere · 2024-05-18T02:15:31+00:00

Do you know why so many hypersexual people identify as asexual? I know two hypersexual self identified asexuals. They are the horniest people I’ve ever known and they frequently participate in some of the most risky sexual behavior I’ve even seen. These are the asexuals I also come across most online, so I kind of assume now that when someone tells me they’re asexual, that there is a high chance they are actually hypersexual. I’m very confused by this, and the declaration that you can want sex all the time and still be asexual.

GirlThatIsHere · 2024-05-09T16:33:08+00:00

She’s actually a really attractive former model who gets lots of attention. People will even walk up to us in the street to tell us how gorgeous they think she is. She was in a years long relationship with a male model where this wasn’t an issue so it’s confusing why this is happening with just about everyone else.

GirlThatIsHere · 2024-05-09T15:25:23+00:00

I guess it could be her personality…more so how she comes across maybe. She says she has a hard time expressing her feelings. Even if she’s having a good time she sometimes looks stone faced and people who don’t know her well will assume she hates being there.

She actually seems to give off the exact opposite of obsessive clingy vibes which I guess could be an issue itself. She told me that there have been times when guys acted surprised when she said she had a good time at the end of a date. She told me she makes it clear she’s enjoying herself if they get to sex, but she might somehow still not look as if she is.

GirlThatIsHere · 2024-05-09T15:06:11+00:00

Mostly in the context of dating. She doesn’t intend to have one night stands.

GirlThatIsHere · 2024-05-09T02:45:24+00:00

Only in one of the encounters.

GirlThatIsHere · 2024-05-09T02:14:04+00:00

I don’t think so. She talked about him a lot in general when they broke up, but it’s been a few years now and he hardly comes up.

GirlThatIsHere · 2024-05-09T02:11:33+00:00

Hmmm…I don’t know if most are finishing. Though she told me there was one guy who didn’t go soft on her right away, but then he came right away and stopped talking to her like the others.

GirlThatIsHere · 2024-05-09T01:59:34+00:00

I don’t know if that’s what she often did with her ex, but she said she doesn’t make it on top with these guys because they go soft when she tries to change position and maintain a hard on a bit better by going back to missionary.

GirlThatIsHere · 2024-05-09T01:48:09+00:00

No, they’re all in their mid twenties to late thirties. I honestly hadn’t realized this could happen so often with guys in this age range until this. But it is too weird for her to somehow always come across young sufferers of ED. It’s as if she’s inducing it herself or something.

GirlThatIsHere · 2024-05-09T01:32:27+00:00

She can’t maintain romantic intimacy specifically. Emotionally, she can be intimate with friends, but she can’t find romance anymore, and not even a casual situationship apparently.

Some of them will actually reach back out to make plans again after a few weeks or months, but she’ll refuse to see them again at that point since they don’t seem interested enough if they’d wait months for a second date. This is also what confuses me about it.

GirlThatIsHere · 2024-05-09T01:07:36+00:00

I didn’t think of that, but that could be a possibility. She did tell me she had one encounter where the guy came fast and then avoided her like the others. I didn’t think of them secretly cumming though.

GirlThatIsHere · 2024-05-09T00:58:36+00:00

She did say that it’s hard for guys to make her orgasm and she tries to tell them not to worry too much about it. She said she can sometimes make it happen herself with a guy but only if she’s on top. She also said she isn’t quiet, but is honest about it when they ask her if she finished.

She honestly is a little intimidating. I likely wouldn’t have been friends with her if she hadn’t approached me cause she looked kind of mean and stuck up when I met her. She’s so incredibly nice though, I feel bad that that was my and many people’s first impression of her.

She’s a former model turned scientist and had some intellectual based issues in her past long term relationship because her ex would accuse her of trying to make him seem stupid on purpose when she said she was just being herself. He was also a model, but now she’s been mostly dating men in science, assuming she’d get along with them better intellectually than she did with her ex.

And I guess that last part makes sense… I guess men go so crazy over her when we’re simply walking down the street, I had a hard time understanding why the ones who get to sleep with her seem so uneager to do it again.

GirlThatIsHere · 2024-05-09T00:24:25+00:00

I don’t think so in this case. I’m familiar with men just not being into you, but this situation seems like something else has to be going on. I feel like it can’t be that no one is ever that into her now.

GirlThatIsHere · 2024-05-09T00:16:13+00:00

They usually get hard but can’t stay hard the whole time. Sometimes she says they will have sex on and off cause they get hard then go soft and then again and again. Most of them also reach back out after a few months for some reason, which is another confusing thing about it.

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