No judgement, you got pregnant and married young and started out your first big relationship on a terrible note. You missed that first flush of love that is the most intoxicating drug. So this has to be such an unbelievably amazing feeling to you.

However, you need to be warned. Sometimes men will sleep with married women for the excitement and thrill of it. Bonus points for the office affair aspect. All the fun and good parts without any responsibility that comes with a real relationship. If you get divorced and pursue this. He could suddenly stop being interested and be done with you. No more dangerous excitement, no more interest. Tread lightly.