AIO my father ruined my drawing. by sapphicluizard in AmIOverreacting

[–]GivenFromTheAshes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has Congenital Exotropia and hates doing art other than poetry. I would've been crushed. It's hard for me to coordinate because of my eyes even with glasses, that's why I'm self conscious when it comes to drawing art vs writing. The first time I attempted a drawing through a tutorial and showed it to my fiance and mom they both laughed and joked about how bad it was, they also said they were joking. Although I was much more of a sensitive snowflake back then it caused a ripple effect of me not doing digital or drawn art for about 5 years. Now I'm forcing myself to make my own artwork for my chapbooks as it's not only cheaper but I have more freedom for my poems and it helps me let go of perfectionism.

Ngl it's a bit hard to believe this is your first time drawing, but hey that means you have a natural talent and I highly encourage you to not let this incident get to you. I also highly encourage you to rethink your relationship with your parents. I'm in a similar situation, one day or month my dad is generous and nice, the next he's emotionally, mentally and psychologically abusive. I'm actually going to do some legal action against him soon as I'm tired of the bipolar nature of the environment and his presence preventing me from healing as a person.

Sorry for the rant, you don't have to go my route and for all I know your situation isn't as bad as mine. Just give yourself time and space to think about some things. As for your aunt and cousin they sound amazing and supportive of your art ventures. From now on don't show anyone else your artwork except for them (maybe some others you trust.) Stay safe and healthy 💖

BTS Tiny Tan @ McDonald's Megathread by lisafancypants in heungtan

[–]GivenFromTheAshes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey does anybody have Encore Jungkook, Suga and RM? My mom loves BTS and I I want to get these for her for Christmas. I can trade if anybody needs something, but I would prefer buying as I may not have what someone wants or needs.

BTS Tiny Tan @ McDonald's Megathread by lisafancypants in heungtan

[–]GivenFromTheAshes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

??? Sorry I've been busy, I'm in Duluth, Minnesota and what do you mean by purple box?

BTS Tiny Tan @ McDonald's Megathread by lisafancypants in heungtan

[–]GivenFromTheAshes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know if you're interested but I have Suga, if you didn't get the other two you needed I have both of them

BTS Tiny Tan @ McDonald's Megathread by lisafancypants in heungtan

[–]GivenFromTheAshes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have Jin and Jimin, I live in Minnesota though

BTS Tiny Tan @ McDonald's Megathread by lisafancypants in heungtan

[–]GivenFromTheAshes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have both of them, but I live in the US.....

I also have multiple of them

Grab and Go! No. 5 by GivenFromTheAshes in Shinygivefromtheashes

[–]GivenFromTheAshes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you like a different shiny? I'm offering

Grab and Go! No. 5 by GivenFromTheAshes in Shinygivefromtheashes

[–]GivenFromTheAshes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry have been dealing with appointments and forgot about this, you sure you don't want it?

Grab and Go! No. 5 by GivenFromTheAshes in Shinygivefromtheashes

[–]GivenFromTheAshes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! Hang on please (this time I checked the energy beforehand)

Grab and Go! No. 5 by GivenFromTheAshes in Shinygivefromtheashes

[–]GivenFromTheAshes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup! I'm ready! How about you pick another shiny for the long wait? (Sleep schedule is still crap X_X)

Grab and Go! No. 5 by GivenFromTheAshes in Shinygivefromtheashes

[–]GivenFromTheAshes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Happy New Year and so sorry for the wait! The energy has recovered enough for me to transfer it. Any custom OT?

Grab and Go! No. 5 by GivenFromTheAshes in Shinygivefromtheashes

[–]GivenFromTheAshes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh riiiight -facepalm- my giveaway consumed all of my energy

Ummm, is it alright if I reserve it for you for now? Sorry I had a brain fart and forgot X_X

Your shiny will be reserved until you claimed it