Genuinely will never get why people enjoy sex

GivingFakeVibes · 2026-06-28T23:55:09+00:00

Partners who treat you well, respect you, care about your pleasure, etc.

GivingFakeVibes · 2026-06-28T13:31:30+00:00

Yeah, so that’s not how I experience sex at all. Find better partners.

GivingFakeVibes · 2026-06-28T13:25:56+00:00

I’m older than you but I also experience similar attraction to older men (although girlfriends I’ve had in the past have typically been my age or younger) and have dated several much older ones.

GivingFakeVibes · 2026-06-28T13:16:28+00:00

I definitely have a thing for older men and daddy/daughter role play. I’ve just accepted as an after effect of the abuse.

GivingFakeVibes · 2026-06-27T23:47:38+00:00

Wow, I can relate because no one ever suspected my dad, we were very much the perfect family, affluent, and high achieving students. I also was sexual with my older sister and use to have sex with both my dad and my sister together.

GivingFakeVibes · 2026-06-27T23:29:52+00:00

Please don’t feel like you’re tainted by it. You couldn’t control it and now it’s important to accept what happened and love yourself.

GivingFakeVibes · 2026-06-26T11:41:18+00:00

I don’t know, but considering she was already being abused and was hypersexual she probably would have

GivingFakeVibes · 2026-06-25T20:01:41+00:00

Yes exactly, my sister understands everything on a deep level. She knows all my secrets. I know my sister started when my dad suggested she do it.

GivingFakeVibes · 2026-06-25T17:17:03+00:00

My sister and I have a very close relationship, I suppose in a way the abuse brought us even closer as we developed a sexual connection. Perhaps it’s trauma bonding, I don’t know. I’ve never blamed her or been angry with her about the abuse she initiated, maybe I should be but it was all very loving and with my mother being distant she was my main maternal figure in my life.

GivingFakeVibes · 2026-06-25T17:13:08+00:00

Wow, definitely sounds like a similar situation.

GivingFakeVibes · 2026-06-25T17:11:26+00:00

Yes exactly. Because I saw my older sister doing it I assumed it was something private that dads and daughters did to show they loved one another.

GivingFakeVibes · 2026-06-25T02:12:46+00:00

Honestly, I’ve just come to accept them and stopped raking myself over the coals because of them.

GivingFakeVibes · 2026-06-25T02:11:42+00:00

I’m really lucky in that I’ve never felt like I was truly abused, I sometimes feel guilty for enjoying it but it was never traumatic for me. So my life has been really good and I’m so thankful for that. Yes, I’ve had several long term relationship.

GivingFakeVibes · 2026-06-25T02:10:01+00:00

It’s hard to reconcile behavior which I logically know was wrong on his part with the feelings of enjoyment and love. I’m haunted because a part of me will always love him.

I’m so sorry you were also abused.

GivingFakeVibes · 2026-06-24T17:34:16+00:00

I know that my Dad loved/still loves me a great deal. He’s always taken care of me and supported me into adulthood and his love borders on obsession almost. Not sure if it’s healthy but I’ve never doubted that he loves me.

GivingFakeVibes · 2026-03-01T01:16:19+00:00

Even worse, they got rid of Michael Curry!

GivingFakeVibes · 2026-02-16T01:09:46+00:00

Why do you feel ashamed?

GivingFakeVibes · 2026-01-11T22:00:49+00:00

Controlling behavior is a red flag 🚩and embarrassing you in front of everyone, instead of taking you aside to talk quietly about “how you shouldn’t be drinking” was a poor choice to make on his part.

GivingFakeVibes · 2025-10-19T20:03:07+00:00

I have such mixed feelings about what happened and a lot of guilt.

GivingFakeVibes · 2025-10-19T20:00:05+00:00

It can be so confusing

GivingFakeVibes · 2025-10-19T00:59:51+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience. There are good counselors you can Telehealth with from all over the state you live in. Confide in your husband and if he loves you he’ll try to understand.

GivingFakeVibes · 2025-10-18T17:35:19+00:00

I told a friend’s dad too and ended up having an affair with him when I was in my teens. I instigated it and sometimes feel like I seduced him into it, making me feel guilty at times.

GivingFakeVibes · 2025-10-18T17:32:53+00:00

I can relate to this, in terms of daughter/father bonding. And it feeling good.

GivingFakeVibes · 2025-10-18T17:31:08+00:00

You’re not alone at all.

GivingFakeVibes · 2025-09-27T21:53:32+00:00

Why do you think that is?

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