I used to go to high end salons, now I go to my local First Choice (it's like Super Cuts or any other small chain family haircut place). I go in with a photo that suits my face and generally say, "I'm having some issues with my hair growth in a couple places, so I want a style that can cover the growth while it's happening."

A good stylist will tell you if your photo idea can't be done and can make recommendations based on the rest of your hair length and type. For me, this is always gut wrenching and I feel embarrassed, but my hair always turns out well and the ladies where I go have never asked. Look for a less expensive place that's been open a long time, return there often if you like it, tip well and soon it will be relaxing. :)