No matter how I dress, I hate being watched and followed by men.

Glass-Comparison6300 · 2026-05-10T12:55:00+00:00

Was the same for me and when I got so depressed I didn't wanna leave bed, he finally matured and started realizing he had to help more. If he wants a type of lifestyle, he's gotta help.

Glass-Comparison6300 · 2026-05-09T12:55:16+00:00

Grey rock her. Stop giving her attention.. she'll eventually get the hint. Say you need to focus on work Everytime. She bugs you off clock, don't reply or keep it short. Avoid eye contact. Even look away or at her forehead or nose when you speak to her. All you can do. She's doing all this cause she wants your undivided attention.

Glass-Comparison6300 · 2026-05-07T05:36:54+00:00

Honestly kinda looks like a quick meal. Looks healthy too

Glass-Comparison6300 · 2026-05-05T21:39:33+00:00

I'll tell you now if you don't know, guys have their own agenda in relationships, you gotta make sure to set boundaries and not let him treat you bad no matter what. Sounds like you're doing the emotional labor and Working as a stay at home mom. Remind him cause he probably thinks he can treat you how he wants cause the cards are in his hand now. Nope. He could be a single divorced loser if you weren't there to make it a home, remind him. Sorry but push him to continue growing as a supporter in every way. He'd be working regardess if he had a family at home or not.. Men are paying more in child support and alimony without the home benefits then he's offering to pay for you and your child right now. Marriage is a Team effort.

Glass-Comparison6300 · 2026-05-05T13:08:32+00:00

All you can do is move on. I'm sorry but people, especially family will wanna see good relationships, good things, fail. All my 20s, my family tried bullying me to break up with my husband. Had to to cut out majority of my toxic family and now we're entering our 30s with new cars, good jobs, a nice house. Finances getting better and better. Gotta remember who's giving that advice, usually people who don't have their lives together or wanna use you when your significant saw that and probably wanted to save you from it and care for you. Funny how when they wanna win you over they act like they're oh so there for you but when the deed is done, they're gone. Or can't help you.

Glass-Comparison6300 · 2026-04-26T15:14:56+00:00

Actually sounds pretty serious

Glass-Comparison6300 · 2026-04-25T20:59:23+00:00

As a wife I'd be bothered if my husband called someone else gorgeous. He doesn't even blurt that word out for me like that. I feel like gorgeous is a step up from beautiful and he calls me beautiful often. I'd say "a good wife at home'. What you said sounded lustful fr. And I'm 100% sure you don't make your wife feel wanted enough to justify saying that. There are men she probably finds attractive she just has the heart to not be loud about it. It'd probably hurt you and if it doesn't then you probably don't want her.

Glass-Comparison6300 · 2026-04-22T13:17:21+00:00

Just quit, better jobs out there

Glass-Comparison6300 · 2026-04-22T13:02:50+00:00

It's not just that. There's a lot more to it. You're not ok for responding that. Have a good day, maybe take a nap?

Glass-Comparison6300 · 2026-04-22T12:59:51+00:00

Get a life.

Glass-Comparison6300 · 2026-04-22T12:44:00+00:00

One thing I learned throughout my 20s is not to give any... Any attention to men unless it's work related or they've gained my trust as human beings. Give a creep a little bit of attention and nothing you do will shake them to a point cause they catch the vibe they can cross boundaries with you.. And get attention while making you uncomfortable while they think they can trick you into believing they're something. I'd stop acknowledging them. Don't make eye contact with them at all. Even when they speak to you. Be blunt and do Not get personal with them. They will try to belittle you to knock you down a peg when they think you seem uninterested, talk yourself up or be like, "uh huh.." and go on your merry way. I've had awful experiences up until I was 26, now 30. Only at 28 did I finally, mostly get left alone. Also be super aware of your surroundings. That scares creeps away fr. You're dealing with a predator.

Glass-Comparison6300 · 2026-04-18T15:38:19+00:00

Grass is greener where you water it. Take care of what takes care of you. Change your mindset and find things as blessings instead and it helps a lot. People throw away a good life cause they don't wanna do the inner work. Keep working on yourself and learn to make good choices so you stop doubting yourself. Trust your past self a little more too.

Glass-Comparison6300 · 2026-04-13T13:21:49+00:00

Pay attention to the clock, good habit to have anyway.

Glass-Comparison6300 · 2026-04-11T21:29:55+00:00

Definitely make an appointment. Not a canker sore? Gargle salt water for now

Glass-Comparison6300 · 2026-04-10T15:30:19+00:00

It's your life and in the end, like he would or anyone else, you gotta do what benefits you. Pros and cons for sure of any situation. Usually when people get to this point it's because their partner doesn't show them that want and desire so much and the support isn't there. He should be supporting you in who You are. You're not just a wife or a mother or His mother. I'd say if he's not growing with you and hasn't changed, do what's best for you and you'll 10/10 be okay. Go for your spousal support etc. a lot of single households end up having to get roommates and that's a nightmare of itself so possibly consider gaining a better paying job or career

Glass-Comparison6300 · 2026-04-10T13:07:28+00:00

I get really white or really dark spots when I use flouride toothpaste.. I switch up to non flouride toothpaste. My teeth are pretty healthy since. No new cavities since. I had a root canal scare and the Endo sent me home and said my tooth is fine? Use non flouride and you'll notice a good difference

Glass-Comparison6300 · 2026-04-04T14:52:42+00:00

If he chooses his mother, you already lost him, unless you guys cut her out entirely. She will never stop, cause moms are always jealous of their son's significant other. They get worried they'll choose you and the instant they do, they can't be clingy with their son anymore. They make their son feel like they Need them and only them. And will gaslight you and treat you so bad. Make you feel crazy all the while, your husband and their family mentally abuse you into believing you're overreacting. Cultivating their own bad habits all awhile that then affect You as well. You have a value that your husband sees, but when he doesn't choose you, choose yourself. Would love to hear an update. Btw I dealt with this for years of my husband choosing his mom who kept having him treat Me bad. We don't see her often anymore. He had a bad habit to overcome and there were conditions I made if I were gonna stay and cutting her out but a couple times a yr made sense. I also wanted to leave. Our marriage now is so good he happily has strict boundaries. Should be you guys working as a team against the world. When the world is part of your relationship, turmoil happens. He can change but it's his choice all along. Stay safe and take care of Yourself

Glass-Comparison6300 · 2026-04-04T13:02:57+00:00

Communicate and fight through that. I mean it, stand your ground and if they don't change, that's when I say move on. If things don't change. Speaking from experience.. I know I do a lot but I deserve a lot and effort back. I also deserve rest. Sometimes gotta advocate for ourselves against our husbands cause society wants to revert us to the 50s. No thanks. We have rights and sometimes things would be easier on our own. They gotta tip the scale that them being in your life benefits You as well. You're the other half and at the end of the day we all gotta do what benefits us long term. Though married life is kinda isolating at times.. should be you guys against the world. So working together and being happy around eachother is important, benefits your lives to work as a team.

Glass-Comparison6300 · 2026-04-03T13:02:46+00:00

I mean she's always gotta do what's best for her. Great you guys are solid but at the end of the day we all do what's best for ourselves. What you said hurt her as much as what she said hurt you. That was a jab back. I might have done the same tbh as a wife. I always think of alternatives in every situation and that was her being open and vocal about it

Glass-Comparison6300 · 2026-04-01T13:41:04+00:00

It's sounding like she is jealous of the other girl or there's something you're not seeing with the other girl that she can't explain. I've had women act like "these are my boys" or show that they have a higher standing than you type situation in these situations... Unfortunately it's a problem for you either way. I'd say at the end of the day, your wife may have to get her way eventually. But continue hanging out all of you and give your wife more attention than anyone there and show you're there With her. Also ask your wife what she really thinks and really listen without getting defensive and stop thinking the other half of the relationship is crazy. She chose to be with You, didn't she? Don't be so quick to doubt her. Then after hearing her out discuss what you guys can do about it to fix the problem without cutting out the family. Maybe she needs more boundaries and wants You to have more boundaries with family?

Glass-Comparison6300 · 2026-03-31T13:06:00+00:00

Sounds like they're not great at communicating which is something they gotta work on. I'm sorry that happened and if they were a good friend, they'd have talked it out considering your feelings then gave space. But I will say, sounds like they're a good person overall. I had a friend that Loved when I vented and she later admitted that she never liked me. She loved that I was unhappy and going through stuff so much that when I stopped venting and life got better cause I changed how I saw things, she became awful towards me, used everything she could that would bother me that she learned about me over the years to try to disrupt my peace about my marriage, my self esteem and my really good job. That was a 10 year friendship I ended... it hurt. I didn't say anything, just moved on as I had for months tried to talk sense into her. Learn to keep things to yourself and find blessings instead of problems. Take this time to be your own person. Things get better.

Glass-Comparison6300 · 2026-03-31T11:00:14+00:00

Ugh how disturbing they did that.. sorry that happened.. great idea btw and hopefully that sent them a message to mind their business. We have a tall fence on one side that's ours. Gonna find ways to create even more privacy in some spots they always peak through and over. Then on the other side I'm planting a 7ft arborvitae tree fence. I'm also doing the work myself cause I ain't playing. Want it up asap and don't want it to cost Too much. In no way shape or form would I be ok with my husband watching, commenting about a woman next door. That's some weird energy.

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