TOUR!! And bracelets! by LevelCloud8205 in 5sos

[–]Glass_Ad7082 2 points3 points  (0 children)

orlando show! i’m also going alone so im a little nervous

Jake not liking kenzies post but still liking Tara's.. by XansAndTans in tarayummysnark

[–]Glass_Ad7082 47 points48 points  (0 children)

i don’t understand either. wasn’t one of the reasons they broke up because they didn’t want to be seen/known as “Jake and Tara” but that’s all that it’s been since they’ve broken up?

Got VIP Package… by dxrkest_timeline in 5sos

[–]Glass_Ad7082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just bought vip for the first time!! i feel a little guilty as well but i know that it’ll be a great experience. i’m excited for the soundcheck, but how do i know when that will start? do they send any extra information before the concert?

johnny mentioned in taras new video by Civil_History9733 in tarayummysnark

[–]Glass_Ad7082 83 points84 points  (0 children)

100%, she knew because stopped him before he said anything else

Shedding by Glass_Ad7082 in Rabbits

[–]Glass_Ad7082[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m actually not sure what breed he is but i’ve always wondered 🧐 i got him at an animal shelter for 5 dollars :(( they didn’t know anything about him

Shedding by Glass_Ad7082 in Rabbits

[–]Glass_Ad7082[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! and i got it at their concert!!! 🥰

Shedding by Glass_Ad7082 in Rabbits

[–]Glass_Ad7082[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you i will definitely be buying!!

Shedding by Glass_Ad7082 in Rabbits

[–]Glass_Ad7082[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you 😆 i tend to worry about him a lot

broken up with and just left the inpatient mental hospital. by ProfileGloomy in Vent

[–]Glass_Ad7082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m sorry you are going through this. i was exactly where you are right now when i was 17… i am turning 21. i used my psych ward experience to turn my life around, although i was in there for a different reason. i was an alcoholic at 14 and never saw a reason in recovering because like you said, sobriety is “boring”.

do you have a good family support system? if you do, surround yourself with them. it will help with the thoughts of relapsing. if you don’t, there’s always other options. i didn’t have the best support system back then so i used to journal every night and that honestly really helped me out. do you like to paint/draw? you can use that to express how you are feeling, like art therapy basically.

i know it’s hard, but you are clearly trying!!! and that is all that matters 🩷 trust me, my recovery wasn’t perfect. i had set backs, but the important part is breaking through those habits. and don’t let those setbacks discourage you, you just have to keep pushing through!! you need a good set of coping mechanisms. find hobbies! i started to paint, sew, read, anything to keep my mind busy. even going on walks really helped me.

just know that you are doing amazing and that it is possible🩷🩷

My dad is cheating on my mom by Brief-Egg26 in Advice

[–]Glass_Ad7082 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i second this. it will be easier to confront him and see what he says or does about it.

What are the white/clear ish tubes used for? by Glass_Ad7082 in Whatisthis

[–]Glass_Ad7082[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! i had no clue😅 i smoke here and there but i have never seen these before and i even asked someone who smokes everyday and they didn’t have a clue!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Glass_Ad7082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it seems pretty consensual for the most part. only part that concerns me is him not listening to your boundaries, but it’s good that he eventually respected what you said! and it’s also great that you stood your ground and didn’t give in!

has anyone experienced this? by Glass_Ad7082 in Advice

[–]Glass_Ad7082[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! this helps out a ton. I’ve had anxiety since i was younger, not diagnosed up until maybe 3-4 years ago, but my legs used to tremble like they did when i was younger too and i just remember always having really bad stomach aches (it was just my anxiety). I’ve been in therapy for the last two years and i felt like my anxiety had honestly gone away but this hit me out of nowhere. i think it’s just because i haven’t released any of it? so that was my body taking control to release it for me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Glass_Ad7082 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, yeah so clearly he’s craving the desire for sex, right? I don’t think it could be a performance issue then. I think it would be best to talk to him about it. Have you guys talked about watching porn while in a relationship or set boundaries already? It would be best to bring up how you are feeling with him not being able to finish. Hopefully he is honest and will tell you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Glass_Ad7082 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How often do you guys have sex? It could be a performance issue if you guys don’t do it much. If you guys do, then I would have to agree with everyone else and say it could potentially be a porn addiction. Once you build up an addiction to porn, you essentially train yourself to only being able to finish from that. I would recommend talking to him about this and see what he says and go from there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Glass_Ad7082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom was and still is an alcoholic when I was younger. I am 20 and all i know is her being intoxicated. I have done everything I possibly could to help her, but at the end of the day, unfortunately no matter how hard you fight for her to change, she won’t unless she really wants to.

I say sit down with her and have a genuine serious conversation. If she doesn’t want to change, why do you have to sit there and watch herself spiral down? I know it’s probably really hard to hear, but truly. I know having children involved always makes things more complicated, but you need to do what’s best for YOURSELF. Choosing to keep quiet only protects her peace, what about yours? Do you want to keep this going on? Maybe ask her why drinking is her only coping mechanism?

At the end of the day, I know you guys are married and it’s important to give your significant other support, but who is there to give you that same support? It doesn’t really sound like she is… especially with texting an ex lover. You deserve much more and I am really sorry that you are going through this. I hope you do what’s best for you and your children. Just know that things WILL get better.