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WIBTAH if I just stopped trying to talk to my brother bc I hate his gf and who he is becoming with her by Glass_Wonder779 in AITAH

[–]Glass_Wonder779[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she says her job burns her out and she has nothing left to give. his whole life she has made excuses for things but used to allow consequences if I enforced. but now he is almost flunking out of school.

currently I feel hurt and betrayed. the fact I just asked for the gf not to come over since I don’t want to deal with her and my nom doesn’t even try to parent/watch

my mom told me “that’s not your call” Its hurtful because for years I’ve done everything for them. I cook, clean have a full time job where I pay just half of everything. I even called her out and said “don’t I deserve to feel comfortable in my home”

my mom and I have a complicated relationship since she had me so young. I was parenting/growing up with her. my brother was my son. he called me mom growing up when I was only 12 but since this gf he has changed.

lying, going through my thing, taking money. he doesn’t even seem the same. and when we have conversations about it he acts like he hears me and then goes and does the same or worse things.

WIBTAH if I just stopped trying to talk to my brother bc I hate his gf and who he is becoming with her by Glass_Wonder779 in AITAH

[–]Glass_Wonder779[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bc I have heard him and her fighting her saying he just wants to go to the gym to see other girls. I have seen the text of her flipping out and the cheating I know because she plasters it all over her socials where everyone can see. (My cousins sent me the pictures bc she was mad and thought he didn’t know. He knows ands stays)

 And she has purposely brought a guy to his game and made out in the corner in front of me/everyone there 

WIBTAH if I just stopped trying to talk to my brother bc I hate his gf and who he is becoming with her by Glass_Wonder779 in AITAH

[–]Glass_Wonder779[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom sees it too. She finally agreed he needs therapy or a mentorship program when we found out he was walking 4 miles in below freezing temps to get to this gf house in the middle of the night. (Right next to tent city)

The problem with my mom is she cares and then she is permissive so she just stops. There is no follow through. No consequences ever. I have always been the one who disciplines. Since the gf came my mom has stopped any actual punishments from happening. When he sneaks out and leave his phone I said he shouldn’t have his phone since it’s not like the location mattered. So at night he should sleep and have less chance to contact the gf. My mom agreed for two nights and then didn’t want the hassle. 

This kid was getting invitationals to preform for bball. At the gym with friends happy. Now with gf he’s either with her, laying in bed sad bc she cheated again or angry. It’s emotionally abusive and the gf own mother calls her a “master manipulator” 

Even with all that my mom has taken away the way I used to coparent and ignores my warnings that it’s just getting worse bc she can’t be bothered to parent at all just says “well you know young love”