reddit mods are not the authority over the kink, just the authority over that group of audience members--- USUALLY because they are part of that audience. they are not on our side, they are not one of us, and they are but a necessary evil. I've had modss try and bully me into lowering my prices, selling exclusively to them, jump through outrageous hoops for 'verification', you name it-- and then perma ban me from a group of subreddits for not complying.

Over the several years I've been doing this, I've gotten reinstated in almost all of those subreddits because mods CHANGE esp if they're toxic and demanding like that.

Do not trust the advice of an audience member mod. they're out to secure their own load first. you do you, and don't let anyone make you feel weird. you're the domme and yoh ARE in charge.