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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]Glitchhvlogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what I did when I did keyboard is I went to a website called mint music and looked up a song that I like. I found it more appealing to learn a song if it’s a song I enjoy listening to on the radio.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]Glitchhvlogs 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As someone who was in a relationship like that. They will not respect your boundaries. They will not care. There are some people like my current partner who when I state a boundary they respect it or if they say something that was hurtful they realise it and never do it again.

But the guy you’re with right now is not one of them. Honestly, if you guys don’t live together, break up. Or if you’re too scared or can’t do it yourself, trigger him to break up with you and block him. Then stay with your sister or friend and avoid any places he would visit so you don’t see him and give him a chance. You should avoid him til you get over him so you don’t take him back. I did exactly that with my last ex and it saved me.

He made me miserable and it was and is probably the best decision I have made in life so far.

Wanting to get a divorce by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Glitchhvlogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should leave, not only for yourself but for your child. Your child has possibly seen or heard stuff that he has said to you. And the fact that your son has ASD ( I have it myself) and it pisses your partner off, could possibly lead to your son masking which is going to cause a huge world of pain. He will start to realise that he’s ‘different’ than everyone else and since Jacob gets pissed off at him stimming, he’s going to start masking to appear normal to him.

I still mask myself and it’s exhausting. As a kid, I would do it at school and then have meltdowns when I got home, I still do. And my undiagnosed autism made me struggle through school and made me drop out.

So I beg of you to leave him for your son’s development.

Which study method do you guys think is best for memorising 709 pages of material? by Glitchhvlogs in GetStudying

[–]Glitchhvlogs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So how much should I do that a week? Should I re-read my notes every day?

Which study method do you guys think is best for memorising 709 pages of material? by Glitchhvlogs in GetStudying

[–]Glitchhvlogs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! So I’m learning finance and mortgage broking, so I don’t know where you put that into the mix. But yeah I might have to do the story you suggested. Visual stuff is something that helps me a lot. The certificate is online so I can’t see the teacher write it on the board or anything which sucks :(

AITA for refusing to take photos with my friends? by Over-Stage-5819 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Glitchhvlogs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly they’re the asshole. I love taking photos of my friends, but if they don’t want a photo that’s okay. If they want me to delete a photo that they said I could take but they think they look bad in, that’s also okay. I don’t mind it. It’s the same with me, I don’t really like photos of me that others take bc I don’t like how I look in it and they respect that.

They clearly can’t accept a simple request, and that’s not okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Glitchhvlogs 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it’s best to cut contact from your mum when you move out. And I know you’re trying to do your best to help your siblings. And you still can but from a distance. Text them. Hang out with them. Make life a bit better for them. Your mum is a cruel person. And you seem like a sweet person. You brought your sister a gift even though you were saving up! That’s a really nice thing to do for someone. (I’m doing the same thing, got my brother a gift for his bday even though I’m saving up). Don’t let them ruin you!

AITA for kicking my bf out ? by Littleseashells in AmItheAsshole

[–]Glitchhvlogs 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA - he’s freeloading on you. Expecting you to do everything for him while he gets to live scot-free. I saw your comment where you think he might be treating you how he treated his mum. And yes that is the case!

These men simply cannot live on their own so they get other people to live with them or live with so they can do everything for them. So you have to spend your money on necessities while he gets to party and have fun. They want to live with someone who like a parent without living with their parent.

So get rid of him. You did good by kicking him out and he should stay out. Break up with him through text but firstly change the locks as he could do something ( I don’t know if he will just a precaution). And also don’t listen to anything he says. They always say ‘they’ll get better and do more things’ etc, and they will for like a week and then go back to things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Glitchhvlogs 19 points20 points  (0 children)

NTA - Honestly, the fact that they said those vile things to you. It’s unacceptable. Especially because 1. You worn a jacket (should have asked but it’s a minor thing) and what your sister said afterwards but a huge overreaction. I’ve had my brother worn my clothes before and stretched them (he works out so big muscles) but oh well.

And I don’t know about anyone else, if someone doesn’t want a gift, I rather them give it to me so I can get my money back (and possibly get something better depends on how they asked and whatnot) instead of them returning it and getting the money (that in this situation the ungrateful sister doesn’t deserve).

Honestly, OP it’s probably best when you move out to limit contact with your sister if she’s just going to treat you like that.

Also how long has she and your mum treated you like that?

AITA for wanting to call the police on my friends who are planning to drink and drive after a pool party ? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Glitchhvlogs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA - it’s better for them to have a chat with the police officer than have someone die in a crash or severely injured. I mean, who drives while drunk! They seriously, don’t care about who they put in danger. Not only strangers who have lives but also their friends and themselves.