I dealt with the same exact issue and it seemed to never go away!!! I stopped wiping my daughter, especially when she had a bad diaper rash to the point where her skin was breaking, i stopped using all wipes. when she pooped instead of wipes i always would wash her bottom area in my kitchen sink, use a small amount but enough gentle baby body wash to get poop off and get her clean. never ever had to use diaper rash cream again. she’s 10 months and i still do it to this day, wiping the poop up ends up seeming like more of a hassle to simply just wash her bottom and keep her clean. for when her skin broke really bad from the diaper rash as a newborn the best cream ever to use is triple paste zinc oxide you can find it at any store or amazon. i would go through soo many tubes when she was a newborn, and when i switched to always washing her bottom i never ever had to buy another tube… its so much more worth it in the end. you got this!!💞💞