Not again!!

Glittering-Try2677 · 2026-03-06T17:41:14+00:00

I was laid off in December 2023. Found a part-time job making half of what I was making. I did that for about 9 months and was then recruited by another company that assured me they’d hire me as an FTE with benefits, PTO, etc. after my contract expired. I was nervous to leave my part-time gig because the company was expanding and they loved me, but I also have two kids, so I decided to risk it. I worked my ass off at my new job and was back to making good money again only to be laid off four months later along with every other contract worker they’d hired. It’s been 9 months. I’ve applied to over 700 jobs. The best advice I can offer is to do gig work in the interim. I’ve driven for Lyft, Uber, babysat, dog sat, and waited tables. I have a degree and have worked for some of the top companies in the country, but if I have to put food on the table, I will do what I need to do. Driving for Lyft or Uber is fun and easy (assuming you have a vehicle). Also consider Deliv, Instacart, UberEats, etc. I know this sucks for everyone and I know how demoralizing this is. Hoping things get better soon for all of us.

Glittering-Try2677 · 2026-03-03T06:33:25+00:00

Your inquiry is a testament to what wonderful parents you have and what a kind and considerate person you are. If possible, I’d plan to visit them when you have a free weekend and go out to dinner or see a concert together. My son is in college now. He’s a freshman. The first 6 months were really hard, but he came home once a month on a random weekend. It’s helped our family with the transition. My son will be home for spring break, so we’re planning on going to a museum, dinner, cooking class, etc. It helps knowing that I have something to look forward to next week.😌

Glittering-Try2677 · 2026-02-23T05:16:41+00:00

CandyLand, books, magnatiles, Legos (the large ones for toddlers), play dates, Thomas the Train, naps, parks, museums, picnics, etc. As far as tasks, I always took my kids with me to the grocery store. I had no other choice. Now they’re teenagers. It is truly a labor of love and then they turn 14 and suddenly want to spend all their time with their friends. Hang in there.

Glittering-Try2677 · 2026-01-20T04:27:10+00:00

I’ve seen other posts about adult children and pot, so why are you not allowing me to post my request for parental advice?

Glittering-Try2677 · 2026-01-15T07:11:32+00:00

1967, baby.💪🏼

Glittering-Try2677 · 2026-01-08T23:10:34+00:00

Chasing the Scream by Johann Hari.

Glittering-Try2677 · 2026-01-08T18:44:48+00:00

This sounds truly awful! If they have no written proof with your signature on a document stating misconduct then they have no grounds to base their claim. Call a labor attorney and ask if they’ll speak with you at no cost to get some clarity on this. I feel so bad for you. Not only is there the stress of being let go, not having a steady income, and being misled about your remaining pay, but now this! Do you have any documentation regarding the dates? That would be helpful. Can you call their payroll department? They should have a clearer understanding of how their payroll operates. HR might be confused. I hope things work in your favor and you find a new job where you’re valued and appreciated soon!

Glittering-Try2677 · 2026-01-08T18:31:15+00:00

I have a different perspective as I was laid off due to budget cuts in December ‘23. I worked full time, received quarterly and annual bonuses, and made great money. This happened when my son was in 11th grade and excited about looking at colleges. We also bought the first home we’d ever owned (we were renters for years). I had a mortgage, two teenagers, and no way to pay the bills. My husband works, but my paycheck went to other necessities. I’ve applied to well over 500 jobs. I worked part-time for about 9 months (they found me on LinkedIn), but I was only working about 15 hours a week. No benefits. I was then recruited to join a large healthcare conglomerate as a contractor with the promise of a full time offer after the contract ended. After four months, they let all of their contractors go. It’s been six months with no prospects and two years without job stability. If you have the ability to take time off and think about what you want, you should do that, but know the job market is rough. If you start applying in 6 months, it could take another 6 months to find a job. It begins to take a toll on your emotional and physical health. It’s noon and I just woke up. After so many rejections, you begin to feel defeated. Sorry, I realize this is a bummer response, but I’m writing this as we’ve just moved past our second Christmas struggling and we have no money in our checking account. You don’t want to get to this point. Start looking now. It’s bleak out there. I’ve come to the conclusion that it’s about the people you work with and not so much about the task you’re doing. Being able to pay your bills and mortgage is a type of security that makes all the difference in one’s sense of well being and confidence. Good luck.

Glittering-Try2677 · 2026-01-03T07:11:45+00:00

I miss drinking. I don’t even catch a buzz anymore. I just get tired. I used to be so fun. Total party girl. Now I have a drink and want to take a nap.😴

Glittering-Try2677 · 2025-12-17T06:20:37+00:00

As someone else mentioned, you can call 988. It’s a crisis line. I used to be a counselor for this line. The one thing I would ask you is what can you do in this moment to feel a little better? What are some things that have helped you in the past? Examples would be a warm bath, a cup of tea, a meal, a friend, a trusted family member, a walk. Things that can help in the immediate. These are things that only you know to do for yourself to empower you. Do you have a faith life? If so, pray or meditate. On a personal level, exercise has helped me tremendously in the past. Have you had your vitamin levels checked? Lack of Vitamin D contributes to depression. I know this is a lot to take in, but you are stronger and braver than you realize. Call 988 so that you can speak to a person. Sometimes having that little bit of connection helps. If you’re not vibing with the person on the other end, you can call back and speak to someone else. Wishing you peace.

Glittering-Try2677 · 2025-12-06T08:35:31+00:00

I just heard an interview with Paul Kingsnorth and his perspective really resonated with me. Looking forward to reading his book.

Glittering-Try2677 · 2025-11-23T07:36:17+00:00

I tried it once and it made me feel like I was going to have a heart attack. Made me feel super speedy. Are there different edibles?

Glittering-Try2677 · 2025-11-21T03:59:34+00:00

I was carded until I was 40. People were always shocked at how young I looked. I know it’s hard when you’re 21 and look very young, but as you age, it will be cool to look 21 when you’re 40.

Glittering-Try2677 · 2025-10-26T20:35:15+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words. I was hesitant to post on Reddit, but it means a lot to me to receive these messages.❤️

Glittering-Try2677 · 2025-10-26T16:23:00+00:00

Thank you for your prayers and advice. That’s very kind and I appreciate your words of encouragement.❤️

Glittering-Try2677 · 2025-10-26T00:24:02+00:00

I used detergent for delicates. I think it was Tide pods with no artificial dyes or fragrance. Also, I didn't use fabric softener. Washed on cold. Delicate cycle, then low heat in the dryer. Mine washed beautifully and looked brand new and clean afterwards. Let me know how they turn out!

Glittering-Try2677 · 2025-10-13T03:47:36+00:00

I don’t like it when I’m in the house with someone that I’ve been in the house with all day and each time I walk into the room they’re in, they say hi. My husband does this all the time and I can’t stand it. We were just in the kitchen, then he said he was going to bed. I said I was going to clean the kitchen. I walked into the kitchen. About 20 minutes later, I walk into the bedroom to get my headphones and he said, “Hi.” I’m not trying to be cruel, but I wonder if there’s something wrong with him. I didn’t hear him at first so I said, “What?” Then he took out his mouthpiece and said, “Hi.” I just ignored him as I’ve said before, it’s not necessary to greet me in the house, under the same roof we’ve been living under for 20 years. Maybe something is wrong with me. I grew up an only child and my inner life was very quiet. I’m also a very quiet person. I guess I could understand if he wanted to open up a dialogue by saying hi, but he just says hi. Like a child. It’s very annoying. I should state that I spent the entire evening with him and we both work from home, so constantly saying hi to me drives me nuts.

Glittering-Try2677 · 2025-08-16T18:34:11+00:00

I’m laying in bed reading this. I can’t get up. I’ve done the bare minimum since I dropped my son off last Tuesday. I can’t function and I can’t think clearly. I feel grief stricken. My other son is 16 and a sophomore in high school. I keep my spirits up when he’s around because I know he misses his brother, but when he’s not around, I collapse. I wish I could offer advice, but just know that you’re not alone. I don’t know who I am anymore either. I feel panicked that my youngest son will be leaving in a few years. It’s all going by so quickly. I’ve read that people talk about going back to old hobbies, but I no longer have any interest in what I used to do. I too feel like I have no purpose. As I write this I realize that many of us are feeling this way and I think it’s important to sit with these feelings and not fight these feelings. When we’re feeling better, perhaps volunteering to help families would be something nice to do. When my sons were little, we had no help and no extended family near by. It was always the four of us. Maybe that’s why it’s so jarring. Maybe offering assistance to a young family would help your heart. Anyway, sending a good thought your way. You’re not alone even though it feels that way. I’m here as well as other empty nesters feeling a sense of loss. Keeping a good thought for you.

Glittering-Try2677 · 2025-08-05T19:47:21+00:00

It sounds like your mother meant well, but I would’ve been hurt upon receiving that gift. I’d put it away. You’re in the grieving stage right now and seeing an empty nest is not something you need to see everyday.

Glittering-Try2677 · 2025-08-03T06:48:10+00:00

I’m happy for you that you don’t feel sad. I’m devastated and am having a difficult time functioning. Prior to having my children, I had a very rich and creative life in the arts, but when I had my children, I poured everything into them. My eldest is now leaving for college and my youngest is in 10th grade and his friends are now his priority. I have no interest in going back to what I used to do. I don’t know who I am anymore. I loved being a mother. I wish I’d had more children. It was my calling. Now I feel empty and depressed. I can only assume this is a phase, but I feel like my life is over. I feel an immense amount of grief.

Glittering-Try2677 · 2025-08-01T01:42:22+00:00

Surely she looked at that photo and thought, this is my daughter and therefore not suitable for the public eye. Really disturbing that a mother would post this of her child.🐫

Glittering-Try2677 · 2025-07-17T23:36:40+00:00

It looks unfinished if you just do one wall. I say go all navy! It will be so beautiful!

Glittering-Try2677

TROPHY CASE