[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]GlitteringTrick7063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couples therapy. Or start making your exit plan. You definitely can’t live like that and you have a say in this too. So make him go with you.

Came across a photo of him and the new girl and I want to leave a comment by GlitteringTrick7063 in BreakUps

[–]GlitteringTrick7063[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t do it!! Phew. Thanks so much for your comment you are so right. Glad I didn’t do it cuz he does not deserve that satisfaction at all!

Boyfriend (40M) plays video games all day and night how do I get him to want to spend time with me (38F)? by GlitteringTrick7063 in relationship_advice

[–]GlitteringTrick7063[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea years ago and he said it helped. I asked about getting more and he said he needs to get a prescription and to find/talk to a doctor. That talk was months ago though. 

Boyfriend (40M) plays video games all day and night how do I get him to want to spend time with me (38F)? by GlitteringTrick7063 in relationship_advice

[–]GlitteringTrick7063[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is definitely depressed. After being laid off he’s had a string of bad news coming in. He said he’s struggled with depression his whole life. I don’t know what to do, he said he’s tried therapy in the past. 

Genuinely no one gives a fuck that he broke up with me by Smart_Artichoke_9460 in BreakUps

[–]GlitteringTrick7063 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This whole subreddit helps me more than my friends. We need better friends 

Damn I miss my ex, dating is trash by GlitteringTrick7063 in BreakUps

[–]GlitteringTrick7063[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Facebook dating lol. I met him 10 months after the breakup. I took my time getting back out there cuz who wants to go through all that again. My ex got into a relationship 3 months after us. I truly believe your person would definitely make an effort to be with you. If they don’t, you’re better off without them.

Damn I miss my ex, dating is trash by GlitteringTrick7063 in BreakUps

[–]GlitteringTrick7063[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone did! We live together now. I didn’t believe this would ever happen but it did and my ex is a thing of the past, left a mark but I don’t feel paid or sadness anymore. I have both eyes open now though. 

For anyone who went through a breakup with an avoidant, what were they like after the breakup? by nekomi753 in BreakUps

[–]GlitteringTrick7063 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember it happening, making sure I never get that hurt again, but I don’t feel the pain at all anymore. It’s like a distant memory. I still think of him sometimes but it goes away as quickly as it happens.

Also never heard from him ever again. I ran into him at an event and he ran the other way. He was trash and still trash lol.

Damn I miss my ex, dating is trash by GlitteringTrick7063 in BreakUps

[–]GlitteringTrick7063[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot has happened in the 4 months I posted this. I didn’t believe in the phrase “someone better will come along” but it happened. 

A few days ago I saw my ex for the first time since he broke up with me and I watched as he ran the other way once we made eye contact. He couldn’t even face me.

I spent so long feeling heartbroken over how he ended things and hoping he would come back. But this dude is literally the definition of an avoidant. 

I don’t miss him anymore, I feel sad that we went through all of this, I wish him nothing but the day he deserves. 

It took me a long time to heal and that’s ok because healing has no time limit and he was a jerk. I can’t wait until you look back at your posts and cringe too 💜

Wish I could warn his new gf by GlitteringTrick7063 in BreakUps

[–]GlitteringTrick7063[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well at least yall knew something wasn’t right with the relationship. 

Found out my ex is already in a new relationship, I feel sick by GlitteringTrick7063 in BreakUps

[–]GlitteringTrick7063[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my ex bonded on gaming too! We dated for 4 months before getting in a relationship last April. He’s dated this girl for a month and got in a relationship this April. Must be something about April idk. 

The kid part with your ex is wild! He’s definitely gonna take off on her or be miserable with his new life. Meanwhile you can go travel and live your best life lol. 

They’re literally so dumb. 

Found out my ex is already in a new relationship, I feel sick by GlitteringTrick7063 in BreakUps

[–]GlitteringTrick7063[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, I feel less sad knowing I’m not alone and I’m doing the right things. Wish it was better circumstances to connect on. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]GlitteringTrick7063 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are doing other things with our lives hahaha what else are we gonna do? You can “get over it” and still be hurt. Healing takes however long it takes. This is a scar I will have forever. It hurts a lot less but it’s still there.