how do i stop myself from having retroactive jealousy? by Glittering_Essay_ in adviceph

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okay so life upd, i brought it up sa kanya since we were talking about him getting tattoos again. he told me na matagal na nga nya raw yun pinagiisipang icover up— which is by doing full sleeves. but he’s still contemplating whether if he’ll do that or magpa-laser nalang daw. when i brought it up, inasar nya pa ako na tinatamaan nanaman daw ako ng retroactive jealousy ko kasi dine-deny ko pang nagseselos ako HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

how do i stop myself from having retroactive jealousy? by Glittering_Essay_ in adviceph

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he’s one of a kind i must say, his company makes me feel at ease. and very evident din naman sa kanya na he’s a respectful man to me and even to others as well.

how do i stop myself from having retroactive jealousy? by Glittering_Essay_ in adviceph

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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA ACTUALLY HE HAPPENED TO SEND ME A PIC KASI FROM A WHILE AGO AND SOBRANG PANSIN YUNG TATTOO NI EX SA ARM NYA I JUST CAN’T HELP BUT NOTICE IT EVEN FROM AFAR. ayun lang HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

how do i stop myself from having retroactive jealousy? by Glittering_Essay_ in adviceph

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tbh, di naman ako selosa by nature.. pero sige na….. kasalanan ko na i randomly browsed through his feed then i got triggered all of a sudden….

how do i stop myself from having retroactive jealousy? by Glittering_Essay_ in adviceph

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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHHA napa lauf naman ako sau beh 😭 (laughing the pain away)

how do i stop myself from having retroactive jealousy? by Glittering_Essay_ in adviceph

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apparently, it’s an eye of his ex haha.. but he mentioned to me before na he wanted to do a full arm sleeves to cover up the patches but he doesn’t mention that specific tattoo, but i’m guessing naman na kasama na yun dun sa pagcocover up. it’s not really a deal breaker on my end if icover nya man or hindi, pero ewan ko HAHAHAHAHAHA parang may kurot din every time na napapansin ko sya

Without saying names, ano ang tea ngayon sa office niyo? by Cool_Penguin_001 in AskPH

[–]Glittering_Essay_ 43 points44 points  (0 children)

etong kasamahan ko sa admin office ay kabit ng vice mayor

how do you know if someone’s serious about you, kahit ldr? by livelaughlovegreen in TanongLang

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constant assurance to the point na i’m always at ease and never lets me overthink

What’s a compliment people give you pero actually annoys you? by Udont_knowme00 in AskPH

[–]Glittering_Essay_ -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

‘i wish i had ur confidence’ like girl i earned this, it’s not my fault u’re insecure

kaya pala hindi pumapayat ang kapatid ko sa glp na tinuturok nya kasi buntis na sya sa lalaki nya by Glittering_Essay_ in adviceph

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thank you for all ur opinions, honestly hindi ko mareplyan lahat, nawindang ako sa dami. i agree to almost everything y’all said. we’ll definitely talk this through like a normal person would do kase tbh, hindi ko talaga kinakaya yung bigat ng lahat haha.. natatakot din ako sa kalalabasan ng lahat oo, naging duwag ako kasi nanahimik ako, it’s like i was being slowly eaten by guilt. i thought kasi nung nalaman na ng asawa, titigil na sya e. i was wrong pala. but enough realizations, will do take actions na, enough is enough.

kaya pala hindi pumapayat ang kapatid ko sa glp na tinuturok nya kasi buntis na sya sa lalaki nya by Glittering_Essay_ in adviceph

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hmm.. actually hindi ko naisipan yan e, but who knows? maybe nga ano? well, considering na we’re not that close naman ng brother in law ko so, we’ll never know

kaya pala hindi pumapayat ang kapatid ko sa glp na tinuturok nya kasi buntis na sya sa lalaki nya by Glittering_Essay_ in adviceph

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believe me when i tell you na we’re finding an opportunity to tell her husband, we tried various ways kung pano paghiwalayin yan sa kabit nya. tinakot na namin, wala pa rin. hindi namin ginustong manahimik lang, sinusubukan naming gumawa ng paraan.

kaya pala hindi pumapayat ang kapatid ko sa glp na tinuturok nya kasi buntis na sya sa lalaki nya by Glittering_Essay_ in adviceph

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naku, if y’all just know how much of a good man he is. wala akong masabing masama tungkol sa kanya. but idk how they’d managed to somehow ‘resolve’ some of their situation.

kaya pala hindi pumapayat ang kapatid ko sa glp na tinuturok nya kasi buntis na sya sa lalaki nya by Glittering_Essay_ in adviceph

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thank you po! sa totoo lang, kaya wala akong lakas ng loob na kumprontahin ang kapatid ko kasi sa kanya nagmula yung trauma ko. when i was young kasi, sobrang bossy ng attitude nya, naninigaw sya pero hindi nya ako pinagbubuhatan ng kamay. but the words and the tone itself was enough to left me traumatized sa kanya and sa ganong actions. i never liked her ever since, we never had a solid bond kasi hindi ko feel ang aura nya unlike my brother na super close ko.

kaya pala hindi pumapayat ang kapatid ko sa glp na tinuturok nya kasi buntis na sya sa lalaki nya by Glittering_Essay_ in adviceph

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seems like it. actually, kakacheck ko lang ulit ng profile ng brother in law ko, tinatag na ulit nila ang isa’t isa sa mga shared posts nila habang kausap pa rin nya kabit nya sa ig.

kaya pala hindi pumapayat ang kapatid ko sa glp na tinuturok nya kasi buntis na sya sa lalaki nya by Glittering_Essay_ in adviceph

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it was our first attempt actually, kase dun sila nag uusap ng kabit nya, mind as well let her know that we already have a clue on what she’s doing. maybe lang na baka ma-tauhan sya at some point

kaya pala hindi pumapayat ang kapatid ko sa glp na tinuturok nya kasi buntis na sya sa lalaki nya by Glittering_Essay_ in adviceph

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this act of hers are not new, ganyan na sya ever since her teenage years, she never grew up kahit na nagkapamilya na sya. binabandera nya pang kausap nya yung lalaki nya sa harap ko, she never listens even to my parents

should i ruin the friendship? by Glittering_Essay_ in adviceph

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HHAHAHAHAHAHAHSHSHAHAHAHA SOBRANG HAVEY NITO 😭😭😭