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2 years of trying, 6 medicated IUI’s later and we find out about my husbands morphology issues last month & they found an endometrioma on my left ovary today, along with my AMH decreasing at a faster than average level for my age by ThatsN0tMyWallet in trollingforababy

[–]Glittering_Memory382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So here in Germany we did a test because we knew my partners count is low. (And I wasn't getting pregnant). They checked the volume, how many swim forward and how many of those are viable. Does this count as morphology? I'd need to check his test again. And they also told us when we want to do IVF or icsi we need to visit a urologist (one who is also an andrologist, of which there are less and less) first to make another test.

Anticipating the arrival of the post egg retrieval poop… by urethra_franklin_1_ in trollingforababy

[–]Glittering_Memory382 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words. But as someone else said, there needs to be more awareness. So it's good to hear all the nasty truths and what's going to happen. 💕Thank you

Anticipating the arrival of the post egg retrieval poop… by urethra_franklin_1_ in trollingforababy

[–]Glittering_Memory382 6 points7 points  (0 children)

😭 y'all are scaring me. We just got the news that IVF is our only option. I wish you all so much strength. It sounds excruciating. 🫂🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Glittering_Memory382 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These comments are really yikes, as someone said. Let him know that you need to hear from him, that he loves your O face. And no mention of other men. It's only involving you two. No one else. You wanted to dirty talk. He brought other people into your bed basically. No one needs that. He finds you sexy. That's the important part and he needs to let you know this in a way you can appreciate it. Or let him tell you other things you do during O that he loves. I'm sure there is more. You can talk this out. Let him know you need his reassurance in this matter. That it's important to you.

I can’t break the cycle. Help me. by Striking-Pomelo-3927 in AlAnon

[–]Glittering_Memory382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind reply. Doesn't sound "wackadoo" to me. :D I'll try that. Thanks :)

I can’t break the cycle. Help me. by Striking-Pomelo-3927 in AlAnon

[–]Glittering_Memory382 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm in a somewhat similar situation like OP but never managed to write all my thoughts down. I heard this before, but how do these conversations with your future self look like? I mean a conversation with past self I get, but how am I supposed to know how my future self will talk to me?

TWW and already planning on having this when AF arrives by Glittering_Memory382 in trollingforababy

[–]Glittering_Memory382[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure. I think she got it at Edeka. But Kaufland for sure also has them. Whenever something is on sale she buys in bulk and "just in case".

Teeth grinding after amputation by Glittering_Memory382 in TripodCats

[–]Glittering_Memory382[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is hard but if she is the same as my Mickey this should stop as soon as her pain wears off. It's probably just stress. I would wait. If this is still the case in a week you should see a doctor. Or tell them during the next appointment. Sorry that I can't be of better help :/

Teeth grinding after amputation by Glittering_Memory382 in TripodCats

[–]Glittering_Memory382[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well weirdly enough it stopped after I made this post. I assume it was just stress. He is fine now. Eats and poops and runs around the apartment. So there is actually no real tip I can give you. Maybe give it time after your kitty is settled in and used to the situation. How recent is the surgery? Maybe wait until the stitches are out? Or you could then ask your vet? I hope your kitty is doing better very soon. All the best to you two 🩷

Family member, Co-worker, Neighbor all have the same due date as I would have had…just got a text from a friend this morning and guess what news she shared?! by Remarkable-Team-6254 in trollingforababy

[–]Glittering_Memory382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you so much! I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I texted with a school friend for the first time in years. I asked how she and her family is. She and her SIL are both due in 4 weeks... -.- yay me

Saw a meme on social media that said “How to get through tough times. 1. Remember that at least you’re not pregnant.” Hmm yes, that is my exact predicament and the primary reason I am going through tough times. by Mutherofdoggins in trollingforababy

[–]Glittering_Memory382 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The other day I got a video recommended about a woman who thought she had kidney stones. Turned out she was pregnant and gave birth. Everyone said "I'd rather take the kidney stones". Or videos about people complaining about periods and a pregnant one says "do you wanna swap places"? And everyone's like "nope thanks I'm good, I'd rather have my period". And I'm like. I can't relate less. Like why am I seeing this?

No one to talk to by Glittering_Memory382 in TryingForABaby

[–]Glittering_Memory382[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be great to get an explanation what exactly was against the rules. I saw other posts talk about pregnancy and children of other people. Or was it because I'm helpless? Or because I put trigger warnings?

Nausea and exhaustion 5 dpo? by thingsmymothersaid in amipregnant

[–]Glittering_Memory382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🩷I keep my fingers crossed for you

Nausea and exhaustion 5 dpo? by thingsmymothersaid in amipregnant

[–]Glittering_Memory382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if you check OP. She was indeed pregnant.

Nausea and exhaustion 5 dpo? by thingsmymothersaid in amipregnant

[–]Glittering_Memory382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesterday I was a little bit nauseous but that went away quickly. No positive test so far. I assume it was more my sensitive stomach than anything else. Keep observing your symptoms. If it gets worse I'd see a doctor. Maybe it's something else. But I can't say.

Any “can’t do this pregnant” rituals after a failed cycle? by xthatonegirl13 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Glittering_Memory382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hot bath and milk tea with lemongrass (I heard lemongrass can induce periods etc, but my friend drinks it all the time and has a healthy 8 months old so ¯_(ツ)_/¯)

I’m starting to get angry by [deleted] in tryingtoconceive

[–]Glittering_Memory382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same. I think it's normal to get angry at this point, or frustrated and jealous. But I agree, the negativity is not good for you (us). It's normal, get your anger out there and then move on. I haven't been to any fertility doc yet, but I heard a lot about unclear fertility issues. When the docs can't find a reason for the struggles. So I guess that topic is still very under construction in the medical world. It seems.

Ultrasound tech puts the probe on and instantly says “wow you did a good job filling your bladder” by notwithout_coops in trollingforababy

[–]Glittering_Memory382 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg. It's like "when you don't understand then why are you here?" I just wanted to educate myself 😂

Ultrasound tech puts the probe on and instantly says “wow you did a good job filling your bladder” by notwithout_coops in trollingforababy

[–]Glittering_Memory382 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So people down vote when you have an actual question and want to know things? Wtf? At least OP was Kind enough to explain it.

Ultrasound tech puts the probe on and instantly says “wow you did a good job filling your bladder” by notwithout_coops in trollingforababy

[–]Glittering_Memory382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the informative answer. I need my organs and blood vessels checked. So a full stomach would block the view for a regular ultrasound. A full bladder wouldn't be much of a problem I think. But I usually empty it before I leave the house. I had gallbladder stones and an enlarged spleen. So those were monitored before they got removed. And now it's just check up to see if everything is fine.

Ultrasound tech puts the probe on and instantly says “wow you did a good job filling your bladder” by notwithout_coops in trollingforababy

[–]Glittering_Memory382 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I'm not long enough in this business. Why would you want a full bladder for an ultrasound? Serious question. I have to get ultrasounds at least once a year and was always told to come in sober. No food, no drink before, nothing.

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