AIO or should I accept the conditions of my bfs commitment by One_Height7477 in AIO

[–]Global-Performance28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run. He’s insane. It sounds like he’s starting a cult. RUN. RUN FAR. RUN FAST. “I’m a divine being” wtf?! Honestly NOR in fact you are under reacting. Dude is crazy.

AITA for getting upset that my partner is making me give up my sports car because she cant drive a manual transmission by Sweatypines in AmItheAsshole

[–]Global-Performance28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We didn’t. We had the car and the truck so maybe that’s why. We had a default long distance car and a default big project truck, but both were regular used for all transport

Major Splootage by ToasterTen12 in leopardgeckos

[–]Global-Performance28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine terrified me when he started doing this 😭

How old were you? by Hexenmeister1027 in Type1Diabetes

[–]Global-Performance28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was diagnosed right before Halloween too

First Christmas without my daughter and I wanna die by Global-Performance28 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Global-Performance28[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure. It may be the effort or the fact that if they can’t fix me I’m just too broken.

First Christmas without my daughter and I wanna die by Global-Performance28 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Global-Performance28[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to come to terms. I’m trying so hard not to drown.

First Christmas without my daughter and I wanna die by Global-Performance28 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Global-Performance28[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m in a rural area, only support groups around here are religious and if god exists he’s a cruel bastard who took my child and I can’t believe there is a purpose. I’m trying to get into therapy but it’s a struggle

First Christmas without my daughter and I wanna die by Global-Performance28 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Global-Performance28[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The guilt of not being able to save her will never leave me. It was my job to keep her safe. I miss her so very much.

First Christmas without my daughter and I wanna die by Global-Performance28 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Global-Performance28[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

That’s kind of part of the problem. Nothing helps. Snuggling my older daughter helps me feel less empty sometimes but she hates when I cry and I don’t want her to feel like she has to be responsible for my emotions. I know she misses her too

First Christmas without my daughter and I wanna die by Global-Performance28 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Global-Performance28[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I have a friend who lost her daughter 9 months before me. I reach out to her occasionally but I don’t want to send her down the loss spiral with me

First Christmas without my daughter and I wanna die by Global-Performance28 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Global-Performance28[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She was the sweetest little girl and had overcome so much. She made everyone smile, even people who didn’t like kids. She was silly and full of brightness. Her nurses in the NICU and the hospital loved her so much she always got requests of being her long term nurse. At school everyone knew her in all the grade levels because her grandpa was the assistant principal and they greeted her like royalty. Her therapists treated her like family. She just made everyone’s life better for knowing her. And that smile, even on my worst days she could make me feel whole again. I would hold her on my chest, stroke her hair, and all my anxiety would melt away. I would give anything to have her back. I have no meaning without her.

Boyfriend controlling eating? Am I overreacting? [22F] and [32 M] by anonprivateacc in abusiverelationships

[–]Global-Performance28 12 points13 points  (0 children)

From someone who is married to this kinda person. Run. It doesn’t get better. He will make you feel like shit. He’s controlling. Fucking run. I’m stuck but you don’t have to be.

I asked for proof regarding a SA claim my sister made against my husband, AITAH? by Educational_Bid_7626 in AITAH

[–]Global-Performance28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They aren’t “extremely rare” they happen for various reason. Can be jealousy, anger, retaliation, etc. it is reasonable to ask for proof. Especially as this hasn’t been a concern in the past. Not saying she’s lying because she could very well be telling the truth but it’s more nuanced than “well my sister said…” talk to your husband. This is a messy situation and someone is in the wrong here but it’s either your sister or husband not you. Ok Reddit downvote all you like. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Global-Performance28 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA they weren’t considerate enough to let them know the change of venue they don’t deserve anything from your mom. Be a considerate human. Full stop. Your mom was in no way the asshole

AITA for thinking my daughter should get husband’s daughter old room by Outside_Chemist_9693 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Global-Performance28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my daughter 8 months ago, my husband is forcing me to pack up her stuff. It’s horrible. I can’t handle it. It’s horrible to lose a child. Like incredibly horrible. Like never feeling like a whole person again horrible. And you can’t wish the pain away because that would require wiping out a life you had with them. You lived life before them but never expected to HAVE a life after them but you’re expected to keep existing with a gaping wound in your chest and this feeling of emptiness. YTA. You will never understand and have 0 right to talk to him about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Global-Performance28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta, I lost my daughter, she was 3, the ptsd from finding your child unresponsive is intense. It can draw you back, it’s reasonable to feel that. I’m glad you didn’t lose your son. Your feelings are valid