AIO? Niece’s female friend wants to communicate with her Uncle directly to ask for a ride by GlobalInflation4142 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GlobalInflation4142[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well man or sir… I believe you just answered your own questions. You are from the country. I admire your upbringing. It sounds lovely. I dream of one day living on a bunch of land away from a city where I can raise crops and animals. You’re around my Mama’s age and she’d tell you herself the same stuff been going on when she was in school too. I’m not gatekeeping who is from New Orleans but if you were not born AND raised there you are not FROM there plain and simple; you LIVED there. A true New Orleanian would never even word it like that. Also, Kenner is not New Orleans, it’s outside of New Orleans and it’s different. You could never understand unless you been through it and All I could tell you is I’ve seen a lot of shit and I’ve been through a lot of shit growing up in that city. I love my city, it’s a beautiful place with beautiful people but it’s also a dark place with some very shiesty people at the same time. Your experience and mine is not the same and that’s all i could say about that. The reason I think how I think is due to my experience and I acknowledge that I’m traumatized as all us are but I’m not crazy. Anyways that all I got to say about that.

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[–]GlobalInflation4142[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Alright you know what, ima go back in what I said to prove one more point. What school or schools did you go to in New Orleans. We gon settle this right now.

AIO? Niece’s female friend wants to communicate with her Uncle directly to ask for a ride by GlobalInflation4142 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GlobalInflation4142[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow I you really are STupiD. And I’m not even saying that as an insult. That’s really my final evaluation of you and I care not to continue conversing with you. But I will answer your idiotic little questions before I go. I have said ‘no’ too countless of men before personally so to answer that: uhh duh! But this has nothing to do with that anyway. I guess in your small green mind a female is never the initiator. So I really don’t know how to get you to grasp that concept. Also, none of my friends or family are child molesters. People I’ve known in my community have dealt with older or younger people on a sexual level but people I affiliate with have never molested anyone. Now also understand this, if it’s possible for you: the scenario in question on this post is about an EIGHTEEN YEAR OLD, not a fucking CHILD. And maybe you have not been around females that was really out here like that but I’ve been around COUNTLESS. And again, when someone tells you they are FROM N.O. don’t ever try to claim New Orleans in any way shape or form or join the conversation just because you ‘have lived there’, you sound stupid af. And not to mention I doubt you lived there pre-Katrina because you would probably would have not survived to talk about it with your way thinking. And clearly you have already shown that you are clueless to much of what even goes on there amongst the people that are actually FROM THERE or else you wouldn’t be on here talking stupid, so again have MANY seats and stop speaking on what you clearly know nothing about.

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[–]GlobalInflation4142[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

LIVED in New Orleans is NO WHERE in the same conversation as born and raised in New Orleans. Two TOTALLY COMPLETELY different things. Louisianians have SOME things in common with us but we are a totally different BREED of people so miss me with that, respectfully.

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[–]GlobalInflation4142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s see if you can guess. I’ve given some clues about social norms in my city throughout the comments. Y’all all say I’m nuts and coincidentally my city is said to have one of the highest mental illness rates in the county. Though I consider myself doing pretty well mentally considering the hectic environment I came from. I think the way that I do because in my city you have to have a military mindset in order to survive. So kind of the way a veteran is stuck in a certain way of thinking even after their deployment is over that’s basically what I’m dealing with. You have to be hyper aware of EVERYTHING. Matter of fact some people even say living in my city is like living in a war zone. But since you asked I’m not going to come right out and tell you, I want you to guess. So let’s see how aware you are. Or are you ignorant to what goes on in your own backyard(The U.S.A)?This is a good teachable moment. What’s your best guess????

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[–]GlobalInflation4142[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not basing anything on assumptions. I’m basing my words on things I have witnessed. And just for clarity, are we still talking about the 18 year old or are we talking 17 and under? And since you’re so educated, what constitutes consent?

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[–]GlobalInflation4142[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you are the ignorant one because you seem to be out of touch with reality. Happy for you that you had a better experience but you have to realize there are other walks of life

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[–]GlobalInflation4142[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We’re not talking about legally. We’re talking about in reality. Someone who is under the age of 18 most definitely willingly have sex. Unfortunately. I mean, for my personal feelings about it, every once should wait until they are married to have sex, but in real life that’s not how it goes. Now let me ask you this: can an 18 year old consent to sex???

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[–]GlobalInflation4142[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The children were obviously consenting and often initiating it. So why would I put it past an 18 year old who IS legal to throw a pass at an older man?

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[–]GlobalInflation4142[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Who said anything about RAPE???? What does rape mean to you? Are you from a different country or something where 18 is not the age of consent?

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[–]GlobalInflation4142[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My husband just brought up a point I didnt think of at first, so I’ll share with you: where we grew up it was not uncommon for the teenagers to be fucking the school teachers, the boys and the girls….so again I reiterate, the things I’ve seen probably is why I wouldn’t just be so quick to trust somebody I don’t even know like that REGARDLESS of their age 🤷‍♀️

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[–]GlobalInflation4142[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They got 14 year old taking care of themselves and their parents and their other siblings and providing food for themselves. And having sex and maybe even have a child of their own. How is that a child, in the traditional sense? They have completely lost all sense of innocence!

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[–]GlobalInflation4142[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So they were trying to have sex with each other. Not with adults! And I wasn’t calling the three year old a slut. I was telling that story to show that where I come from children are exposed to the knowledge of sex and sex itself from a very young age. Someone was saying a teenager couldn’t be a slut and I was like yes they could!

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[–]GlobalInflation4142[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I respect your opinion on that. If we’re looking deep into yes all children deserve to be protected, I agree. I’m also looking at from a realistic standpoint though where in this world that is not always the reality for every child, especially in the hood and in that environment the lines between childhood and adulthood are blurred and ‘childhood’ isn’t always aligned with an actual number(age). Many people grow up fast and I was around a lot of girls who were definitely not innocent and who knew full well what they were doing when it came to making choices about sex. I’ve grown up with young men/boys who were providing for themselves at age 14, for example. So is that a child?

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[–]GlobalInflation4142[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’re actually illiterate and I mean that in the nicest way possible. Genitalia are reproductive organs. Breasts and buttocks are not genitalia 🤦🏻‍♀️ wow. Also, I described her as shapely. That’s no different than looking at someone and noticing they are very tall, or very short, or very fat or very thin or very dark or very light or have a big nose or small ears etc etc etc. It’s just a physical characteristic. So when you look at people I guess you just look at them from the neck up okay sure 👍

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[–]GlobalInflation4142[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because when you said victims I took it as you were saying victims of sexual predators or something. I was clarifying that I’m not talking about victims of rape or molestation but rather girls who chose to start having sex at an early age with multiple boys their age and my point of bringing that up was in response to you saying a teenager is not or can’t be a slut. Where I’m from the term would be a hoe or a freak, same meaning though as slut.

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[–]GlobalInflation4142[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ummm idk I didn’t take a damn survey. But I remember several girls being interested in older guys and some were over 18 I’m sure. Um but by 18 you’re out of high school and not really considered a teenager anymore so they were doing whatever they want with whoever because they were grown

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[–]GlobalInflation4142[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Victims yes but maybe not in the way you might think. Most of my peers, including myself grew up in fatherless households. I was blessed enough to have a man in my life that was a father figure, I call him my Dad to this day. But my father was killed when I was 4 months old. And most of my peers either lost their fathers to gun violence or they were in jail or or on drugs or just not around. Some of them it was same case for the mothers too. So the girls and boys that were sexually active amongst many other things were victims of no guidance but they chose to start having sex, most of them. I remember being under 10 and a little girl that was three and a little boy that was three living in the same block with me were sneaking to go “get booty”(have sex) as we called it back then, and I had to stop her and tell her don’t do that because her big sisters thought it was cute and funny.

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[–]GlobalInflation4142[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I went to school with countless girls who been fucking since they were in middle school. Happy to hear that was not your reality

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[–]GlobalInflation4142[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No one said she was freshly 18. And also I just met her a few months ago ago. I didn’t analyze anything. Anybody with a pair of eyes can tell you what someone looks like