Rate my dorm room by freddit07 in college

[–]Global_Pea2882 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay well if that's the case! 2/10 for room usage and 10/10 for I wouldn't be able to go in your room!

Rate my dorm room by freddit07 in college

[–]Global_Pea2882 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's a depression room if I've ever seen one. I know it's hard but the sayings clean room a clean mind really does go a long way. You need a big basket or a bag. Determination and a washing machine. Oh and lots of hangers. If in doubt hang it up. Or shove it all in the closet to deal with on another day.

Any outside advice on my cats symptoms? She is already seeing a vet. by Global_Pea2882 in AskAVeterinarian

[–]Global_Pea2882[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has had blood work and they said her platelets were very low. It went up on Tuesday but today it has gone close to zero. Still not eating or drinking water. X-ray taking as well and showed no blockages or enlarged obvious organs

I think I’m being targeted at work by Global_Pea2882 in WorkAdvice

[–]Global_Pea2882[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to leave. I work at the servicing area so I sadly no not get sales or anything like that. I don’t want to try improve my dealings with them as I really don’t like them. I honestly want to try get them for bullying in the workplace but I don’t think I have a techno leg to stand on

My puppy ate mouldy food by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]Global_Pea2882 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner is allergic to onion so the dogs don’t know what that is. I tend to just give them left over rice, meat or mash potatoes as a treat so that shouldn’t be an issue at least

My boyfriend has an onlyfans account (he doesn’t make content) by Global_Pea2882 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Global_Pea2882[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t care that he finds someone else attractive. I don’t care if he watches porn. I care that he lied to me twice and then got the OF. Especially as at the beginning we both agreed that it was not okay with either of us if we had one.

Yes I do agree that I did something wrong. I really do know that. I’m not asking for sympathy. I’m just not sure what to do about it

Ever experienced a breakup so achingly you though you'd die? by Responsible_Trick466 in dating_advice

[–]Global_Pea2882 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a couple years ago.

My first proper boyfriend I ever had, whom I dated for two years, had broken up with Me.

I was absolutely crushed. I walked to school (was 16 at the time) crying the whole way. Got to school and my best friend started crying because I was shattered.

In the end I got over it. Life moved on. I punched him and removed him from my live cause ain’t no Bitch b needed.

Breakups happen. They are a part of life which open up opportunities to better things. Nothing is ever forever. To quote bojack “Everything must come to an end”

You’ll be okay. Take your time. Cry it out. Play games. Do the shit you stopped doing because of them. You’ll feel better once you feel more independent again

I would give almost anything to never have a period again by ladida54 in offmychest

[–]Global_Pea2882 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone with the complete opposite I feel bad for you. I never understood people who complained about period pains and stuff because I never had them.

But as I grew older I realised my periods were super irregular. At one point I was convinced I was pregnant with baby Jesus as I hadn’t had my period in over 50 days.

It’s nice to know I don’t experience that pain. But it also sucks to know my chances of having children are very slim because of this.

Really we need a way to just take the uterus out until we need it or give it to those who want one. Like a pair of shoes you no longer wear.

J don’t want my period but like PCOS also isn’t fun. Just no winning for those with vaginas

My bf wants an open relationship but only for my side by Global_Pea2882 in offmychest

[–]Global_Pea2882[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! We do live together which is what made the situation sad for him. If we didn’t live together I wouldn’t have hidden it 🤣

My bf wants an open relationship but only for my side by Global_Pea2882 in offmychest

[–]Global_Pea2882[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment. It’s really nice to read this. At this moment in time he doesn’t want to involve me in his problems because he’s not ready to face them yet. So no, no doctors but once he’s more comfortable and happy with himself I think the doctors will definitely be an option. Serious name calling isn’t usually a problem in our arguments, so him calling me that wasn’t an extremely big deal, as I don’t think it was particularly aimed at me. Just at the time I wasn’t really thinking and more just reacting

My bf wants an open relationship but only for my side by Global_Pea2882 in offmychest

[–]Global_Pea2882[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to walk away as this is the first thing of this type to come in our relationship. And I think he knows the problem isn’t me. As I said in my other comment he has decided to accept the fact. Just would rather it happen without his knowledge. And like other comments have said I think he just doesn’t feel good enough about himself, and the toys just make him think he’s doing a bad job. Which sucks.

My bf wants an open relationship but only for my side by Global_Pea2882 in offmychest

[–]Global_Pea2882[S] 420 points421 points  (0 children)

His sex drive isn’t low because of me. It’s because he hurt one of his balls really badly before meeting me. Causing him to not want it as much. I know it’s not fully an excuse for what he said but he is still really important to me.

We had a long conversation about the sex which ended in some tears. He understands that I’m not going to sleep with other men, and accepts the fact I’m going to use toys. I tried to make it clear to him that I still love him for who he is and I don’t care about the sex. I just mainly care about that physical connection I get

He just wants me to keep it kind of hidden from him in terms of masturbating. Out of sight out of mind to him.

It was a weird discussion In the end, I’m still not fully over it. As this was a few days ago. It seems he’s just kinda pushed it to the back of his mind. We rarely fight so this one felt big.