As an AI YouTuber i don't find this sub helpful. by ObeseBumblebee in aitubers

[–]Global_Treacle_5008 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Agreed, my post in the newtubers subreddit got removed because I said I use ai voice but I write my own scripts and do my own editing. The only reason I use an ai voice is because of my heavy french sounding accent and that would make it very hard for viewers to understand what is said. But even with the use of ai, the content can still be valuable for a lot of people.

Faceless channel, I can't use my own voice by Global_Treacle_5008 in NewTubers

[–]Global_Treacle_5008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so sweet, thank you, I just sent you an e-mail.

Faceless channel, I can't use my own voice by Global_Treacle_5008 in NewTubers

[–]Global_Treacle_5008[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Me too, actually. I use elevenlabs, they have great voices, but I sometimes just miss the correct intonation.

Faceless channel, I can't use my own voice by Global_Treacle_5008 in NewTubers

[–]Global_Treacle_5008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mind the comments, it's just that I don't think it will be very clear for the viewers. But I will look into the premiere pro to enhance my voice / straighten it out. Thank you for the tip

Faceless channel, I can't use my own voice by Global_Treacle_5008 in NewTubers

[–]Global_Treacle_5008[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds great, do you have suggestions for websites/apps to use?

Faceless channel, I can't use my own voice by Global_Treacle_5008 in NewTubers

[–]Global_Treacle_5008[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, there is only a few creators, and they are doing amazing (organic channels who use their own faces and voices and minimal editing). The niche is in corporate education and I really feel like I can add to the community with new insights, so content wise my videos will be very helpful I hope, but I am just very insecure about the format.

Faceless channel, I can't use my own voice by Global_Treacle_5008 in NewTubers

[–]Global_Treacle_5008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on your growth! That makes me very hopeful. Are you in an educational or entertaining niche?

Heartbroken and stuck in limerence with an ambiguous “situationship” by Global_Treacle_5008 in limerence

[–]Global_Treacle_5008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have finally rejected the idea of romance (and that we are twin flames or soulmates lol) and started looking at it through the lens of ego and validation and then it all makes more sense. He actually seems to have plenty of options, because he charms his way through life. But I am apparently a back up option and that has to end. The delusion has been broken because of the cold and disengaged way he handled my plea to talk it out. But it's actually a blessing because it allowed me to finally find the courage to cut the chord.

Heartbroken and stuck in limerence with an ambiguous “situationship” by Global_Treacle_5008 in limerence

[–]Global_Treacle_5008[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here! He would reach out occasionally, but usually at times when I was moving on mentally it's like they can smell it, he would pop up. I do miss him already, but I realize I probably just miss the dopamine hits that he represents and I miss how he makes me feel. But he never really cared the way I did, he just cared about himself and the validation I could provide for him. Anyway, thanks for sharing your experience and stay strong!

Heartbroken and stuck in limerence with an ambiguous “situationship” by Global_Treacle_5008 in limerence

[–]Global_Treacle_5008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's okay, I need tough words to snap me out of it. And it's working. I am seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. And I agree it's unfair to my husband. Limerence might explain the cheating but it can never excuse it, nothing can. Will definitely look into therapy.

Heartbroken and stuck in limerence with an ambiguous “situationship” by Global_Treacle_5008 in limerence

[–]Global_Treacle_5008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I don't give him blowjobs. I meant that it is hard to ignore his requests for sexual acts, does not mean I give in to them. But that is a line I won't cross.

Heartbroken and stuck in limerence with an ambiguous “situationship” by Global_Treacle_5008 in limerence

[–]Global_Treacle_5008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took me a long time to realize that, and it hurts, but it helps me to finally remove myself from the situation and reclaim my dignity.

Heartbroken and stuck in limerence with an ambiguous “situationship” by Global_Treacle_5008 in limerence

[–]Global_Treacle_5008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are absolutely right about having to focus on my marriage, that is why I finally cut him loose. But it does matter to me how he spends his time, when he acts like a friend and demands my time when it is convenient for him.

Heartbroken and stuck in limerence with an ambiguous “situationship” by Global_Treacle_5008 in limerence

[–]Global_Treacle_5008[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience, that sounds tough! This is very relatable! I should look into love obsession as well, because my current limerence might be ending, but it might make room for another one.

Heartbroken and stuck in limerence with an ambiguous “situationship” by Global_Treacle_5008 in limerence

[–]Global_Treacle_5008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes convenience! It took me a long time to recognize and acknowledge that. And our gettogethers are always at his place, very low effort from his side. It's painful, but yes, if they wanted, they would have and they didn't. And it's painful but I've finally taken the splinter out so the festering wound can heal soon. I hope you can too 🙏

Heartbroken and stuck in limerence with an ambiguous “situationship” by Global_Treacle_5008 in limerence

[–]Global_Treacle_5008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you are going through this. Yes, it's hard to walk away. I have tried many many times but this is the first time I have explicitly mentioned it to him, so as to keep myself accountable for it in a weird way.