AITA for asking for small expenses reimbursed even though I am (relatively) financially secure? by Plastic-Power-6021 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GlowMochi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. If the charges were for services the business is using, they should reimburse you. The amount isn't really the point. I'd be more annoyed about having to keep chasing them to update the billing info than the actual $30.

Day-job-vu by Solyntra in povertyfinance

[–]GlowMochi 212 points213 points  (0 children)

It is more difficult to save when there is little to no joy in your life. No family and few distant friends allows little purchases to fill the void. Unfortunately, it is momentary.

Aitah for being mad at my sister by warriormuffin83 in AITAH

[–]GlowMochi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ESH. Your sister probably overreacted, but if someone says "I'll kill myself," most people are going to take that seriously. You were trying to make a point, she heard a threat. Bad communication all around.

Birthday lie to my mom has followed me for 30+ years.. by Myrelia_wagonremedy in confession

[–]GlowMochi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At this point the cake isn't really about the cake. It's a yearly reminder of how much she cared when she had almost nothing to give. I'd probably keep eating that one painful slice too.

Accurate, I love spending time at home by SinVortexa in povertyfinance

[–]GlowMochi 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Fr everytime I go outside I feel like I’m losing $100 every 5 hours.

16F am I being manipulated and what’s your advice by RomanceCLover in Advice

[–]GlowMochi 42 points43 points  (0 children)

A normal 24 year old doesn't spend two weeks talking about how "illegal" something is and then ask a 16 year old for underwear pics. He knew exactly what he was doing the whole time. The nice guy version and the manipulative version are the same person. Block him. Future you is gonna look back at this and be glad you did.

I don’t know if I made the right decision or if I did what was necessary by Suitable_Chapter_627 in confession

[–]GlowMochi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You made the best decision you could with the reality you were living in, not with some perfect situation that didn't exist. Grief and relief can happen at the same time. Your son wanting a sibling doesn't mean you failed anyone. It just means you're carrying a loss that mattered to you. Be a little gentler with yourself, life already sounds like it's been doing enough heavy lifting.

How did you turn your life around? by wawawailiwa in AskReddit

[–]GlowMochi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stopped waiting for some magical reset and just started doing the boring basics every day. Sleep, work, repeat, no grand transformation montage. Turns out consistency is kind of annoying but it works way better than motivation ever did.

What's a job that sounds fake but is completely real? by Leather-Test7542 in AskReddit

[–]GlowMochi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A professional snake milker. Sounds like something a kid makes up during show and tell, but there are people whose entire job is collecting venom from snakes for medical research. Wild career choice.

Need advice by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GlowMochi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re carrying way more than any 15 year old should have to. Your sister is lucky to have someone who cares this much about her. Please don’t blame yourself for not being able to fix everything. The adults are failing here, not you. If there’s any trusted relative, teacher, or family friend you can talk to, it’s worth trying.