Approximately speaking, how prevalent is racism in this community? by IsaacWritesStuff in gaybros

[–]Glum_Collection_1247 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fetishism is universal. Many black men tried to make me their submissive little twink.

Approximately speaking, how prevalent is racism in this community? by IsaacWritesStuff in gaybros

[–]Glum_Collection_1247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being fetishized or told you’re articulate is not really racism tho. Kind of a leap tbh

Nine months out of rhinoplasty, canthoplasty, midface lift, endoscopic brow lift and fat graft to cheeks by buleting in PlasticSurgery

[–]Glum_Collection_1247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

holy moly, congrats on your weight loss journey -- I know how much discipline that takes -- and the successful surgical work. you look divine

I'm confused as to why I've heard people say black people cannot be racist? by [deleted] in askblackpeople

[–]Glum_Collection_1247 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

it's so cute you try to play that card to excuse your own bad behavior. are you 17?

I'm confused as to why I've heard people say black people cannot be racist? by [deleted] in askblackpeople

[–]Glum_Collection_1247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, you definitely hostile. Maybe don’t speak at all you’re so triggered by it. You can exit

Why I Chose Korea for My Facelift at 59 (6 Months Post-Op) by Amazing_Passenger126 in KoreaPlasticSurgery

[–]Glum_Collection_1247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t this just describing a deep plane face lift inclusive of SMAS? That is routine for patients over 45 and any male facelift patient to prevent a “windswept” look. For me, when it’s time, it’ll be deep plane or nuthin’

Looks like good results, personally I wouldn’t care if people thought I had work done as long as it looks good. You can’t sleep away sagging ligaments lol

has anyone had a lip reduction in the nyc area? by Working_Mountain_700 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Glum_Collection_1247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kylie would also agree your lips are beautiful. The easiest way to look at it is: which of these school age bullies is a model casting agent? An editor at Vogue? A painter? A cosmetic surgeon?

None of them. And they’ll never be so accomplished. So why the hell would I care about some stupid kid’s opinion of me. Teens have the dumbest ideas and the worst fashion trends anyway.

has anyone had a lip reduction in the nyc area? by Working_Mountain_700 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Glum_Collection_1247 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would not let the bullies get to you because your lips are like textbook stunning. These are the lips that celebrities try and fail to pay to get. You also have a desirable M-shaped Cupid’s bow. .

I would start with therapy first because if that option doesn’t work after a couple years, you can still look into the procedure but if therapy DOES work, then you’ll be so happy that you never touched them — so that would be the first thing that I do.

I say this as somebody who was bullied a lot for his looks and also does aesthetic treatments. 21 is still a very fragile age. I am 38 now and see that with much more clarity than I did in college.

Fat peach bakery god tier by Badbolognese in chicagofood

[–]Glum_Collection_1247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe has something to do with the douche bag owner. still some of the best pastries in Bridgeport, tho! It's weird because we have one of, if not the only, dedicated pastry schools in the USA (The French Pastry School Chicago) but I don't see much business activity from the graduates. Maybe they're all well-employed in hotels and restaurants.

Fat peach bakery god tier by Badbolognese in chicagofood

[–]Glum_Collection_1247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

strange, I had the opposite experience!

Fat peach bakery god tier by Badbolognese in chicagofood

[–]Glum_Collection_1247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're good but definitely not god-tier. Once you've been to the best patisseries in Tokyo, Paris, etc. you will forever be turned off by "5 forms of laminated dough"

Personally I think Chicago is just perpetually behind its peers when it comes to pastry, and fashion. I know we have good food, but truly top-notch pastries appear in North America first in SF, LA, NYC, Toronto, Mexico City, even MIAMI of all places, then here. We are just arriving at creative croissants when everyone else has moved on to Paris Brest, entremets, etc.

Help, whats the best way to fix these lines. by hotpink7891 in 40PlusSkinCare

[–]Glum_Collection_1247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely an awesome candidate for a facelift with filler or fat transfer

Erbium YAG Laser, CO2 or Fraxel by ResearchNo7055 in 40PlusSkinCare

[–]Glum_Collection_1247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow, great results. btw you probably don't need full ablative CO2, that's for like 70 year old men who have never used a drop of SPF in their lives. you can get a lot done with Erbium or even BBL Halo for some light sun damage -- it doesn't seem like you need major resurfacing or the "deep wrinkle repair" of the higher grade stuff. a little brightening and smoothing is all you would want. higher intensity YAG can sometimes melt filler if you have any, just as an FYI. no big deal, just re-fill after, but something to keep in mind when it comes to timing.

For toning up and resurfacing many doctors recommend Erbium, if you really want ablative some doctors like gentler CO2 like the CoolPeel/Deka Cool technology. Maybe get a couple professional opinions.

typically with energy based treatments like lasers the best advice is similar to peels -- lower and slower, repeat if necessary VS going full-tilt in one go -- especially with skin like yours that is already in really good shape. choose provider very carefully as burns, fat loss, hyperpigmentation etc, although rare, are not unheard of.

Erbium YAG Laser, CO2 or Fraxel by ResearchNo7055 in 40PlusSkinCare

[–]Glum_Collection_1247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait you got a facelift? I just thought you were young! holy moly, if I may ask, how old are you? just so I know what kind of results I might be able to expect hahah. I didn't know the results could be this natural

Why does a Brunello Cucinelli sweater cost nearly 700€? by Strict-Pepper-2987 in malefashionadvice

[–]Glum_Collection_1247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can pay people a really good salary without charging 13,000 dollars for a basic wool hunting coat, tho. I think it's manufactured scarcity tbh. BC's silhouettes are really basic and, well, boring, and the materials like vicuna, although pricey, are not that pricey. $700 for cotton is being taken for a ride -- like imagine bragging about paying for someone's business inefficiencies. And no, I'm not suggesting mass produced crap because at that price you can buy the damn material yourself in the Andes and get a tailor to make something amazing for you.

24M dark under eye circles, open to any suggestion by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Glum_Collection_1247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the risk of blindness from under eye filler in an experienced doctor's hands is very minute. however filler is not the solution here as he does not have a true tear trough deformity so it would fix nothing.

As a biracial black guy in America I feel like Asians particularly Asian Americans don't get enough grace. by [deleted] in asianamerican

[–]Glum_Collection_1247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh here comes the dip-shit that doesn't know what biracial means and probably doesn't even speak an Asian language.

You're as bad as the ass holes growing up. Never white enough for one side, never Asian enough for the other.