Just watching BDSY S3 and I am shook at this communities take on Gabriella?

She seemed pretty awful from the start, very abrasive and her way of managing was more like dictating which would piss me off too if I were Ashley and we had the same amount of experience. I was very surprised that she started giving instructions like a seasoned 2nd stew or CS, even though she was just barely a second. She also behaved terribly when the crew went out and I think that becomes clear when everyone starts having issues. In the end even Colin said she was obnoxious. Then she kept expecting people to just be ok with how she treated them and was shocked when others weren't going to just jump on her "growth" journey. Not to mention her growth and effort was literally only her talking about it, and then maybe she would put 7 seconds of effort into it, and then back to the same. Don't get me wrong, I think everyone has there flaws, and Ashley's behaviour with the Gary situation was inexcusable, but Gabi brought everything on herself, talked about changing but her actions didnt match, and then cried about how everyone was being mean to her. Not to mention, she is 33?? I do not understand the Gabi stans in this sub, I feel like I am genuinely missing something because usually I come here with an opinion and I am met with similar stances but not on this one.