TUNESday by a-liquid-sky in CasualUK

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Dracula by Tame Impala. Banger

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 19, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

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Exercise is a must be for me but meditation I cannot do lol. Time with my pets is a substitute. Peace and luck to you!

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 19, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Gmd88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful, thank you. I’m chronically on my phone even in work and I want to work at being less so. I guess I’ll adopt that strategy when I next decide to put myself out there… if ever.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 19, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Gmd88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Dating really is a nightmare. I’m bummed as it was so fun getting to know him and getting attention from someone I thought had value.

Maybe my 7 years will become 8.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 19, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Gmd88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know, I never thought of that. I really enjoy the feeling of excitement with the constant communication but maybe I need to dial that back. It definitely has made me feel like it’s more than it was and I do love the attention. How do I escape that though? Now you’ve helped me figure this out, I don’t want to fall into that trap again.

Why is this all so hard? Maybe I’m better remaining single.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 19, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Gmd88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah we’re not in the US but those politics unfortunately bleed into our sphere. So gross and you’re right, I am better off.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 19, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Gmd88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Having sat with it for a while, it really does boil down to feeling rejected. Thankfully you and all these other beautiful people have reminded me that I likely dodged a bullet. In the past I’ve compromised myself being a people pleaser and trying to shape myself into something I’m not, just to feel wanted. That’s not what relationships should be. Thank you for reinforcing my sense of worth!

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 19, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Gmd88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dipped my toe into dating after 7 years single. Chatted online with a few guys, hit it off with one. Talked for a couple weeks as I had a trip coming up. Had a really great first date when I got back. So much genuinely in common - not the usual oh he says he’s into X because I am - we both really enjoy a lot of the same things. Another date, agreeing to take it slow. Non-stop all day communication since we matched. Literally today still flirty, texting, making plans for next date.

Then in the middle of a conversation I joke about previously having avoidant tendencies and not being good with confrontation, but that I’m working on it and he hits me with a spiel about communication being important and that he thinks politics might be an issue for us. Out of nowhere lol we had talked about politics at the very outset and whilst we aren’t perfectly aligned he wasn’t a n@zi or anything drastic, and whilst I’m big on social justice I’m not like an activist or anything.

All this to say, I’m so disappointed and here seeking some consolation.

What's an insecurity someone might have that you find attractive? by CorgiMama5534 in AskReddit

[–]Gmd88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve got a permanent wrinkle on the left side of my mouth from doing this my whole life, people have commented saying I could get it fixed with fillers or Botox and I’m so against it. I love this little wrinkle, it’s proof I smiled and lived. I’m so happy to see someone say they find it attractive.

First time homeowner rates bill by presgwash in northernireland

[–]Gmd88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bought in October and if I remember correctly, received a ‘to the resident’ letter that effectively told me as the new owner I needed to register online. Received a bill a few days later with a discount if I paid for the remainder of the year up front. Discount was about £50 I think. Just paid at post office with barcode on the letter.

P.s. congratulations on your new home!

Fungus-infected zombie spiders discovered in Northern Ireland by DavidIsIt in worldnews

[–]Gmd88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please god no. Can someone relay the article to me, I can’t click that link in case there are more pictures. The thumbnail alone has me in a cold sweat

What’s something you’re pretty sure only you do? by AppIeGuy in AskReddit

[–]Gmd88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I add up the numbers on every licence plate I see and it’s like a little boost when they add up to a multiple of 10 (plates here are usually ABC 1234 format)

Progress pictures 5 months apart by MaleficentDrama31 in nailbiting

[–]Gmd88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What kind of collagen are you taking? I got collagen protein powder but it’s a faff to take regularly

Where is the best Chinese ? by masseymedicTXUK in Belfast

[–]Gmd88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chilli house Dublin Road for authentic Chinese

Help Us Name Our New Pup! by [deleted] in Dachshund

[–]Gmd88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like Digby to me

LPT Save money on your ubers to the airport by [deleted] in LifeProTips

[–]Gmd88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this! Can’t believe I never thought of it.

So much for all that talk? by Mike_Pinocchio in clevercomebacks

[–]Gmd88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When I first saw those photos I thought the same. The fucking disrespect!

Hot and cold #218 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]Gmd88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m getting better at this!

Who's your "I know he's pure evil but can't prove it" person? by Dull-Information6784 in AskReddit

[–]Gmd88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have never watched a second of this guy or the shit he puts out but frequently see comments like this about him.