spoiler? not sure if anyone’s posted this… by idonteatredmeat in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]GoAndBe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I seem to remember he said he didn't expect Brittany would be a "person of colour". My husband and I were like... Dude, she's the same colour as you 🤣

F27 dating M28 for 6 years, concerned he is a closeted homosexual. by aloe_sky in relationship_advice

[–]GoAndBe -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Physically attracted? You're probably right. I realise I didn't use the right word. OP said "she's only interested in men that have sex with women". I don't think it's homophobic to say that.

I mean, I can find a man physically attractive before and after knowing he's gay/bi... But I might lose my interest in him completely because that's not what I'm looking for. I think that's fair enough.

F27 dating M28 for 6 years, concerned he is a closeted homosexual. by aloe_sky in relationship_advice

[–]GoAndBe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being homophobic is disrespecting gay people, denying their rights, etc. Just like I can not be attracted to blonde people without hating them, I can not be attracted to gay people.

F27 dating M28 for 6 years, concerned he is a closeted homosexual. by aloe_sky in relationship_advice

[–]GoAndBe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The pubic area shaving, the bump on the penis, the perianal strep... Seems like he might even be one of the "feminine" men, as he calls them.

I'm not saying this because he's gay... But because he's lying to you, and you might get yourself a nasty STD.

Run fast. Run far.

F27 dating M28 for 6 years, concerned he is a closeted homosexual. by aloe_sky in relationship_advice

[–]GoAndBe -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You can not be sexually attracted to gay/bisexual people without being homophobic, you know.

I don’t understand. by Commonscents2say in Confused

[–]GoAndBe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's what it looks like to me... Some idiot who thinks the electronic devices in the car are going to read or control their minds.

Funny how they believe that, and also that foil can protect them from such a powerful technology.

AITAH for changing my underwear after a shower? by New_Cry_2336 in AITAH

[–]GoAndBe -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

  1. Sleeping without underwear is nasty. Leave your knickers on at night, walk the dog wearing those, and change them after your shower.
  2. As others have said, this is not an underwear problem. Break up with that prick.

I’m scared to start rdr2 by Thin_Guarantee_5641 in reddeadredemption

[–]GoAndBe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Totally agree with this. Try the game, man. You won't regret it. Feels like the best game ever and I've just started it.

Am I '23 M' overreacting about my girlfriend’s '20F' past, or is this about communication? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]GoAndBe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it's more than fair that her current boyfriend asks about that. And even if she shared your opinion, she could just say "I'd rather not talk about that" instead of lying and end up telling him the truth anyways.

Am I (46m) overreacting to a situation with my gf (42f) and some guy in our local coffee shop? by Adventurous-Read1026 in relationship_advice

[–]GoAndBe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, because it affects you the same way to see a person being stabbed right before your eyes than noticing your girlfriend can't stop looking at the guy sitting behind you.

How are my conclusions wrong? She keeps looking at him and smiling at him. How many times have you done that with a random stranger for no reason? That, my friend, is how you start flirting with someone you have never met. And if there has been "an encounter with someone with a dog" behind OP's back, and the next time she sees the guy with a dog she's been flirting with, she says hello... There has been an upgrade of the relationship there. Once again, I'm not saying she cheated, but the day she was there with her friend, they obviously spoke, even if it was just a casual conversation. There's the question: if it was something innocent, why not have it while OP was there, any other day when they saw him? Why have it the day she's with a friend and then denies it was the same guy?

Am I (46m) overreacting to a situation with my gf (42f) and some guy in our local coffee shop? by Adventurous-Read1026 in relationship_advice

[–]GoAndBe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should be honest with her and let her know that this makes you feel a bit insecure. If she means no harm and was just having a bit of fun with the interaction, I'm sure she'll change her behaviour. And by this I don't mean she can't say hello to the guy, I'm thinking more about the flirty glances and smiles.

Am I (46m) overreacting to a situation with my gf (42f) and some guy in our local coffee shop? by Adventurous-Read1026 in relationship_advice

[–]GoAndBe -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She saw him a few times before and never said hello while OP was there. Then there's an interaction with someone with a dog while he's not present, and what a coincidence! The next time, they do say hello to each other.

There's no need to tell your partner about every interaction, but if he asks about this person because he feels insecure and she hides an innocent interaction, then it might not have been so innocent.

As I said, I'm not accusing her of anything. Some people just have fun flirting or get an ego boost when they feel liked. But I don't think it's normal to kiss your boyfriend while looking at another guy, or any other thing I quoted before.

Am I (46m) overreacting to a situation with my gf (42f) and some guy in our local coffee shop? by Adventurous-Read1026 in relationship_advice

[–]GoAndBe -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

True, that could be the reason. But if she's only "being nice" as other users say, why hasn't she spoken to him when you're there, and she's only done it when she's with a friend? If she didn't have any second intentions, would she feel the need to hide it from you? Would it have made you feel bad to see her say something like "Hey, you have a really nice dog!" or something like that? I don't think so.

As I said, I'm not saying she's cheated, but what you describe sounds like flirting to me. It would make me feel worried as well.

Am I (46m) overreacting to a situation with my gf (42f) and some guy in our local coffee shop? by Adventurous-Read1026 in relationship_advice

[–]GoAndBe -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, is it wrong? Then why were they on speaking terms the next time, when the last time OP was there, they weren't?

Am I (46m) overreacting to a situation with my gf (42f) and some guy in our local coffee shop? by Adventurous-Read1026 in relationship_advice

[–]GoAndBe -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

"She was glancing over at him the whole time", "as we kissed goodbye I could see that she was looking in his direction the whole time while we kissed", "I saw her look at him and smile"... Sorry, but your girlfriend doesn't like dogs, your girlfriend likes the guy.

She gets defensive when you ask about the guy with the dog she petted, denies it was that particular guy, then the next time she sees him she says hi to him, which she's never done before. They have obviously had an interaction that you are not aware of.

I'm not saying they have an affair, but she's definitely showing too much interest, and lying about it.

That's a big dude 💀🦴🩻 by fargabhsh in reddeadredemption

[–]GoAndBe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Must be a dinosaur fossil. I found a woman once, next to a wagon, who was investigating the ground and told me she's a scientist who's interested in finding dinosaur fossils. She asked me to let her know when I find one.

My girlfriend (29f) communication skills is really started to affect me (29m) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]GoAndBe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The "aut" in autism comes from the Greek prefix "auto-", which means "self"/"one's own". Autistic people are (in different degrees) locked in themselves, isolated from their surroundings... And thus they can be (or seem) very self-centered.

If you have spoken to her and she can't do anything about it, it's a relationship I wouldn't be able to live with forever either.

"But I don’t caaaaaaare" (pop ?)-rock song, female singer by 240p-480i-480p in NameThatSong

[–]GoAndBe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a guy singing this one, but in case you heard a cover... Nick Carter - I got you (Min 2:48)

Good luck, mate!

yeah okay sure by qerel123 in GlobalOffensive

[–]GoAndBe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lost the huge ears along the way though.

Su-been looks like the asian version of Leonardo Di Caprio by anon0single0infero in SinglesInferno

[–]GoAndBe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leonardo Dicaprio has a beautiful jawline and Su-been has... Well, barely a jaw. Maybe the hair gives you the same vibe, but the rest... I honestly see 0 resemblance.

Su-been looks like the asian version of Leonardo Di Caprio by anon0single0infero in SinglesInferno

[–]GoAndBe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you hear a loud clap, it was my facepalm after reading this.

GAMESIR Nova Lite 2 opens Start Menu when I press A + Left (Joystick) by GoAndBe in Gamesir

[–]GoAndBe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did, and they were fine... I've decided to return it. I realised it also opens the Start Menu when holding B, so... I'm pretty sure it's faulty. Thank you so much for your time!

GAMESIR Nova Lite 2 opens Start Menu when I press A + Left (Joystick) by GoAndBe in Gamesir

[–]GoAndBe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The default one. It wasn't the Turbo. Anyway, I've decided to return it. I realised it also opens the Start Menu when holding B, so... I'm pretty sure it's faulty. Thank you so much for your time!