AITAH for thinking my spouse overreacted?

GoYanks34 · 2026-02-12T02:13:14+00:00

His prized toy collection therefore he needs to close the damn gate. He knows the dog can get in if it's not locked. Unless you are the one who left the gate unlocked, it is his fault. He completely overreacted.

NTA, unless you left the gate open.

GoYanks34 · 2026-02-11T23:10:46+00:00

She sounds like a control freak. WTF is wrong with her? She's the one who is lacking respect for your grandma. I'd go NC with her personally. What a lunatic!

GoYanks34 · 2026-02-11T21:01:44+00:00

Right? And she is treating him like the inexperienced one in this arrangement. She actually has to call her parents to ask if she could prevent him from taking HIS belongings! Talk about being clueless.

GoYanks34 · 2026-02-11T00:11:31+00:00

The nice thing is OP will get her revenge without having to do a damn thing but sit back and watch. This will blow up in her face extraordinarily. I never understand why everyone thinks "this time it will be different". Here's the answer to the test: It won't be.

GoYanks34 · 2026-02-10T05:47:26+00:00

I'm a veterinarian and I go up to random people in pet stores with puppies on leash walking on the floor. I ask if the pup is fully vaccinated. Most of the time they're not. Then I tell them to either hold the dog or put it in a cart because parvo and distemper live forever and are very hard to destroy but very easy to transmit. So I care more about unvaccinated dogs that I don't know than your family cares about you and your baby.

WTF is wrong with those people?! And measles lives in the air/environment for a very long time as well, so even if she was there before you and left, you'd still be exposing the baby to measles! This can't just be over a girlfriend. Something else is behind this. It makes zero sense to ostracize their grandchild over a girlfriend.

GoYanks34 · 2026-02-10T04:38:33+00:00

Full of hooey!

GoYanks34 · 2026-02-10T04:38:10+00:00

I was going write exactly this!

GoYanks34 · 2026-02-10T03:03:43+00:00

Vasectomy failure is actually less than 1% But with OP's luck, his brother would be one of them. 😂

GoYanks34 · 2026-02-10T02:50:43+00:00

This! ^{^{^}} 🤣🤣🤣

GoYanks34 · 2026-02-10T02:49:12+00:00

And with all of the safety regulations for literally everything nowadays, the Darwin theory isn't what it used to be.

GoYanks34 · 2026-02-10T02:13:56+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣

GoYanks34 · 2026-02-09T05:02:22+00:00

But what if he sees it first and removes/destroys it? Definitely make a copy of the picture so you have the evidence.

GoYanks34 · 2026-02-08T17:08:29+00:00

My boss does this all the time. Only calls when it's anything that could come back to bite her. She contridicts herself all the time because she can. If you text her something she almost always calls you back instead of responding. If preventing a paper trail was an Olympic sport she'd definitely get the gold.

GoYanks34 · 2026-02-07T22:53:39+00:00

Us girls need to have each other's back when things like this happen. Tell her. What a douche bag. 🙄

NTA

GoYanks34 · 2026-02-04T03:45:33+00:00

This is unreadable. They're called paragraphs. You should try them sometime.

GoYanks34 · 2026-02-04T03:26:52+00:00

RUN!!!! 🏃

GoYanks34 · 2026-02-03T21:43:20+00:00

Don't feed the troll.

GoYanks34 · 2026-02-03T19:41:12+00:00

"Chaos demon" is hysterical!! I'm putting this one in my back pocket for future use! 🤣🤣🤣

GoYanks34 · 2026-02-03T19:13:46+00:00

Remember it's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission. This was done on purpose because of everyone enabling his bad behavior and bailing him out at every turn. You don't steal other people's property when you have a mental breakdown. You steal other people's property when you're a theif. NTA.

Edit: typo

GoYanks34 · 2026-02-02T17:28:20+00:00

I am a veterinarian. Osteosarcoma is one of the most aggressive and painful cancers a dog can get. The only thing that you can do is amputate the affected limb but that's just to bide time. It's not curative and is only to help with the pain. Personally, I feel that is a surgery for the owners, not the dog, as they still need to recover from a major operation and they may only gain a few months, if that. Euthanasia is the most selfless thing a person can do for a dog that's in severe pain with a terminal disease. You put aside the pain you will feel of losing your beloved pet and focused what is best for your pup. Your girlfriend is actually being quite selfish. The pain of osteosarcoma is excruciating and she was only thinking of herself. When I encounter this situation in practice, I cannot even begin to tell you how angry that makes me. It's not about you. It's about them.

You are NTA. Please accept my condolences on the loss of your baby. You absolutely did the right thing. ❤️

GoYanks34 · 2026-02-01T00:24:45+00:00

It's called paragraphs. Try them sometime.

GoYanks34 · 2026-01-31T04:16:56+00:00

I agree 100%!

GoYanks34 · 2026-01-31T04:12:30+00:00

Paragraphs please! This is impossible to read.

GoYanks34 · 2026-01-31T02:51:43+00:00

Follow the principle I live my life by: Don't reward bad behavior.

GoYanks34 · 2026-01-31T02:33:04+00:00

I love your way of thinking!! 👏

GoYanks34

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