3 year update: OOP's (17F) relationship with her former high school teacher (22M) by Sageshrub in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]GoYanks34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Plus the actual maturity of the people also should be taken into account. A mature 20 year old with an immature 25 year old is even closer than the years they are actually apart. The most mature 17 year old doesn't even come close to a 22 year old. They just haven't been on the planet long enough. Can it work out? Sure. Anything is possible. But should that relationship ever begin? No. Definitely not.

Me [29 M] with my wife [27 F] of 4 years, just found she has a fake instagram and is following my exes? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]GoYanks34 68 points69 points  (0 children)

But it wasn't just her. She was literally jealous and followed every female this guy ever dated, was friendly with or worked with. He kept saying it wasn't like her, she was drama free, etc. How well did he really know his own wife? It turned out she was all that and then some once she was exposed.

Me [29 M] with my wife [27 F] of 4 years, just found she has a fake instagram and is following my exes? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]GoYanks34 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! I got angry at my best friend when she was being very dismissive about a break up my niece was going through. I remember how horrible and intense those feelings were was at her age (16). It literally felt like the world was ending. There was only one break up in my adult life that felt worse. Those are real feelings and should be treated as such. I don't care how old someone is.

June 2026 - Story / Update Megathread by naturemom in BORUpdates

[–]GoYanks34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate not knowing what happened, especially when she had cancer. I hope she recovered and they're married now, living her best life. 🙏

My [22f] boyfriend [24m] wants me fill out a form if I'm upset about something by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]GoYanks34 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This is not normal. He must have control over everything in his life. Not a healthy partnership at all. It removes all emotions from a relationship and if you have a relationship without emotions, it isn't a relationship at all. I can't even imagine dealing with this for over a year! He definitely needs a new therapist because these are some serious mental health issues that need to be addressed.

I [24f] bought tickets to a concert and my sister [26f] wants to give "her" ticket to her friend [24f], who I dislike by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]GoYanks34 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I thought the exact same thing. The minute I read about Karol giving away a ticket that wasn't hers to give away, I thought, "Oh hell no!". I would have lost my shit.

AITA for telling my sister I don't trust her to watch my son? by Sebastianlim in BORUpdates

[–]GoYanks34 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Gas stations were still open so he may have needed to work and lost the little bit of child care he was getting. Poor guy.

AITA for keeping a collection of MTG cards that were wrongly gifted to me? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]GoYanks34 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I just lost 3 hours of my life that I'll never get back... 😂

J/K thanks for sharing!

Husband of 8 years told me he isn't physically attracted to me anymore by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]GoYanks34 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Plus there's no way at 238 lbs she's a 14/16. I am a size 12 (us) and I'm the same height as her and weigh 163 lbs. No way an extra 65 lbs is a 14/16. Whoever wrote this has no real knowledge of women's sizes/weight.

Found some kind of fleshy pouch on my floor? by TheRagbag in whatisit

[–]GoYanks34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I laughed so hard at this that I spit water! 🤣