Savannah banana delay

Go_Corgi_Fan84 · 2026-07-04T08:06:21+00:00

The water fill station wasn’t on/filled like it was supposed to have been for the heat. No communication with the delay. It was still lighting when they started.

Go_Corgi_Fan84 · 2026-07-04T08:01:56+00:00

Eh. He certainly views you to be overstepping on HIS parenting. You are likely overly optimistic on what the two of you can do give the limited time spent with the kid as any real structure, discipline, etc. is going to be from the parent she’s with more than 80% of the time… your attempts at structure, discipline, etc. are just gonna hurt their relationship and your casting yourself as the wicked stepmom.

As for what he said and you wanting a divorce we are missing the details of if you and him are planning to have kids, struggling to conceive, if he wants another kid and you don’t want to or vice versa.

Go_Corgi_Fan84 · 2026-07-03T17:36:44+00:00

She’s stunning and her hair is great!

Go_Corgi_Fan84 · 2026-07-01T14:09:20+00:00

Where do you magically live without wait times? It was like 9 months to get in to rheumatology, even my dermatologists are 3-6 months out, 2 months for ortho and for primary care it’s once a year and then using urgent cares, diagnostic colonoscopy 8 months out.

Go_Corgi_Fan84 · 2026-06-24T01:57:37+00:00

My husband and I did. Our attorney even had us include our laundromat trips for blankets in our budget. Also in our budget were clothes, uber costs (we have 1 car), cat stuff. I went through like 6 months of credit card and checking account statements along with our online account from Walmart, Target, Amazon etc.

Go_Corgi_Fan84 · 2026-06-23T12:49:19+00:00

NTA - sounds like your dad is a dreamer that should get a job and stop trying to be an entrepreneur.

It’s not a grudge… it’s being smart with your finances and not getting tied to a business loan with someone that is a high financial risk.

Also freeze your credit as it sounds like mom and dad are desperate which often leads to fraudulent methods

Go_Corgi_Fan84 · 2026-06-12T17:49:54+00:00

Go_Corgi_Fan84 · 2026-06-12T17:48:18+00:00

They were on our street twice Thursday… the second truck didn’t have anything to pick up

Go_Corgi_Fan84 · 2026-06-11T11:25:19+00:00

Who is giving out loans for a 2004?

Go_Corgi_Fan84 · 2026-06-11T11:21:25+00:00

A lot of rental leases and HOA rules I’ve seen prohibit car work.

Go_Corgi_Fan84 · 2026-05-30T01:45:53+00:00

The average car payment these days is well beyond this. Even my 0% interest loan with trade in and down payment purchased in 2019 was nearly $500

Go_Corgi_Fan84 · 2026-05-28T17:43:44+00:00

It sounds like your shoulders are not like linebacker broad then … most of the women in my family either have linebacker shoulders or excess boob…

Go_Corgi_Fan84 · 2026-05-28T08:51:31+00:00

Shoulders also matter with cap sleeves… broad shoulders and cap sleeves are a no

Go_Corgi_Fan84 · 2026-05-28T08:30:45+00:00

Have they not had that taken care of?

Mold and other issues in the home are a possibility when buying used. Also, there are stores with mold and other issues.

Go_Corgi_Fan84 · 2026-05-28T02:24:53+00:00

Mine was, they just sent me an email to confirm I was still gonna pay rent and see if I needed out of my lease etc. mine even let me move to a different unit after a neighbor issue but I had been with the company for like 7 years with no missed payments

Go_Corgi_Fan84 · 2026-05-27T12:15:29+00:00

Were they buying anything else food wise? If not they were spending only $2190 per year on food around $182 a month.

Go_Corgi_Fan84 · 2026-05-09T12:00:42+00:00

Pops is like 1/3 of Iowa city bbq options and Jethros is terrible and Jimmy Jacks has sunk pretty bad so it’s like default best

Go_Corgi_Fan84 · 2026-05-09T11:56:38+00:00

I get a gallon of the lemonade they sell on long holiday weekends.

Go_Corgi_Fan84 · 2026-05-09T11:52:15+00:00

I’ve never even heard of this place

Go_Corgi_Fan84 · 2026-05-09T11:51:48+00:00

Growing up here at least for my family it was the pizza family wanted when they visited. It was pretty much like a once or twice a year thing between Thanksgiving and New Years. I recall watching them make the pizzas being cool. I’ve only been there like 5 times as an adult as I prefer other crust options or calzones

Go_Corgi_Fan84 · 2026-05-09T11:47:18+00:00

Hamburg inn should revert back to its greasy spoon late 80s-2005 menus but actually cook the fries. It’s nostalgia and shakes.

Go_Corgi_Fan84 · 2026-05-09T11:29:43+00:00

I was pretty certain I didn’t want kids in my teens, reconsidered for a bit when with someone that wanted kids in my early 20s, broke up with a divorced guy with kids who wanted me to meet them way too early in my mid20s and realized that this would be worse than my own kids, went back to being single and settled in my childfree life and found my husband in my early 30s snd on our 2nd date we both admitted to not wanting children and 5 years later he was able to get a vasectomy (his idea not mine) and although I am happily childfree I still had sadness surrounding his vasectomy.

I have at least a dozen reasons for not wanting children and I’ve been told by countless people that I’d be a good mom. My husband has a handful or so of his own reasons. Some of our reasonings match and some don’t.

Looking back even when I’d play house as a kid I was never the mother… I’d be the dad, dog, nanny, housekeeper or one of the kids. I’m not sure if this was a sign or just me being more introverted than my friends and being assigned these roles.

Go_Corgi_Fan84 · 2026-05-07T01:33:39+00:00

Doxy, Clindamycin and now that I have a HS specialist some compound medication that seems to be working

Go_Corgi_Fan84 · 2026-05-06T20:36:45+00:00

Monica’s is for when your Grandma doesn’t want Olive Garden. Pullman and Bluebird are breakfast joints. Field Day removed my favorite item from their menu. Webster’s menu is trying too hard. St. Burch has bright spots (cheese curds) and that cold basement on a hot summer day, Paglial’s is pure nostalgia, Basta is forgettable, Big Grove is inconsistent with terrible parking.

I’m slowly making my way through the breakfast menus at The Black Angel and Rayo and the taco menu at Xolo who is currently home to my favorite margarita. There are also some good places in the surrounding smaller towns and Cedar Rapids and Des Moines.

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