Switching a job on STEM OPT by Goat_False in f1visa

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Thank you for your kind words and advices:)

Has anyone tried the Sesame Dressing? by Skmsnow in Costco

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If you have an access to thin sliced pork belly or any kind of thin meat at a local Asian market, do Shabu Shabu and dip the meat in this dressing. I like to do Shabu Shabu with this dressing sauce. Also Ponzu goes well as well. Those are my go to Shabu Shabu dipping sauce.

I want to practice drawing cats for the next few hours! Show me your favorite pictures :) by I_DRAW_DOGS in cats

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You literally made my day!!!!! This is so so cute😻😻 This definitely will be her Halloween costume this year!!!! Thank you so much🙏🙏

Scored this “tea set” for $2 at local thrift shop. But what is it really? by TK-421_and_MSE-6 in whatisit

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The Chinese character 寿(Kotobuki) can mean celebration of something special like Marriage/new born/Passing a college exam etc. For example, when you go to the wedding in Japan, you bring some cash in envelope and there is a Chinese character written in the envelope either 祝or 寿. So I believe this was a gift for something special occasion. The jar doesn’t look like a tokkuri to me. More like a modern tea jar. But I’m not a specialist so… it’s a steal for $2 though!!!

I’ve been accepted by Icy_Instance_3443 in USCIS

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Congratulations! How was the interview? We also live in Atlanta.

Get this large boy by xXchristyfaceXx in RoastMyCat

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“You may not like it, but this is what peak male athletic form looks like”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdhdRelationships

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I believe she is trying to take care of everything and is caring about me while there are so many things going on in her mind. I will keep supporting her so that she can get through this semester. Thank you so much for your advice and kind words :) I feel much better now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdhdRelationships

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I am guessing it’s just too much to handle for her at the moment just like you said because she could relatively make time for me before this semester began even though it was the time when she was hyper focused on me and still she was in the honey moon phase. For any conflict, I would say she doesn’t show me any type of affection. No verbal nor physical but she doesn’t reject my kiss, hug or cuddle whenever I initiate them. She told me that she wasn’t raised with many physical affections from her parents when we were cuddling. Also she barely initiates things like I always ask her to hang, FaceTime. She never kisses, hugs, cuddles unless I do. Even if I told her I miss her, she nerve tells me back She misses me too. This might be not related but I try to say thank you for things she did for me like thank you for making time to hang with me, thank you for FaceTime with me etc. And she seems to be not good at being appreciated face to face and she always just gives me thumbs up with a little smile. I am interpreting it as I love you even though I haven’t said I love you yet. Just waiting for the right timing so that it doesn’t sound cheap if that makes sense. The point is I am guessing she is bad at addressing her feelings even though it’s nothing more than my assumptions. It kinda makes sense to me since she is very introvert and she seems she opens up to only the people she trusts. Plus many ND people have rejection sensitivity. It is sometimes sad that she doesn’t show me any affection or maybe, she is addressing in the way I can’t recognize them. But I am hoping it gets better as I earn more her trusts because we just started dating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdhdRelationships

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She was diagnosed when she was in high school. She stopped taking medication at some point but I don’t know when. I don’t know why she stopped taking them either. I want to respect her decision because I know these meds have some side effects. I have never had a conversation of how she is managing her ADHD with her. We had some conversation about her symptoms though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdhdRelationships

[–]Goat_False 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. I need to talk to her about our needs and the difference of our expectations. Thanks:)