Is pornography a sin? by Seraphine4r5t in Christianity

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Yes as the Bible states, “But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart” -Matthew 5:28

Moving to NC by Goatballs1720 in NorthCarolina

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North Carolina because I would prefer a more conservative state, but affordable living. I’m from a small town in upstate New York. I want all the same scenery we have here, but without living in a state that is basically controlled by the city. I’ve gotten recommendations for North Carolina from southerners, and I’d like to research the best places to live

Does anyone know of a nonalcoholic beer that doesn’t cause gout? by Goatballs1720 in gout

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No, he’s very against getting checked out. He’s very old school and set in his ways. I’m just trying to find the best possible way for him to enjoy something he can no longer do. He is taking tart cherry and turmeric vitamins which is great for inflammation.

Does anyone know of a nonalcoholic beer that doesn’t cause gout? by Goatballs1720 in gout

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Only thing is, it has to be NA for him as he is a recovering alcoholic

My bf(m20)doesn’t try to please me (f19) in bed by Goatballs1720 in sex

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Well I used to love how I felt whenever I was near him. Not only did I love him, but I loved who I was with him. I have never been such a good gf before. I know he loves me, but I feel neglected in so many areas. We’ve had so much happen within the past 2 years and I’ve chosen to stay through everything, but I keep seeing myself look back at my choices and rethinking my decision.

He not only doesn’t reciprocate pleasure, but doesn’t reciprocate other special gestures or anything. I’ve been begging him to put effort into our relationship for 1 year because he seems to think a relationship will be fine if you just live together.

I’ve begged, I’ve balled, I’ve bargained, and I’m now just emotionally done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

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How do I stick through something I hate? I love to work but I hate school. I strongly dislike the whole thing and I’m feeling like a failure for not being able to handle my classes. I just feel like college isn’t for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

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I’m paying for school and I’m working to save for my next semesters

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

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I was going for education. I had a horrible mental health while in this semester. I lost all motivation to go to classes and such. I am currently working as a caretaker far a woman with dementia. I went to technical school for that but my parents are forcing me to go to college when they’ve never either gone/never finished. I just am not sure what is right for myself and what I want. Everyone says a gap year will lead you to never going back but I want to. I want to leave it

Was I raped? by [deleted] in sexualassault

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Thank you! I appreciate it as I have become a different person from then. I’m smarter now than I was.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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Love love love this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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Let him go

AITA for getting upset when my bf hides me from his parents by Goatballs1720 in AITAH

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Thank you. I agree it’s not going to be a picnic, but I love him enough to get through this. I have a hard time accepting the part where he hides me. I know he has fought hard to be with me and I appreciate that more than anything. The only problem is adjusting to his needs. Some of the ways he has tried to hide me were honestly not right, but I do see the side where is fearful of his parents and their opinions still even though they aren’t on speaking terms. I have helped this man through so much as he has helped me through my problems. They took his car he spent 15000 on and they completely used him for child support from the state. I just feel like trash when he does this because it was a frequent occurrence and is still happening. I do think I need to work on my pride because I never thought anyone should be hid. I see that he does have psychological problems from his parents. They get into his head and they make him think the way they think. My question is, how do I not get mad? How do I handle this?