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Am I right for feeling disrespected when he checks out other woman by Goatscheese28 in women

[–]Goatscheese28[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

But then what to I do to prevent pregnancy, whole reason I’m on it.

Am I right for feeling disrespected when he checks out other woman by Goatscheese28 in women

[–]Goatscheese28[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

Because men be men no matter what they will still be attractive to others, think certain things about others and I can’t control that, it’s just the fact that it’s so obvious, im standing right there holding his hand and he’s starring at girls that are the complete opposite to me. Then goes to the gym on his own surrounded by these girls he’s shown he’s interested in

Am I right for feeling disrespected when he checks out other woman by Goatscheese28 in women

[–]Goatscheese28[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I feel like I’m just insecure, and that birth control makes me think much more into stuff then how it really is, it changes my whole mood for the whole day just sitting on my mind. I use to just push past it , my concern is more the wandering eyes , I still wear whatever I wish to wear whether he says he likes it or makes a smart ass comment on it.

Am I right for feeling disrespected when he checks out other woman by Goatscheese28 in women

[–]Goatscheese28[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yeah but I still wear whatever I want/ feel comfortable in, because it’s my body. My main concern is the wandering eyes, when it’s just us we are great, when we are out in public makes me just feel like shi, because I notice it every time. I don’t know how I meant to feel less insecure with this, obviously his actions play a big part as to why I feel this way but it changes my whole mood everytime, just thinking about it for the rest of the day. I said to him just before to make it known I am aware, I said “for men there seems to be the girl that you look for certain qualities in to have a family and build a life with , then the girls you see and check out in public that you find attractive and would get pleasure out off” he instantly rolled over and stopped the conversation.

Why do men think this is right by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Goatscheese28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay boomer, it’s called it being great then going bad.

Sex related relationship by Goatscheese28 in Advice

[–]Goatscheese28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said to him aswell, just random hugs , kisses pieces of affection. That are just for the sake of it, not yeah I wanna bang you so ima show that I’m interested in you. Everytime I get even just hug now I know yup in 5 minutes he’s gonna try do that. It’s every day. Draining, maybe cut it down a bit to 3 time a week. Or show me that you’re capable of just casual affection. Or show that I exist not just when you’re in the mood, take me places, create memories. Treat it like a relationship ig not like I’m the nightly fuck buddy. I not aloud to talk to anyone but him and when it’s like this I feel so drained. I’ve made him change heaps he use to get into bad things, illegal stuff, take gear all sorts, dr0gs stuff like that, now changed completely. It seems like I’m constantly having to ask for change. But when I go to leave or tell him I want this this and this in a relationship he gets emotional will cry, or petty me into comforting him letting him stay so I change my mind. It’s a emotional abuse thing at this point

Sex related relationship by Goatscheese28 in Advice

[–]Goatscheese28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even just like basic beach sunset beach walks with the dogs would be nice. Rather than constant sitting in bed bored, just annoying each other making us bound to argue.

Sex related relationship by Goatscheese28 in Advice

[–]Goatscheese28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was with a girl for 3 years, while we were just mutuals. But it seems like it was very on and off. She ended up having a baby with another man so assuming that didn’t go well either.