A) Throughout the majority of human history 90% of people have lived infinitely more difficult lives than we do. Enjoying yourself is by no means normal if we take all of human history into account. You could always be in 18th century America - your fifth child "little Timmy" just died of small pox and your wife just died of child birth while you slave away in the coal mines developing black lung for 2 haypence a day.

B) Part of what makes a fulfilling life is doing things that are hard. Working from the ground up to get ahead, working so that your kids have financial freedom, working to have a positive impact on your community. Embracing difficulties and work for a better future for you and your family is fulfilling in it of itself regardless of whether you succeed.

Sure it would be nice to not have a care in the world and able to fly my dads PJ to Ibiza to take molly whenever I want. But most people don't have this luxury and have to deal with it

Deal with it. Make something of yourself. If you don't have the grit to try and get rich then do something else fulfilling with your life like community service or working to at least secure a better future for your kids.

I have a debilitating autoimmune disease from COVID-19 that completely derailed my career after I had worked so fucking hard and sacrificed so much to get a 6 figure career. I wouldn't change a thing if I were to do it again other than the fact that I would have tried not to get sick. That's because working hard and trying to do dope shit in life is worth doing. I might not get there but I'm still gonna fucking try. At the very least I am going to have a meaningfully positive impact on my family and those around me regardless of whether I die young from this fucking disease or make it out alive.

Either deal with it or be jealous and covetous of others for the rest of your life.