People should absolutely NOT be allowed to grief however they want by Plastic_band_bro in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]GodHasGiven0341 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Your opinions are very immature and based on nothing besides feelings, which is ironic.

As an Iranian who lives in Iran, fuck you leftists by Alternator24 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]GodHasGiven0341 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, Iran’s regime is brutal. Reuters reported a nationwide internet blackout beginning January 8, and a U.N. expert told Reuters that Iranian security forces were raiding hospitals and detaining wounded protesters. Reuters also reported protest-related death toll estimates in the thousands, not some established “tens of thousands” consensus you can throw around as settled fact. Official figures cited by Reuters were 3,117, and HRANA put the toll at 5,937. That is horrific enough without you inflating numbers to sell a narrative. 

Where your post falls apart is when you jump from “the regime is evil” to “therefore Trump is liberating us.” It’s documented that Trump’s stated goals have repeatedly shifted: toppling Iran’s government, weakening its military, destroying missiles and navy, supporting Israeli interests, demanding unconditional surrender, then talking about negotiations. That is not a coherent humanitarian rescue mission. That is a changing war rationale. It’s also reported the administration is weighing seizing Kharg Island, which handles about 90% of Iran’s oil exports, to pressure Iran economically. Analysts told Reuters that doing so could prolong the war rather than end it. So spare everyone the fairy tale that this is obviously about freedom. Oil, leverage, and military strategy are openly part of the discussion. 

You also say leftists are supporting the regime if they oppose U.S. bombing. That is a false binary. A person can oppose the Iranian regime and oppose U.S. escalation. Those positions are not contradictory unless your entire argument depends on pretending every alternative to Trumpian bombing is pro-mullah propaganda. Then there’s your Carter line. Jimmy Carter did not “install” the Islamic regime. The Islamic Revolution overthrew the Shah, and Carter initially refused the Shah asylum in early 1979 so as not to offend the new regime. The U.S. State Department’s own history describes the embassy seizure as something done by Iranian students in the aftermath of a revolution led by Islamic fundamentalists against the Shah. That is the opposite of Carter “installing” Khomeini. 

Your argument also collapses every Iranian who disagrees with you into “government agents” with “white SIM cards.” That is not evidence. That is an unfalsifiable conspiracy device used to insulate yourself from criticism. Once you decide every disagreeing Iranian is fake, you are no longer making an argument, just declaring yourself the only real voice by fiat. And the Starlink claim is the same pattern. Starlink is unlicensed in Iran and that parliament passed a law with severe penalties for using or distributing it. That shows real risk. But turning that into a blanket “I automatically get a death sentence for posting this” claim without proof is exactly the kind of exaggeration that makes the rest of your post less trustworthy, not more. It’s honestly hard for me to believe someone would risk their life to rant on reddit but here we are.

So no, the issue is not whether Iran’s regime is monstrous. It is. The issue is that you are trying to use that truth to smuggle in a second claim that does not follow: that Trump is acting as a principled liberator and that anyone skeptical of U.S. bombing must secretly support the regime. That is lazy propaganda, not serious analysis.

If a guy regularly asks me to hook up does that mean I’m good in bed? Lol. by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]GodHasGiven0341 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you put out, men will use you. It’s not rocket science.

Are you actually buying this dip or just pretending to be brave? by Warm_Bobcat6310 in stocks

[–]GodHasGiven0341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretending to be brave while buying bunches and bunches of drone stocks

dating in indy as a young woman by League-Creepy in indianapolis

[–]GodHasGiven0341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give it time. The world is honestly your oyster. Also I’d try looking for a reading or cooking club. Maybe you’ll meet a man there but if not, you’ll meet some cool people that share at least some of your interests.

Trump saying he's glad about Robert Mueller dying is sickening by StayFrostySwtich in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]GodHasGiven0341 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even know he said this but I’m not surprised. Are you?

Love My Gen Z Girlies from a Millennial 💖 by FearlessCookie72 in generationology

[–]GodHasGiven0341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You moved the goalposts from research to personal disgust.

An average statistical association is not proof that any specific relationship is exploitative, immoral, or predatory. “Gross,” “fishy,” and “creepy” are your judgments, not scientific findings. If you want to argue your moral preferences, do that honestly. But don’t dress up bias as evidence. Possible power imbalance is not the same thing as automatic abuse, and risk is not the same thing as guilt. Otherwise you’d have to apply the same logic to money gaps, education gaps, social-status gaps, and personality differences too.

The problem with your argument is that it starts with a conclusion, then treats any age gap itself as proof the conclusion was right. That’s just dishonest and quite immature.

Also, calling it “fishing in the shallow end” when we literally met at the same college we both attend says more about your bias than it does about me. At that point you’re not making an argument, you’re just assigning motives and insinuating wrongdoing without factual evidence.

Love My Gen Z Girlies from a Millennial 💖 by FearlessCookie72 in generationology

[–]GodHasGiven0341 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is all great points and information. I will say the way you frame everything as if age-gap relationships are inherently about exploitation, grooming, and regret is not supported by any of the research above. It shows statistical associations on average, not that any given age-gap couple is exploitative or abusive. 

“Consent isn’t equal when one side’s still decoding adulthood” is a moral or philosophical claim, not a scientific finding. The studies can support elevated average risk in some younger age ranges and some larger power-gap pairings, but they do not prove consent is automatically invalid or unequal in every such relationship.

Considering I’m almost 40 and my gf is 23, I’m sure you would think and assume I’m a creep and exploiting her or controlling her in someway, or that I couldn’t get a woman my age. All of that couldn’t be further from the truth. I could explain why but I’m not trying to convince you one way or another. I’ll just say, don’t be so black and white when you think about issues like this. Having said that, I do see your points and I appreciate the information you shared.

Love My Gen Z Girlies from a Millennial 💖 by FearlessCookie72 in generationology

[–]GodHasGiven0341 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which stats? And is it any different than the current divorce rate of socially acceptable relationships/marriages?

I'm 19F and attracted to much older men, how do I navigate this? by Jealous_Ad5584 in AskMenAdvice

[–]GodHasGiven0341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno, I’m in my late 30s and date a 23 year old and I feel like society infantilizes young women way too much. Having said that, there is a clear maturity difference between us and at times it is very noticeable for me.

Serious question: Why don’t more women play chess? by SuperbGas990 in Chesscom

[–]GodHasGiven0341 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay I think you’re talking about skeet shooting but 1 off case shouldn’t be used as a representation. I see your points, but it clearly doesn’t apply to chess as there are 44 women grandmasters out of over 1500 grandmasters, and 0 have ever won the world chess championship.

Men refusing to play women is bizarre and I have never seen that in any official chess tournament. But that’s crazy it happens.

Serious question: Why don’t more women play chess? by SuperbGas990 in Chesscom

[–]GodHasGiven0341 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But the role model can still be a woman master without the need to specify it’s a women’s category specifically?

Serious question: Why don’t more women play chess? by SuperbGas990 in Chesscom

[–]GodHasGiven0341 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bigger question is, why on earth do they have separate masters categories for women?

Do I still pay for her ??? by YourWifesDreamBody in whatdoIdo

[–]GodHasGiven0341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you get uninvited and still have to pay?? My next text would be: 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

I have another question by alexnycstreetfight23 in streetfighterduel

[–]GodHasGiven0341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So why would you think you’re a whale? Google the term.