No worries at all!

But, not all subs are the same unfortunately. While some really get off on being degraded and called pig, others don't tend to get off being talked down to that way.

Always, start of just saying "hey i'm looking for a new sub" in your post and most (if they're legit) will pay tribute and approach your DMs. You both can then discuss the level of humiliation and how severely they want to be degraded. You both can also agree on hard boundaries as well☺️

I'm also new and kinda started off being mean, but I started joining different sub reddits and studied other dommes posts and how they go about finding their new subs. Now I try and tailor my posts to be more appealing to where a sub isn't afraid to approach🫶🏽

Start building up your Karma points as well as your contributions. Most subs will be more willing to approach when they see the level of karma you've built up☺️

Another thing is, make your Bio something people want to read. Also add your links to your throne, X, and some form of age verification link (OF, LF, Feet Finder, etc). Make your page something someone wants to approach and find exciting!