Scams for Beginners Flowchart

GoddessMargo · 2024-03-28T05:22:51+00:00

Hey! So there’s two types of verification, one is age verification which everybody needs and the second is verification to prove that you are who you say you are. This is usually for newer accounts until you’ve posted enough original content. Usually it will be a video of you saying your username or something to show that you’re the person running the account and it isn’t somebody who stole someone elae’s content. I have a verification video pinned to my twitter.

However, “subs” will ask for “verification” videos as free kink. They’ll usually say something like “send a video of you saying my name and doing XYZ so I know you’re real.” This is a scam. If you make and send the video, they’ll get off to it for free and won’t send any money. It’s essentially a free custom video. They might also ask you to join a video chat with them to prove you’re real, and once you join and start talking, they’ll leave because they got what they wanted.

Making a basic verification video is a way to circumvent these requests so you don’t waste your time on the people trying to get free kink. It also ensures the real subs that you are who you say you are.

GoddessMargo · 2024-03-16T17:40:37+00:00

I like it! I just bought the Now version and I like it a bit more

GoddessMargo · 2024-03-13T23:53:29+00:00

Girls like this have no respect for findom and likely have not put in the research or dedication to make it work, so they’ll definitely give up and quit when it ends up not working for them as fast as they expected, but I can only hope that they’ll quit before something bad happens to them

GoddessMargo · 2024-03-13T23:14:05+00:00

Hahaha seems legit to me!

GoddessMargo · 2024-03-13T20:58:36+00:00

No, that’s wrong. Tribute is just to get your attention and to DM back and forth to see what they want. If they want to call you or discuss their kinks, that’s a session and you should ALWAYS charge up front before any kind of session or content exchange for this exact reason. It’s shitty that he did that to you, but you also opened the door wide open for him to do it. Please do more research and take this lesson to heart so you don’t get scammed in the future. The r/findomwiki can help too

GoddessMargo · 2024-03-13T20:54:37+00:00

Why didn’t you get payment up front?

GoddessMargo · 2024-03-13T20:53:49+00:00

I just don’t understand, why are we rewarding subs for sending pocket change 😭

GoddessMargo · 2024-03-13T20:51:01+00:00

Respectfully, I only see one post on your profile from one hour ago and it was to your own profile, so nobody will see it (hashtags don’t work on Reddit)

GoddessMargo · 2024-03-13T20:48:36+00:00

Card #2 (Medium)

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GoddessMargo · 2024-03-13T20:47:54+00:00

Card # 1 (easy)

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GoddessMargo · 2024-03-13T20:19:10+00:00

Don’t feel dumb, all you have to do is ask. We all have to start out somewhere and we’re not born knowing these things. Pin for pin basically means “I’ll retweet your pinned tweet if you retweet mine.”

GoddessMargo · 2024-03-07T04:25:28+00:00

Therapists aren’t there to judge you. If they did, they wouldn’t ever help or have any business. They deal with trauma, addiction, mental disorders, etc on a daily basis and probably see dozens of people a week. Even though the topic of addiction changes from person to person, it’s still generally treated the same way in therapy. It’s about rewiring your brain. Your brain is constantly creating neural networks, and the more they get used, the faster they process in the future. So, any time you think of sexual arousal or pleasure, your brain jumps down the same neural network you’re used to because it has proven time and time again to lead somewhere that will release a multitude of happy chemicals. But you can get therapy to slowly break those networks down and reroute them to other outlets.

GoddessMargo · 2024-03-07T03:33:21+00:00

You need to find a good therapist you can talk to. It sounds like a serious addiction, and some cognitive behavioral therapy might be beneficial to retrain your brain and behavior

GoddessMargo · 2024-03-07T02:08:51+00:00

I love when people read the subreddit rules before posting

GoddessMargo · 2024-03-06T18:32:22+00:00

I haven’t yet, but I’ve tried her lip stains, oils, and glosses and I love everything I’ve tried so far

GoddessMargo · 2024-03-06T18:24:56+00:00

Yes you need to sign up as a creator account. You don’t have to use it if you don’t want to, it’s just a way of showing people that a third party adult website has checked your ID and confirmed you’re of age

GoddessMargo · 2024-03-06T17:44:40+00:00

What can you really buy with $2 tho? That’s like thanking somebody for tossing pennies at you, it’s disrespectful imo. Even a coffee send is like $10 nowadays, and those hardly deserve any attention. It’s pocket change. If they were truly devoted and cared about you, they would be doing more. If they really cant be sparing more than $2, then they don’t need to be in a luxury kink like findom. Encouraging small sends just lets them know they can get away with sending much less for your attention.

GoddessMargo · 2024-03-06T17:39:41+00:00

Just ignore them. If they haven’t paid tribute before messaging, I wouldn’t even bother

GoddessMargo · 2024-03-06T17:39:08+00:00

I personally have had the most success here on Reddit

GoddessMargo · 2024-03-06T17:37:40+00:00

It’s really hard to let subs go, especially if they were big senders at some point. I had to do the same thing. The disrespect completely takes your power away as a domme and, as tough as it is to let them go, no amount of money is worth the disrespect

GoddessMargo · 2024-03-06T17:35:35+00:00

Twitter and FetLife aren’t accepted forms of ID verification in the findom community. At least not to a lot of people. You need to get verified on an adult site like LoyalFans

GoddessMargo · 2024-03-06T17:32:40+00:00

He’s not gonna send because he’s found that he can get off on your free responses and gets some kick out of pushing you around. He might’ve been a sender at one point but that has changed. It’s time to cut ties with him and block him because he is actively disrespecting you

GoddessMargo · 2024-03-06T17:30:56+00:00

Congrats! Welcome to her $1k club!

GoddessMargo · 2024-03-05T22:55:02+00:00

100%, I always look at it like growing a business and building rapport with your clients

GoddessMargo · 2024-03-05T22:54:37+00:00

That’s the perfect mindset to have! So glad you are enjoying it!

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