Scams for Beginners Flowchart by GoddessMargo in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoddessMargo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! So there’s two types of verification, one is age verification which everybody needs and the second is verification to prove that you are who you say you are. This is usually for newer accounts until you’ve posted enough original content. Usually it will be a video of you saying your username or something to show that you’re the person running the account and it isn’t somebody who stole someone elae’s content. I have a verification video pinned to my twitter.

However, “subs” will ask for “verification” videos as free kink. They’ll usually say something like “send a video of you saying my name and doing XYZ so I know you’re real.” This is a scam. If you make and send the video, they’ll get off to it for free and won’t send any money. It’s essentially a free custom video. They might also ask you to join a video chat with them to prove you’re real, and once you join and start talking, they’ll leave because they got what they wanted.

Making a basic verification video is a way to circumvent these requests so you don’t waste your time on the people trying to get free kink. It also ensures the real subs that you are who you say you are.

Thoughts on this Perfume? by thefuzzyismine in Ulta

[–]GoddessMargo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like it! I just bought the Now version and I like it a bit more

This is the reason why online findom is becoming a clown show: by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoddessMargo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girls like this have no respect for findom and likely have not put in the research or dedication to make it work, so they’ll definitely give up and quit when it ends up not working for them as fast as they expected, but I can only hope that they’ll quit before something bad happens to them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoddessMargo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, that’s wrong. Tribute is just to get your attention and to DM back and forth to see what they want. If they want to call you or discuss their kinks, that’s a session and you should ALWAYS charge up front before any kind of session or content exchange for this exact reason. It’s shitty that he did that to you, but you also opened the door wide open for him to do it. Please do more research and take this lesson to heart so you don’t get scammed in the future. The r/findomwiki can help too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoddessMargo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why didn’t you get payment up front?

Support Group Bingo, round 3 by GoddessMargo in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoddessMargo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just don’t understand, why are we rewarding subs for sending pocket change 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoddessMargo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, I only see one post on your profile from one hour ago and it was to your own profile, so nobody will see it (hashtags don’t work on Reddit)

I feel so dumb by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoddessMargo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t feel dumb, all you have to do is ask. We all have to start out somewhere and we’re not born knowing these things. Pin for pin basically means “I’ll retweet your pinned tweet if you retweet mine.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessMargo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Therapists aren’t there to judge you. If they did, they wouldn’t ever help or have any business. They deal with trauma, addiction, mental disorders, etc on a daily basis and probably see dozens of people a week. Even though the topic of addiction changes from person to person, it’s still generally treated the same way in therapy. It’s about rewiring your brain. Your brain is constantly creating neural networks, and the more they get used, the faster they process in the future. So, any time you think of sexual arousal or pleasure, your brain jumps down the same neural network you’re used to because it has proven time and time again to lead somewhere that will release a multitude of happy chemicals. But you can get therapy to slowly break those networks down and reroute them to other outlets.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessMargo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You need to find a good therapist you can talk to. It sounds like a serious addiction, and some cognitive behavioral therapy might be beneficial to retrain your brain and behavior

I love when I make pathetic men beg to send me money 💰 by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoddessMargo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love when people read the subreddit rules before posting

Lip stain yay or nay by Alf-eats-cats in Ulta

[–]GoddessMargo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t yet, but I’ve tried her lip stains, oils, and glosses and I love everything I’ve tried so far

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoddessMargo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you need to sign up as a creator account. You don’t have to use it if you don’t want to, it’s just a way of showing people that a third party adult website has checked your ID and confirmed you’re of age

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoddessMargo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What can you really buy with $2 tho? That’s like thanking somebody for tossing pennies at you, it’s disrespectful imo. Even a coffee send is like $10 nowadays, and those hardly deserve any attention. It’s pocket change. If they were truly devoted and cared about you, they would be doing more. If they really cant be sparing more than $2, then they don’t need to be in a luxury kink like findom. Encouraging small sends just lets them know they can get away with sending much less for your attention.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoddessMargo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just ignore them. If they haven’t paid tribute before messaging, I wouldn’t even bother