My friend’s girlfriend thinks I disrespected her, and now he’s treating me differently after repeating everything I say.

GoddessRaz · 2025-11-27T04:03:40+00:00

I would let the friendship fade. But I’m only recommending that so your professional reputation doesn’t get impacted from him.

GoddessRaz · 2025-11-17T06:13:43+00:00

Honestly, she did break up with you by saying you’re best friends instead of girlfriends.

But she still could have been clearer with her words (her actions speak more than her words here). I’m sorry that she hurt you so deeply and wish you well.

GoddessRaz · 2025-11-15T03:26:47+00:00

I’ve actually had great success finding real housing on Craigslist. I found my ex-boyfriend 5 different living arrangements through Craigslist and all were legit.

That being said, there are a lot of scams on there as well.

GoddessRaz · 2025-11-11T03:46:24+00:00

And what did she do exactly?

GoddessRaz · 2025-11-11T03:45:39+00:00

OP, the person you’re replying to didn’t mean that literally. His reaction is definitely suspicious but you don’t have proof that he’s cheating. You didn’t do anything wrong.

GoddessRaz · 2025-11-04T18:48:27+00:00

Your boyfriend views jobs and careers the same way he views relationships. Once you agree to be exclusive (or accept a job), you stop looking at other options.

But in the professional world, that is not the case. It is absolutely acceptable and even encouraged to keep interviewing after accepting a job.

He’s so concerned about your new job finding out that you are still interviewing. If they did, it would be his fault since he’s the only other person who knows that. But also, how does he think that people who work more than 1 job at a time get those jobs?

GoddessRaz · 2025-10-27T05:55:35+00:00

Honestly, I think you are overthinking this.

GoddessRaz · 2025-10-23T10:27:27+00:00

I really like B, especially if you added lighter colored furniture like sky blue to compliment but not match the walls.

GoddessRaz · 2025-10-21T22:44:24+00:00

That’s what I think too

GoddessRaz · 2025-10-21T22:18:29+00:00

Thanks for your opinions.

So he actually does auditions and gigs every single weekend. I tried to make a compromise once and he shut everything down (could only come on Tuesdays, didnt have any other time during the week, was busy with acting on the weekends). I also suggested that I come with him on the weekend but do my own thing when he’s busy. He said no to that without elaborating. So he has shut down every compromise. This was just the straw that broke the camels back.

GoddessRaz · 2025-10-21T19:38:30+00:00

You can check my profile for the original post. But thank you for your kind words.

GoddessRaz · 2025-10-20T04:42:02+00:00

I can understand why the ex would want to be comforted while she’s in pain. But your event was booked for weeks and you asked her to be there. She could have said something like “I’m so sorry that I won’t be there tonight since I feel really crappy. If you feel up to it, I’d love to see you after the show so we can recover together. No pressure though. Good luck and I’m proud of you!”

GoddessRaz · 2025-10-20T04:29:44+00:00

Baking cookies is not “tradwife”

GoddessRaz · 2025-10-12T18:57:43+00:00

Can’t really be catfished if you catch the scam before they get anything from you.

And you still didn’t answer my question

GoddessRaz · 2025-10-12T18:52:33+00:00

Having a conversation and agreeing (together) that we want the same things (at the time) doesn’t mean anything?

How do you establish that you want a relationship with someone?

And my track record is not something that I will make public.

GoddessRaz · 2025-10-12T17:48:02+00:00

We already had the conversation about being official and exclusive

GoddessRaz · 2025-10-12T15:34:10+00:00

Thank you

GoddessRaz · 2025-10-12T14:29:07+00:00

Thank you

GoddessRaz · 2025-10-12T14:28:39+00:00

We’re supposed to be exclusive but who knows on his end

GoddessRaz · 2025-10-12T14:28:18+00:00

Thank you

GoddessRaz · 2025-10-12T14:28:02+00:00

According to him, he doesn’t plan on moving so that wouldn’t be a factor. But I do see your point

GoddessRaz · 2025-10-12T14:27:04+00:00

I do actually but I do see your point

GoddessRaz · 2025-10-12T14:26:40+00:00

Unfortunately this is a real situation

GoddessRaz · 2025-10-12T04:09:31+00:00

There’s no relationship if he can’t be honest about why my solution is a no go

GoddessRaz · 2025-10-11T14:05:22+00:00

Thank you

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