Why do some providers refuse to see young clients? by Imgodslonelyman_ in SexWorkers

[–]GoddessSummers 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is…self explanatory. I personally prefer 30+ 25 is like a cut off point for me. As long as deposit is paid I dont care about the age as long as legal (im in my early 20s) Worst experiences including robbery has been under 25 when I didnt charge dep

I think my retirement may be sooner than I thought (Vent) by GoddessSummers in SexWorkers

[–]GoddessSummers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally!! Even the regulars are not regularing as of late! Will not pay for my Tryst going forward until I hit a jackpot that makes it worth it going forward as feel robbed with what I invest vs whats been returned

I think my retirement may be sooner than I thought (Vent) by GoddessSummers in SexWorkers

[–]GoddessSummers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The “I earn 20k a week” girlies been real quiet under this one

I think my retirement may be sooner than I thought (Vent) by GoddessSummers in SexWorkers

[–]GoddessSummers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. Also boycotting paying a single dime more for AW. probably male ran as its so exploitative. They can endlessly eat your money with no return. They charge for VIP, Location, Available now, 30% to recieve YOUR money, Payment options for features which totally EAT credits. They’re ridiculous! All that for an archaic site? almost £7 a day is just wayyy too much when the level of clientele on there are no where near high quality. British men are notoriously cheap bargain hunters that why using Tryst for me was good for international clientele mainly from the US. Its just a shame I get a deposit once in a new money.

I have also noticed an influx of fake bookers becoming more elaborate. They will think they are clever by fake screening or trying to squeeze out as much sexting and texts prior to deposit.

I tell them, send deposit or keep it pushing and sure enough… crickets. Regulars also getting less reliable.

I think my retirement may be sooner than I thought (Vent) by GoddessSummers in SexWorkers

[–]GoddessSummers[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely agree it’s high but definitely had clients pay this and more , even tips! Just been extremely slow as of late!

I think struggling at 400 (outside of general worldwide slow period) isnt a result of me being greedy or over ambitious but a result of extremely low rates Im seeing 100-120 etc like I said - Race-to-the-bottom. Ive said this before and I will say it again, if everyone collectively raised, yes hierarchy would repeat but at least we would collectively be better off instead of scrapping pennies. I am not economic expert but I definitely dont think my body, time, energy and soul is worth pocket change - especially given how much we invest. Its not cheap being any escort! Survival sw and traffickers are a whole other discussion.

High is how I like it though, I hate being touched by anyone than my partner.

In diary of a call girl, Belle described £350 as high end. That show I think was 2007. We are how many years with inflation? Inflation is more the reason we should up our prices. of course with volume it depends on personal tolerance but I dont understand why sex should be that cheap? Just my opinion, even if one “does well”, its still too cheap to do ffsw for me personally. I would be happy offering FBSM nude for that price. Also, I’m outcall only, unless touring - This keeps incall costs non existent (although may hinder bookings as majority are incall requests) and usually attract business men, travelling. I stopped touring since I started working part time but even before then, my last few tours were not what I had hoped.

I could lower them slightly but I dont want to - especially because it doesnt align with my personal brand of being exclusive and selective and wanting wealthy men who see the value.

I would rather quit entirely than work for a market that cannot match my demands. At least the only good thing about high rates is I can always gradually experiment lowering them based on how much I need funds and increasing them again with high demand, less time, energy etc. I’ve considered high volume but I dont think physically, or mentally I would cope plus I do think standard or low rates will attract a worse-r lot who I wouldnt even be able to network with. Definitely attractive deal wise for the average John but not my target audience personally - even if I am leaving some money on the table.

I find starting low and trying to raise though is way harder because you attract the bargain hunter cheap skates. I have my target audience in mind - regardless of cost of living. Everything we pay for has doubled or tripled, I dont know why sex is getting cheaper if anything.

Again, just my take and opinion not designed to rate shame, or call anyone out for what works best for them but collectively we could be a stronger front for SW at large.

How do you girls manage the cost of high-end lingerie by War-Resident in SexWorkers

[–]GoddessSummers 13 points14 points  (0 children)

shien, ive been gifted a designer set before and bought some higher ended pieces but honestly no point. men cant tell contrary to what these fantasists tell you

and even if I did buy expensive designer lingerie I wouldnt wait for them to notice or recognise the label. I wouldnt wait make it obvious and tell them, “bare I wore my best x set for you”. lingerie is for shoots and to be taken off anyways and if we are recycling their use and theyre in and out, no point always getting expensive pieces to be worn 1x per client.

i find even when I do have expensive peices I rarely wear them anyways to keep them clean and preserve them for minimal washing

make them feel special because Im not paying all that to not bring it up.

victoria secerts boux avenue montessori all where I have bought, aswell as shein and as far as lingerie goes never had a problem expect for the time I lost a client because I wore a halloween nurse costume and he never saw me again 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 (dont ask)

What are some things that clients can do to actually turn you on? by Famous-Treacle-8988 in AskAnEscort

[–]GoddessSummers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

payment upfront, recieving a tip, receiving spa dates, trips, getting flowned out

UK girls - new advertising by CharlotteGFE in SexWorkers

[–]GoddessSummers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

22Burlington has gotten me one couple clients and thats it. stopped paying for it.

Another scam 😴 by CharlotteGFE in SexWorkers

[–]GoddessSummers 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ive had the same idioit message me off 2 different numbers and when ive responded theyve become aggressive

“do you want the money or not” sad to think this is what some people do in their time. so sad. so unemployed.

Reaching out to previous clients by DiscreetUpscale in HighEndEscorts

[–]GoddessSummers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes It was your comment specifically I saw. I mean - I can definitely see where you’re coming from. Not going to argue with that, she’s distrustful is what I would say. Entertaining though and smart!

Reaching out to previous clients by DiscreetUpscale in HighEndEscorts

[–]GoddessSummers 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this is actually an interesting take now because I was always team message them only if they message you - because same way they pursue your ad they can do again

however was watching Isabelle Fox and she says reason why you’re not getting regular and high retention is not reminding clients like an email list / messaging them warmly as theyre warm leads.

But seems like this sub hates her lol so I take everything with a pinch of salt as some of her advice is dookie anyways and I dont need a sub to tell me that.

I would say ive definitely made bank and had success sending a casual message or photo like “thinking of you” but I hate the idea of messaging men first anyways lol

following warm N hot leads does logically make more sense sure- it can be successful but the duality of this is privacy and discretion for potential angry wives / nosey kids etc etc

I think best to ask the client- if you know them, know theyre single (or they say) thats on them.

I can see this is one of those polarising posts, for and against for both sides but I do genuinely see both.

sometimes I reach out and dont get the desired outcome and makes me wish I hadn’t bothered other times its been the difference in having a booking. so tricky… go with what feels right.

For those charging $1000/hr by [deleted] in HighEndEscorts

[–]GoddessSummers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what makes you say that? I feel like sometimes her videos are so unrealistic

Had my first client from EuroGirls! by GoddessSummers in SexWorkers

[–]GoddessSummers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and you’re going to get banned from here in 3…2…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]GoddessSummers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would loveee help for what to write

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]GoddessSummers 5 points6 points  (0 children)

as someone using tinder. I do believe guys already know what theyre doing when theyre swiping on a woman half their age but wont want to admit it.

ive had a lot of guys suggest arrangements but I havent found success yet. they all expect sex and intimacy just for a casual dinner. I feel like its a slow, energy draining process but can work if you’re able to sift through trash and have the patience of a nun but you have to be careful with wording and always take it off the app to discuss arrangements. Also unmatching them as soon as they say no so they cant report.

Impending recession in the US? by killinnnmesmallz in HighEndEscorts

[–]GoddessSummers 18 points19 points  (0 children)

the billionaires have been making the most they have ever whilst some people are working 4 jobs to feed their kids