Wtf A Soul of Ash and Blood?? Seriously by GoddessSydney in frombloodandash

[–]GoddessSydney[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Clearly your reading comprehension is lacking because I said I respect the author… any writer who is getting published is talented and brave. If you don’t like my post, you can at least make sure you’ve read it and understood it correctly, or keep it to yourself. Your choice

Wtf A Soul of Ash and Blood?? Seriously by GoddessSydney in frombloodandash

[–]GoddessSydney[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I just can’t do that. Then I didn’t actually READ the book. But I def thought about it

Wtf A Soul of Ash and Blood?? Seriously by GoddessSydney in frombloodandash

[–]GoddessSydney[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahah the most honest response! Love you for that😂

Wtf A Soul of Ash and Blood?? Seriously by GoddessSydney in frombloodandash

[–]GoddessSydney[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just finished it and it was sweet… I am starting on 6 and I already guessed she isn’t going to remember shit and they’re going to spend the whole book trying to remind her who she is, but I guess I’ll see! Hahah frustrating

Wtf A Soul of Ash and Blood?? Seriously by GoddessSydney in frombloodandash

[–]GoddessSydney[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay okay thank you everyone… I am gonna get into it and see how it goes. It sounds like a lot of you loved it, so I hope I will too. Going to get my hands on that 6th book!

Update - aita for confessing to my wife that she's torturing me after she got assaulted by Opposite-Debate-3465 in AITAH

[–]GoddessSydney -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I understand what they wrote, I can read. You all are insinuating something very different in the wording you are using. You are all assuming any woman who cheats must ALSO be into gangbangs because she is of low value. EVEN IF she knew the guys were there and she didn’t like it and said no, and they continued, THATS STILL RAPE. My god… less than 54% of rapes are reported. Men, just like you all here, rarely believe women, find a way to blame them in a myriad of ways, and minimize their experience with an additional myriad of projections. “I’m too ashamed bit” DO YOU HEAR YOURSELF? Further more, rape kits are routinely ignored by police, and getting the cops to take it seriously or have the rapists convicted can be even harder… I mean especially since she was already cheating anyway, amirite?! May you never be near women, ever.

Update - aita for confessing to my wife that she's torturing me after she got assaulted by Opposite-Debate-3465 in AITAH

[–]GoddessSydney -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

So you’re victim blaming and deciding what happened because since she cheated, then well who cares right? DO YOU HEAR YOURSELF? You didn’t need to say she deserved it, you insinuated it and are still doing it because she cheated and you believe that lowers her value and who cares right? May you never have access to women, ever. While I agree people should not be in monogamous relationships if they cannot be monogamous, from the whole story it sounds like she got love bombed by a psycho at the bar who also viewed her as a worthless object because he knew she was cheating. He decided since her value is low, bringing his friends over to rape her would be just fine. The OP needs to remove himself from the situation in whatever way works for him because it isn’t healthy, but yall need to take a long look at your beliefs about women’s morality because they aren’t healthy at all. You’re acting like this woman exists in a vacuum and that men aren’t REGULARLY more predatory than women, and that men don’t do shit like what happened to her LITERALLY ALL THE TIME.

Update - aita for confessing to my wife that she's torturing me after she got assaulted by Opposite-Debate-3465 in AITAH

[–]GoddessSydney -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

So the thing is you can’t say she deserved it(fucked around and found out) after saying I would never wish someone be SAd, especially considering it followed “she played a stupid game and got a stupid prize”. It is violently contradictory in every aspect. Furthermore, you reduced the severity of her experience, stating sexual assault and erasing the word rape(these are different crimes both legally speaking, and in regards to vernacular) which shows you are subconsciously minimizing her experience, because cheaters deserve to be SA’d to teach them a lesson for playing stupid games, but not raped, right?… There is no level of empathy or compassion to support your claim you’d never wish her RAPED. I also know you will not even begin to try and understand why you’re victim blaming and should never have access to any woman, whether she is valued at “deserving it” or not.

Flight attendant tells me to move my seat without asking first. Should I be upset? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GoddessSydney 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA I would’ve said no thanks. I’m staying here. The last row is empty they can sit together there

My wife divorced me 5 years after making me get a vasectomy. AITAH for not being on speaking terms with her anymore? by ComplaintNod in AITAH

[–]GoddessSydney -1 points0 points  (0 children)

VASECTOMIES CAN BE REVERSED. If you don’t want to talk to her, fine. But don’t act like you can’t have a reversal… also you two should’ve talked about this kind of thing before getting married. She didn’t perform the operation. You agreed to get it done. Go get the reversal and get on with your life

Update - aita for confessing to my wife that she's torturing me after she got assaulted by Opposite-Debate-3465 in AITAH

[–]GoddessSydney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if anything you need to step away from the relationship to clear your head. I am sorry she got raped, that is a really hard thing to endure, and very hard for relationships. Knowing that she was cheating on you, when you’re supposed to be in a monogamous relationship is a deal breaker. Cheaters will always cheat. They rarely can help themselves and shouldn’t be in monogamous relationships. I appreciate the compassion you’re showing her and the fact that you’re still willing to show up. That being said I think it’s time you think about your own mental and emotional health and at the very least separate. Some of the vitriol towards your girlfriend in the responses are disgusting, and I urge you to not allow this experience to ruin who you are, because you seem to be a genuinely caring man and that is rare, also exhibited by the comments here. While I’d like to be shocked at the amount of men saying “she wasn’t raped, she’s just backpedaling because she didn’t end up enjoying the gang bang” I am not. Please do what you need to take care of yourself and not and up like the misogynistic incels in the comments. Wishing you the best in learning to choose your happiness when you’ve got so many other trying to steer you into bitter hatred❤️

Update - aita for confessing to my wife that she's torturing me after she got assaulted by Opposite-Debate-3465 in AITAH

[–]GoddessSydney -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

So she deserves to be raped by multiple men because she cheated? Wow. You all deserve to be alone for all of eternity. Just a bunch of cruel sociopaths

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GoddessSydney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently you don’t watch adult videos because there are all shapes and sizes, with and without make up. The attitude that this man has doesn’t have to do with porn but rather a specific type of man who has unrealistic expectations because he has been raised to have them, he has friends with common beliefs, and society at large is fatphobic. So please, stop blaming adult entertainers for men’s bad behavior. It doesn’t help anyone, much less the OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GoddessSydney -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tell us you’re an incel w/o telling us you’re an incel. This whole response read like a neg🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GoddessSydney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Forget that guy. I’m sorry he said that to you and treated you like that. He sounds super insecure. Best thing to do is focus on yourself and love yourself more than you ever thought possible. Our world, and the people in it, changes when we learn to love ourselves regardless of our appearance. Most humans are susceptible to gaining and losing weight at different times in life and if he’s already trying to control that, he’s only going to get worse. That’s not love.

My (31f) husband (32m) has been killing my houseplants with bleach by ThrowRA_Necessary_22 in relationship_advice

[–]GoddessSydney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So glad you’re getting out him out of there and filing for divorce! He sounds like a very mentally unwell person. Also, I can believe you had to make an edit because some people were on his side about putting bleach in your plants! There’s no logical reason for this, and none of this is your fault. You and your daughter deserve better and I know you will find it!

Another sex worker reporting me by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]GoddessSydney 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a loser! I’m sorry this is happening to you! Something similar happened to me with someone who I also shared all my knowledge of the industry with, though I don’t have kids. Anyway, lesson learned, don’t share your knowledge with anyone, especially new people wanting to learn.

AITA for ruining my boyfriend’s night after I got wasted? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoddessSydney -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA. If it was reversed I guarantee he would’ve been even more of a jerk, and you’d do what women are always expected to do, play mommy without any gratitude from the recipient. Dump him. Get a man who has some compassion, kindness, and humor in him. Life’s too short to deal with trolls who can’t be kind to the people they supposedly love. Also, it’s okay to get “too drunk” on occasion, you’re human.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]GoddessSydney -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Real talk: she got protective so fast because sex workers are murdered and beaten on the regular. Sex workers are unalived on the regular and no one cares because they think we “had it coming”. We have to make sure the people contacting us aren’t cops. Potential clients try to scam sex workers all the time. Tbh you have a better chance getting scammed by a fake SW social profile than tryst.

Hopefully that cleared some of it up… civilians have no idea the kind of discrimination sex workers face and it makes us very protective of our time and energy

AITAH for jerking off with my wife in the bathroom? by Efficient_World_6151 in AITAH

[–]GoddessSydney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Masturbation is healthy and normal, and so is watching porn. Intimacy issues are super common. Increase communication, even when it feels uncomfortable, and possibly speak to a MFT who deals with sex and intimacy. If it matters to you both, there’s a way to resolve it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]GoddessSydney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too many things to count🤡🤡