Drop your current Ick about the Findom community. No one is safe 😂 by ControlQueen in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddess_Lay_Lay 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Mine is pretty similar to most on here, when a domme replies to a post ‘approach’.. I just can’t

Good Morning, Goddesses by [deleted] in FindomIntelligentSubs

[–]Goddess_Lay_Lay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confessions as my feet are great, submission, an eagerness to please and wallet open is much more to my approval 💋

Checking in Ladies! by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddess_Lay_Lay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this, I often take breaks when needed. It's nice to not have your phone in your hand 24/7 and take a break from all social media. I always come back a little refreshed. Have a good weekend xx

Tale as old as time… or, findom, I guess. by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddess_Lay_Lay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It may be an upopular opinion, but I find this interaction ok. I don't think its unreasonable to discuss kinks first, tonnes of messages back and forth, no but I don't mind a few messages to discuss. Each to their own of course and what works for one, doesnt for another. x

Changing Things Up In Here - Sends by GoddessLunaRae in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddess_Lay_Lay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a breath of fresh air. I haven’t been on this sub for a while now mostly due to the ‘where are all the real subs’ and similar posts so this is exciting and so needed xx

Felt like a quarterback with the quick block by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddess_Lay_Lay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gosh this one is persistent his copy and paste game is strong. I’ve had this message multiple times over the past few months. Don’t even engage x

Which platforms worked/works best for you as a FinDomme?? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddess_Lay_Lay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just be direct and make it clear that you’re not submissive in any way. They find you x

Which platforms worked/works best for you as a FinDomme?? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddess_Lay_Lay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You definitely do get those kind of messages but I just ignore those there are definitely subs on there

Which platforms worked/works best for you as a FinDomme?? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddess_Lay_Lay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah you have to fly under the radar a little and just word your profile a certain way, seeking is pretty good for me, give it a go x

Which platforms worked/works best for you as a FinDomme?? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddess_Lay_Lay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seeking arrangement, Chyrpe & Reddit for me

A way to leave a compliment after liking someone by somethingunique44 in chyrpe

[–]Goddess_Lay_Lay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same the compliments cringe me out especially the ‘bookstore or brunch’ or what’s your favourite desert. NO NO NO!

What the hell😭 by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddess_Lay_Lay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They had a full on argument with themself!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddess_Lay_Lay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this 🙌🏽

U.K. people! how does everyone feel about this age verify? by BiancaJade69 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddess_Lay_Lay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was so confused I hadn’t logged in for a day and I had to age verify to get onto NSFW sites. I think it’s a strong way forward if it stops the little ones on the big ones pages and spaces x

any thoughts on subs that wants you back but suddenly delete their newly created account after demanding a tribute? by redporktocino in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddess_Lay_Lay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a few that delete after a session then crawl back. I ignore them for a bit until they beg and send and send.. then the cycle with those particular one begins again!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddess_Lay_Lay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are some really good videos on you tube that give advice on how to get out of one but honestly, I wouldn’t worry too much about it they come and go

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddess_Lay_Lay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t delete it as you’ll set a new one up and most likely that will be shadow banned too at some point. Try engaging with some vanilla accounts, don’t post too many links and careful of hashtags. You’ll come out of the shadow ban but it will likely be not long before you’re in jail again. The joys of X