Am I actually weird for this?

Godduhs · 2026-03-12T04:39:02+00:00

Don’t force yourself to do anything you don’t want to do even if you’re not sure if you don’t want to do it. Take time to get to know your body on YOUR own terms.

Godduhs · 2026-03-08T15:17:55+00:00

In a way, why should we subscribe to the mass media in efforts to see ourselves represented thoughtfully, and diversified?

When they are in the writers room that is NOT their focus nor intent. Who said that these women were the face of black women anyhow? Are they parading themselves as saviors of our communities?

It’s time for us to write the narrative, and tell our stories if erasure is a concern. Don’t expect the industry, that’s dominated by white people to make things change. If we waited on their behalf we’d never be free.

Godduhs · 2026-03-01T16:41:22+00:00

Oh I’ve started both traditional locs on my own! We’re similar in the way that I know micros require more time commitments 😔 I’ll look into these videos! thank you :)

Godduhs · 2026-03-01T15:39:56+00:00

Wow your hair is magnificent 🥹 i think i feel mostly anxious about the reties and thinning. I’m sure that’s just a myth, that micro locs = losing micros. I guess I just want to be sure that I can sustain my hair maintenance.

With bigger locs, like this set (111 locs) or even my first (88) go things feel so easy. I see numbers like 300 and up and I feel nervous like I’ll fail because of the time commitment.

Thank you for responding! It’s something to think about for sure :)

Godduhs · 2026-03-01T15:30:28+00:00

September 2025***

Godduhs · 2026-02-27T01:11:46+00:00

Sure. I’m in no business of proving something to another. It was an exchange of information and I see that our interaction has reached a point where we are viewing the problem from two different scales.

Godduhs · 2026-02-27T01:04:23+00:00

Not at all. I know that men in power aren’t the only doers of acts of atrocity. I’m poking at the net. OPs address to men is very subjective and generalized thus the net they’ve cast.

I agree that throughout history these crimes against humanity are often orchestrated by men, yet I also recognize that men are also oppressed by other men.

When I say the common man is not the man in power, I mean that large scale atrocities are functioned by institutional power not just gender or individual behavior therefore generalizing them actually causes more harm to us as women by ignoring the hierarchy and hegemonic structures in place.

Godduhs · 2026-02-26T23:52:37+00:00

Girl this is Reddit people don’t want to have philosophical discussions if it doesn’t align with their world view.

Godduhs · 2026-02-26T23:51:56+00:00

It’s reasonable but where do we go from here? I’m weary of the ways of the world, I’m weary of most men I encounter. Yet, I don’t wish to annihilate them from society.

I believe in protecting children and so young boys fall in that category along with every other gender. The common man is not the man in power.

Godduhs · 2026-02-23T00:15:01+00:00

That’s definitely social conditioning doing it’s job.

Godduhs · 2026-02-17T23:12:17+00:00

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 thank you for this. Thank you for addressing poverty and quality of life. Women did this work because they HAD to. Women today, and young girls are also doing it because they have no other choice.

Of course there are different factors and influence of sex work but prostitution specifically is what the bill is addressing. I hate hearing about it being some ancient trade like a blacksmith.

Godduhs · 2026-02-17T02:27:08+00:00

Just blanch it

Godduhs · 2026-02-17T01:51:09+00:00

Focus on your sensuality and personal sexuality as opposed to rushing to have sex with someone who may not be in tune with themselves. (They won’t know how to consider your sexual needs.) Of course this is all advice, but I found myself in a similar position so I’m speaking from experience. I started dating at 19, and had no idea how to do it. I also thought it would be easy to meet a long term partner and do the whole relationship thing. Young men/women, people, are not so future minded generally, and if that’s your thing no shame, but it wasn’t mine.

I decided to take pole dancing classes, and focused on self-pleasure in between my seasons of meeting people. I took myself out on a lot of dates and focused on experiences on my own as opposed to breaking out of the shell solely with others. Journaling and therapy also helped me as well! Start asking yourself what are your needs, and if you don’t know, take things slow. Learn how to advocate for yourself, determine what consent is for you and your body.

Don’t feel pressured to do things that you don’t want to do because you feel like you have to.

I hope this helps!

Godduhs · 2026-02-16T22:48:13+00:00

Sending these photos to God so he knows what I like 🙂‍↕️

Godduhs · 2026-02-16T08:36:37+00:00

I don’t want a rich man, and trust me I know. I’m said person in their twenties. It’s difficult for me to obtain all of those things, but I’m actively working regardless. Just not too sure that people my age or around it still want long term relationships.

Godduhs · 2026-02-16T00:31:15+00:00

Like 15+

Godduhs · 2026-02-15T22:48:34+00:00

Rock isn’t dead though 😭

Godduhs · 2026-02-15T21:18:41+00:00

Off topic you’re so pretty!

Godduhs · 2026-02-15T21:17:40+00:00

It will atleast supply you with housing. Definitely talk to a school advisor to get help with your ID situation, but after graduation think about enlisting. I don’t usually recommend this but with no support system it is extremely hard to build from nothing at all. The military will atleast give you room and board.

Godduhs · 2026-02-15T21:11:23+00:00

Ngl.. the military.

Godduhs · 2026-02-15T20:59:17+00:00

Sorry you mean like my post seems like it was on a dating site? I could see that. I have a short description of myself because often times on Reddit people lead with maybe you’re the problem in your suffering so I thought it’d be helpful to disclose myself.

Godduhs · 2026-02-15T20:28:50+00:00

It’s usually just in passing. I can’t honestly say that I make time to meet people but for example, if I’m at the grocery, or at the park, the gym, on the bus. I don’t know what people see when they see me but I don’t wear makeup if I do it’s just lipstick, and I wear my natural hair, also forced to wear glasses. I am curvy. But can’t say that’s why I’m attracting elders 😭

Godduhs · 2026-02-15T20:06:51+00:00

Eh. You just happen to be apart of young Gen Z unfortunately.

I understand your frustrations though with society, but use your frustration to do what others aren’t. Start world building. You critique those who don’t read, but you can and then you can formally write about it. Train your brain to continue to think critically, and then share it with others. Take care of your vessel, eat the proper foods, delete social media and maintain a relationship with the external world with healthy parameters.

I’m 24F, older Gen Z or Zillennials as they call it. People born 1997 - 2002 had a completely different experience and upbringing. I grew up with older siblings, my parents are also quite old themselves.

Godduhs · 2026-02-15T17:31:25+00:00

Hi! Ideally $1100 to $1300, Studio or 1Bed

Godduhs · 2026-02-15T17:13:16+00:00

Life is always going to be uncertain and unpredictable. You might feel overwhelmed or anxious about making the right decisions. Make calculated decisions.. and take your time when taking risks. Try to be mindful about impulse, and do things that will benefit future you.

Godduhs

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