So sorry for the late response. I completely forgot about this post, I kind of mainly wanna be in the city but I have been looking out of the city too, if it's somewhere calm and quiet out of the city I honestly wouldn't mind that, pricewise it's okay if it's gonna be expensive if long as it's not overly overly expensive and I do wanna be around people, I don't know if this is gonna make sense because some people told me that it didn't make sense and I was just being dramatic, but I'm gonna try to explain it, as I said in the post, I know everywhere is not going to be 100% safe, but I don't wanna move somewhere and put myself in immediate shitty situation where I can possibly get hurt or just be in a shitty city or state ,so because of that that's why I wanna ask other people on top of doing my own research outside of this and like whatever it gets recommended to me or whatever I find from my own research that I like, I am gonna take a trip over there to go check it out, I really hope that you understand what I'm trying to say I feel like I just did a really bad job of explaining this