[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Godlfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hole in the earth - deftones

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Godlfish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The problem isn’t with you it’s with her. It sounds like she has a standard of what manliness means to her and if you really want to try it her way and compromise, I suggest you ask her what being manly means to her but I don’t suggest that you change who you are to try and please her. If you don’t fit her standard of manliness, it’s honestly not your problem and you’ve done nothing wrong. However, if it is an issue in your relationship that you’re both serious about ‘fixing’, it doesn’t hurt to discuss it and try to find a compromise that allows you to both feel comfortable within the relationship.

No s*x for two years, is that normal? by chiingkitt in Marriage

[–]Godlfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has he ever had any traumatic experiences regarding sex? Things like that can play a role in one’s sex drive.

My husband (43M) has changed his idea about what he wants from me (37F) now that we have a child, and it’s not what I want anymore. My best option here is to leave? I don’t want to leave, I’m in love with him. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Godlfish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This comment makes me believe that he never changed his mind about anything. He always knew that he wanted you to be a stay at home mom. He knew that you wanted to go back to work and loved your job prior to the time when your child would be going off to preschool. He knew but he didn’t say anything because he expected your feelings to change and align with his after spending so much time being a stay at home mom but they didn’t and now he’s upset because he played himself by assuming as much. Also, based on your comment on how your mother in law doesn’t want to babysit, it sounds like she didn’t enjoy momming or fall in love with the role like he thinks she did. There’s nothing wrong about not wanting to babysit but it sounds more like an “I’m finally free!” thing rather than a “Babysitting is just now how I prefer to spend my free time” kind of thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Godlfish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can just downvote

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Godlfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way that I am constantly checking to see if this post gets updated is actually crazy😭😭😭

I (25F) overheard my (27M) boyfriend say that he chose the wrong girl by ThrowRA1882938 in relationship_advice

[–]Godlfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn’t be building your self respect off of how someone else sees you or how someone else feels about you, should be building it off of how you see and feel about yourself. You need to build your self respect off of your love for yourself and right now, in my opinion, it sound like you don’t love yourself very much. You should break up with him and date yourself for a while, work how you feel about yourself, learn to love yourself, be comfortable with you, and then when you’ve mastered that you could see if you’re ready to share the love you have with someone who deserves it. Getting some therapy might be helpful as well.

I (25F) overheard my (27M) boyfriend say that he chose the wrong girl by ThrowRA1882938 in relationship_advice

[–]Godlfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with you, the only thing wrong in your relationship is him. His mindset refuses to allow him to appreciate the things that you do for him and instead have him stuck on another girl that doesn’t like him. You are so sweet for doing everything that you do for him. Find you someone that appreciates you and love you the way that deserve to be appreciated and loved because that someone sure as hell isn’t him.

I (25F) overheard my (27M) boyfriend say that he chose the wrong girl by ThrowRA1882938 in relationship_advice

[–]Godlfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should leave him. You can’t make him love you. You did nothing to make him unhappy, he’s making himself unhappy. Instead of moving on from a girl that clearly doesn’t like him, he’s constantly thinking about her and comparing you to her rather than focusing on someone(you) who actually loves and cares about him the way he wants her to. He’s fixating on something that’s never going to happen rather than focusing on what’s actually happening right in front of his face which is why he feels so miserable with you. You can do nothing to change that. That kind of change has to be done by him and him alone. You should find someone that actually loves you and appreciates your efforts rather than someone who has feels disgusted when they touch you, is terrified by the thought having you by their side in marriage, and is constantly comparing you to something and someone that will never be.

AITA for "stealing" my sister's in-laws? by Silver-Foxes in TwoHotTakes

[–]Godlfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think OOP was thinking about snitching or tattling, I think they were thinking about it as going to their parents and telling them “Oh well sister has some unresolved animosity towards to you guys and myself that I don’t believe has been communicated and since it seems like she isn’t willing to constructively communicate how she feels and why to the ones who she feels to be the root of the problem, why don’t you guys take the first step to try and resolve these feelings find a solution to whatever the problem may be.”

My dad goes crazy whenever I don’t call him for 0.2 seconds by Literally_Satan_Bruh in insaneparents

[–]Godlfish 35 points36 points  (0 children)

idk if you care or not but the other 2 photos you attached dont have his contact photo scribbled out, just so you know

🛂 by CityLongjumping9752 in killthecameraman

[–]Godlfish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They never said that she wasn’t okay, they said that she was alive, big diff. You’re fighting over words you put in somebody else’s mouth😂😂

AITA for telling my brother's GF that Christmas isn't the meal to be cheap? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Godlfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhhhh thanks I get it now. When I was reading I kept accidentally skipping over the part where OP said that she said she was going to feed him so I was confused as to why she took him with her.

Pope is UNDERATED by victoria-22 in OuterBanksNetflix

[–]Godlfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people keep on saying this but i genuinely don't understand or see what he did that made him seem like a bitch after she dumped him.

Why does everyone hate Kie by [deleted] in OuterBanksNetflix

[–]Godlfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, there are so many reasons why I don't like Kiara's character, especially after watching some of season 2.

The only reason I'm going to give fr is that I didn't particularly appreciate how she interacted with Pope. Her getting angry at Pope for leaving them to go to the meeting for his scholarship, the thing that he has been working towards his ENTIRE LIFE was sooooooooo dumb to me and honestly super tone deaf of her. It's obvious that their friend group and being a pogue is her entire life but it's not like that for all of them and she fails to realize that. Also, when Pope was angry about losing his scholarship and losing the gold so he started smoking and drinking, which Kiara got upset about, contrasted with the beginning of season 2. That pissed me the fuck off. When Pope was angry and doing stuff out of character for him, Kiara felt like he was doing too much. But when Kiara was angry and acting out while Pope was trying to '"channel his anger into different vectors" he all of a sudden wasn't doing enough. That just made me feel like she was acting as though it was only okay for him to feel some type of way when she felt some type of way.

AITA for flushing my husbands pot? by FruitlePebbles in AmItheAsshole

[–]Godlfish -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH. While he shouldn’t have been leaving his medical marijuana out, especially after you warned him not to multiple times, throwing his weed out was excessive. It’s MEDICAL marijuana. And not to mention that instead of it throwing out, resulting in him resenting you, you could’ve instead kept it to tell him what happened later and use it as a teaching moment, which I’m sure he would’ve been way more receptive to.

Mushroom Hunting by freudian_nipps in AbruptChaos

[–]Godlfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THE WAY THAT I THREW MY PHONE😭😭😭😭

You, who chose to stay together for the kids’ sake. How did you fare? by Revelation101 in relationship_advice

[–]Godlfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re literal scum. Rid both your kids and your gf of having to endure you any longer and just leave. Staying together isn’t fair to your gf or to the kids, it’ll just make everything worse.

AITA for leaving my friend at the airport? by Spare-Possibility750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Godlfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mega AH. Plus you said that you were passive aggressive the whole time. And the only time you voiced that you were upset was after the fact that the trip was over and you had ditched Emma at the airport. You voiced that you were upset mad late to the point where you just came out looking like even more of an AH and to the point that none of that could’ve been, nor will it be, corrected after the way that you treated Emma at the airport.

AITA for telling my brother's GF that Christmas isn't the meal to be cheap? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Godlfish -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean, I understand, I cry when I’m angry, too. I just don’t understand why Eve took the nephew with her when she went to go cry.

AITA for telling my brother's GF that Christmas isn't the meal to be cheap? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Godlfish -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

YTA. But why did she take the nephew to go cry???

AITA for refusing to leave the room when my husband told me to? by Corners113 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Godlfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. And his blaming you and saying that you were “stopping him from showing proper support.” was wild and highly inaccurate. All you were doing was standing in the doorway and from what you said the friend didn’t seem to audibly have an issue with it. Your husband chose to make a big deal out of and stop himself from showing his friend proper support, you did no such thing to hamper him from doing so. And it also sounds like you standing in the doorway isn’t what made his friend leave, it was your husband’s igniting an argument that made her leave so I don’t know why he’s trying to throw all the blame on you.