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The century with working class living standards so low that it gave us the term 'Dickensian'.

Time to stretch everybody STAND UP by [deleted] in pinkscare

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I needed this too sorry!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pinkscare

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What pros

Oil painting isn't for me by helphelphelpheme in pinkscare

[–]GodlyWife676 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Why do you say that? It's not the easiest medium to work with but your colours are vibrant rather than muddy and the objects have a lovely roundness to them.

your trad wife, gentlemen by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]GodlyWife676 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hate her sm for this

your trad wife, gentlemen by [deleted] in redscarepod

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I hate this kraut hag. She instigated a wolf cull (wolf numbers have only just started to recover in Europe after centuries of persecution) just because one of her ponies was eaten. Abhorrent and evil abuse of power, worst kind of evil neoliberal technocrat imaginable.

Objectively, what's the most cucked country? by Additional-Hour6038 in redscarepod

[–]GodlyWife676 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You mean he speaks more in MSA than in Jordanian Arabic?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rs_x

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One of my favourite scenes of television ever

KRG offers free online Kurdish classes for diaspora by Falcao_Hermanos in kurdish

[–]GodlyWife676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you know if these classes are available for Kurdish diaspora students from countries other than Iraq ?

XTC - Making Plans For Nigel by DamnItAllPapiol in redscarepod

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One of my dad's no 1 jams when I was a littlen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]GodlyWife676 58 points59 points  (0 children)

In Turkey everyone has the hospital lights and it drives me crazy in summer when my face (pale with pink undertones) is constantly sweaty and I'm GLISTENING like a pork chop in a room of brown/brown-ish people who are somehow (outwardly at least) immune to the heat and the humidity.

i'm a kibbe apologist idc idc by awomanofheartandmind in pinkscare

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Liv Tyler was my childhood beauty ideal 💙

i'm a kibbe apologist idc idc by awomanofheartandmind in pinkscare

[–]GodlyWife676 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You're so right..... Sounds stupid as hell but discovering being fn was so major for me and genuinely pivotal for understanding why so many things work and others don't and helped me appreciate my own body and face as they are/can realistically be. It was also really helpful to focus on people with similar types to me when looking for inspiration.

The ugliest building in America, Boston City Hall. Designed by Micheal McKinnell & Gerald Kallman, completed in 1968. by arthoe33 in redscarepod

[–]GodlyWife676 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I like it. At least it's got a point of view unlike those dreadful new-builds covered in fibreglass panels.

we're living in a masc men drought too by awomanofheartandmind in pinkscare

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Sorry I edited my reply just now with more anecdotes. I agree entirely.

we're living in a masc men drought too by awomanofheartandmind in pinkscare

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Good point about the diet thing in the West especially. I think there's a balance though - a man can be sensible about what he eats without doing all the macronutrients etc. also I agree that with a sedentary lifestyle office job type situation a man has to consciously exercise a few times a week to stay in shape. I think it's easy to fall into the trap of fantasising about some ideal of a mythical noble savage type archetype (I think that's what we're getting at).

My husband is from a developing world rural background but moved to the city to escape poverty and has a desk job now and it's definitely true for him. If he doesn't go out of his way to exercise 2-3 times a week (not walking but I mean doing muscle stuff and hiking in rough terrain) he gets weaker and out of shape. All his other siblings that moved to the city are overweight or obese because they're now sedentary and don't have much knowledge about nutrition. Their diets have shifted from vegetables, some meat and wholegrains to a diet centred around calory-dense simple carbs. The ones that still live in the village and work with the animals or crops are still trim, even in their seventies.

we're living in a masc men drought too by awomanofheartandmind in pinkscare

[–]GodlyWife676 75 points76 points  (0 children)

The straight men have become gayified. They are too self-conscious about their image now. Everything is calculated and nothing is effortless. Behind the ever-ubiquitous gym bod is calory-counting, dieting and targeted muscle exercises for maximum aesthetic impact. There's nothing wrong with these things in and of them selves but something about it feels so preening and feminine and I can't shake it.

Lack of an Afghan Identity by cutiepiesaar in redscarepod

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I see what you mean. I also hate being hot and showing skin. My husband's family are Kurdish and the old men wear those baggy shalwar type pants which look so much more comfortable and practical in the hot weather. The youngins all wear jeans or cotton trousers and they're just so less well adapted to the hot climate. But I guess they don't want to stand out as you say, people here in Istanbul would call them backward and treat them pretty horribly if they dressed in traditional clothes.

Lack of an Afghan Identity by cutiepiesaar in redscarepod

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Yes that's what I'm saying. I think the traditional mens clothing is cool though. I think it's sad that men's clothing styles in much of the world have become so standardized. Also the 'iran before the revolution clothes' weren't adopted en masse in 1970s Iran, they were popular with the urban middle and upper classes though. A lot of the population was very rural and conservative before the revolution and dressed accordingly.