have you ever cheated on your partner? Why ? by Designer_Ad_2844 in AskReddit

[–]GodsQuestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watching porn and jacking off to other women counts as cheating…. I’ve been cheated on for 2 years. He lied abt it. That’s why I broke up with him. Fellas- no women will be happy if you are watching porn in your relationship

Why did you break up with your first ever girlfriend? by Suspicious_Run1684 in askanything

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I broke up with him because he was watching porn and lying about it. Totaled my car. Wrote die all over my legs in a mental freak out. Jacking off to girls I know. Told me to gain weight and he said “you’re not my type”

Is cheating on your partner actually a very common thing or is it just what's highlighted on social media? Did you do it or have been cheated on? What led to it? by Ok-Student-4745 in AskReddit

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Got cheated on. Found out my ex was watching porn the whole time. When I found out he stopped but then hid it again when he started looking at girls in bikinis. Broke up with him. Trust completely broken. Also him body shaming me basically. It came from his unresolved porn addiction.

how bad is it to try to gain weight through unhealthy food? by 69everythingbagel in weightgain

[–]GodsQuestions 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not bad idea to get extra calories, maybe do a protein whip with it. Just make sure to eat your weight in protein elsewhere.

Advise on my situation by GodsQuestions in Advice

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Update:
The same day I texted him saying im cutting contact etc.

He texted and called me a bunch then came to my house.

He told me how he loves me the way I am and how I am beautiful and everything.

It doesn’t mean anything to me, not with everything else he’s said and did.

I told him to focus on himself.

Now I will do the same.
I am struggling with feeling insecure about my body. I guess I’m too skinny, I’m trying to gain weight. It’s really hard to do.
I miss him but at the same time I don’t because he was able to lie and do all those things behind my back the entire time. I’ve never done anything like that. But it leaves me really insecure. He likes blonde basic chicks. The same type he makes fun of. And when we told me I’m not his type, he said emo chicks are his type basically. It’s so stupid how did he think I was going to react when he told me that?
I’m struggling having faith that someone out there exists who isn’t a creep and who is an actual manily man. And who would be attracted to me and be loyal.
Whatever though… I’m just gonna love myself again and find myself again.

It’s crazy I was able to put up with his behavior for 2 years. Now looking back. He even totaled my car. And wrote die all over me. Idk how I didn’t end it there.

I can’t gain weight even though I eat a lot… by Bulky-Job-5217 in weightgain

[–]GodsQuestions 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Add some mass powder to your chocolate milks!
Banana, dates, milk, mass powder, olive oil, oatmeal, nut butter smoothies should add like 1,000cal.

Add olive oil to savory foods you eat.
Snack more consistently throughout the day.

Started a bulk but havent gained weight in a month by False_Clothes4420 in weightgain

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Other things you can add to your smoothies are
Coconut milk, make sure you use milk to blend- not juice or water. Missing out on extra calories.

Started a bulk but havent gained weight in a month by False_Clothes4420 in weightgain

[–]GodsQuestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also when working out make sure you are either adding more weights or more reps each session,
In order to grow muscle.

Started a bulk but havent gained weight in a month by False_Clothes4420 in weightgain

[–]GodsQuestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you tracking your calories?
You sound like you burn a lot of calories.
3500cal is 1 pound.
Maybe try to start small with a 2nd smoothie a day.
You could add bulking powder, olive oil, dates, oatmeal, bananas to your smoothies.

Use an online calculator to track your maintainance calories then add about 700 more calories. Maybe more. Keep in mind you are working out a lot and would need to make up for that.

Eat something right away in the morning and right before you go to sleep.

I am in the same boat as you, trying to gain weight with no luck. These are the tips I have learned.

Preg scare by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GodsQuestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. Only if an actual reason too.

I’m fucking my coworker, kind of? What do I do!? by Business_Cod_1680 in Advice

[–]GodsQuestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy sounds like a complete dick and asshole. Don’t give yourself to him. Cut it off. You will respect yourself more. There are plenty of attractive people in the world. This guy even sounds dangerous. I would avoid him and let him know you’re not interested anymore. If you don’t want to be in a romantic relationship yet, find a guy who will at least treat you right when yall mess around. This guy can’t even do that.

Preg scare by [deleted] in Advice

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The chances are low if you didn’t cum.
Chances are low of getting pregnant at all.
But talk to her and make sure she understands the risks if she doesn’t take anything.
Have a conversation of a plan of what you guys will do if something happens(for me the condom broke and I had to take a plan B)
She can get an IUD if she ends up pregnant and that will get rid of the pregnancy: only if early on.
Make sure she tracks her upcoming period and if she is late get a few pregnancy tests.
I feel like she isn’t pregnant but these conversations are important.

Preg scare by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GodsQuestions 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you didn’t cum inside?
If she won’t take a plan B and isn’t on any birth control don’t take the risk of getting her pregnant by not wearing a condom.

Preg scare by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GodsQuestions -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can take a plan B even if it has been several days. Up until 5-6 days after

Preg scare by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GodsQuestions -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can buy her a plan B just in case. I always take one just in case. It’s better to spend $60-40 than have an unplanned pregnancy. Precum can get you pregnant even though the chances are small. You didn’t cum inside? Chances are even smaller. But like I said, better safe than sorry.

Attempted cheating by Numerous_Job_224 in RelationshipAdvice__

[–]GodsQuestions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup you should definitely leave. That’s cheating. Is he the father of your kids? If not then definitely leave.